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10 Things Every Woman Needs To Remember.



One
You are a prayer in the most holy mouth, the space between clasped hands, a landscape so picturesque, any angle. You are a reminder that magic exists.

Two

Oh they will stop and stare, you most divine creature with unapologetic skin and fearless features. Learn to take a compliment. Settle into being the center of things.

Three

When you fall in love, let it be with a person who asks nothing of you. Your existence should be enough. If they do not kiss you urgently and often, find someone who understands that lips in the presence of love should ignite passion.

Four

Keep a few great friends. When they tell you harsh truths, learn to listen for the love. Growth is necessary and annoying at times, but look and you will always find the silver lining.

Five

Buy the perfect shade of red lipstick. It, like the perfect black dress, are weapons. Use them at will.
(Speaking of red...)

Six

Stop hiding your tampons. You are a woman. You bleed. Grown people know this. If he is afraid of menstruation, he is not prepared to be inside of you.

Seven

Do not apologize for existing, for being yourself. Apologize when you are not.

Eight

If you work hard, ask for a raise. Find your backbone and attach it to your standards. You deserve the money that correlates to how hard you work.

Nine

Feed yourself kind words, chocolate, quality people, random first date, solitude, orgasms, and books. You will need really, really good books. Live in the story of them.

Ten

If all else fails, repeat after me: I am enough.

I am enough. I am most certainly enough.



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You are most certainly enough. Good morning. 

Heading for a meeting which has a duration that I cannot ascertain, so if I'm MIA you know why. Do have a great day guys. I have so much to share with you, I just don't know how to say it. 

Comments

  1. Nice piece,I use red lips stick but it doesn't fit me,so I have stopped trying, maybe I wud stop hiding my tampons now.Lol have a great day T,but plss don't MIA for too long. Morning TTB readers,morning T.

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    1. Find the shade that suits you, red lipstick suits everbody

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    2. Have you tried ruby woo?It suits almost every dark colored woman I know

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    3. Anon am not anywhere near dark sef,am a very fair person, so maybe Dats yy,people tell me I look like a witch when I use it,and funny thing is I wear just little.

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    4. Maybel,red does not fit everybody oh..I try it too and I look one kain one kain...All the best Thelma....

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    5. Lol@ kain kian. Yetunde abeg leave me. It doesn't fit me sincerely, I don try both d sharp red n cool ones but ur lix above shows u used a red lip stick n it's cool. Abi I dey see double?

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  3. Awww thnks T...do av a blessed day too.

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  4. Points 3 and 6 are on point. All the best at the meeting...

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  5. I hope they'd remember whn d need arises. It only takes one bad bwoy dating most of these women and he'd hv them feeling worthless and doubting dr existense.


    Morning guys. It's really been a while..

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  6. Learn to take a compliment.

    I am enough. I am most certainly enough.

    Thanks for this Tee. All the best in your meeting

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  7. I am graciously enough...

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  8. Yep,,,i am certainly ENOUGH...dats why i left d guy who told me before before that my b**bs and bum were not 'enough' for him!...now he is saying na small pickin dey do am den...yinmu....#JoyDaNuGirl

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    1. LolLol,bbm smiley rotfl. The guy is damn funny. I can imagine. Lol

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  9. I love point nine. Quality people, orgasm and books... yep! certainly a plus to my already enough self.

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  10. I am most certainly enough! That's a line I won't forget in a hurry.
    Adaobi

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