Good day T, please I need you and your readers to help me judge this matter. I travelled to see my bobo last month and I stayed over for a few days. We have similar body frames so when we're in doors I wear his vests or tshirts and he does not seem to mind. When I went last November I saw one vest that I really liked and he said I could have it. Actually he has a lot of those casual vests and tshirts that people wear indoors, he travels a lot and buys everytime. So when I went last month I did laundry and needed something to wear after so I wore one of the vests. I really liked it and I brought it back home with me. See, maybe it was wrong and maybe I shud have asked him 1st but the truth is that they r so many dat I didn't thnk he wud notice, besides they r just vest tops that one does not wear out and are not expensive at all, also I did not even think he wud mind at all, after all I am his girl friend abi? My mind was not even there when I packed it with the rest of my things till he called me on Sunday evening. He asked if I took any of his vest and I said yes. Next thing I know my bobo lost his cool and started to shout at me. He said when I asked for one he gave me, now I came and took at another one. He said that the one I took is his favourite one and that what do I expect him to do now? I apologized but to God I thot it was all a joke. But he continued to rant at me and say he hated what I had done. When I tried to defend myself and explain he said he was not in the mood and let's not talk about it again then he hung up. I sent him bbm messages that night to explain and apologise but he did not reply me at all. It is almost one week now and he has not called me or sent me any message.
Please I am confused, is what I did so terrible? Is a guy supposed to be so angry that his girlfriend took something as trivial as a vest? And we are not kiddies at all, he is 33! My aunty says maybe he thinks I'm taking his thing somewhere, as in taking them to do something fetish and maybe that is why is he so angry. I just don't know what to think, if it was me I would be over happy and even flattered that my bobo is sharing my stuff with me. I know we have not dated for too long, only seven month but isn't that long enough? I am very confused, I promised I will not call but I thought he will call me by now. Or do you think he is just looking for am excuse to break up with me? Things have been going very well before that phone call so I don't even know what to think. Please what should I do?