You see, I just turned 24 this January….. I am damn scared, although everyone (family and few friends) thinks I should not be. Wait for it, I’m scared because I think I might not find someone to build a life with. Now let me establish a background just so you all can help assess my predicament. I do not aim to sound vain at all; I am pretty, (no in-fact beautiful winning several beauty pageants all through high school and university, men see me and stare, trying all sorts to get acquainted with my MSc degree. Therein lies the problem I do not seem to be able to meet young guys interested in building a relationship, as all these men are mostly married or just basically looking for short term pleasure (I also do not dress in any provocative manner to warrant such attention). Thelma, I feel like this write up does not convey the way I’m feeling right now. Its just too much to convey in words, it also does not help that I live on the outskirts of Lagos and practically has a very low social life (mostly indoors during weekends; work Mon-Fri). This might qualify as a ramble but one of this days I might send you more details. I just need you to post this so I can get your opinion as well as that of TT readers.