Good day T and TTB readers. I've a little problem bothering me. By God's grace I'm getting married this year to the love of my life. I really love this guy but the problem is his past. He has dated and slept too many girls in the past, I don't suspect him of cheating on me and he treats me very well but am worried about his past. The main problem is that among the girls he has dated he has dated three of my close friends at different times over the years and also some of my acquaintances. I knew most of this before I agreed to date him but now that we're engaged it worries me. When we're in bed I always imagine him with my friends and I wonder if he did the same things he does with me, with them. I wonder if he's comparing me to any one of them and things like that. Also the idea of my friends knowing those intimate and sexual details of my husband irritates me. I know that each of them that dated him thought he will marry them although he never told them that he will and now I feel as if they look at me two ways. One, with envy because I got the ring that they all wanted, two, with disrespect because I'm am marrying somebody that has slept with everybody. I don't know if it is all in my head or if it is worth calling off the wedding for. He is a good man and he is not a womanizer, I know this for a fact because two out of my friends were the ones that went after him, but he has has led a very promiscuous past. Do you think I will lose my respect if I marry him? Please I nid answers. Thank u.
Also t please can we discuss all these past bedmates regarding to soul ties. I am not a virgin but my body count is very low. But he and all these girls he has slept with (he does not know his body count anymore), if soul ties are real then what could be the implication of this for him or both of us as husband and wife?