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John Legend&Chrissy Teigen. Lord this is the kind of love I want but myblog readers say I'm asking for too much.

Maybe it's because February is the month of love, and this week is the week itself.. I don't know what it is but these two make my toes curl and my belly flutter. Now, I'll be the first to scream "don't get carried away by what you see in the pictures", but with these two I easily get carried away. No relationship or marriage is perfect, I'm sure theirs isn't. But damn, look at the body language between these two, the shouldering chemistry, the obvious attraction, the love and tenderness. 

You know what I particularly love about them, whether they're posing for the camera or they're just going about their normal business, they're always just so in tune with each other. I see a lot of love, happiness, playfulness and affection. Indeed it's only a love like this that could have inspired one of the greatest contemporary love songs; All of Me by John Legend.

And just by looking at their pictures, it's easy to tell that these two have really hot/steamy/amazing/fantabulous sex. Hehe. 

And y'all keep telling me not to want a love like this!

Dear Lord, I know I might be asking for too much, but You are the doer of the impossible, so I know you can do this for me. All I'm asking for is a lover with whom I can share love so deep, pure and true. One with whom I can talk, laugh, play and be myself with. One whom I'll call both lover and best friend. And when the storms come together we'll stand firm and weather each one. Amen.

If you're single and believe that God can do this for you, let me hear you say... Amen. 


  1. Amen to your prayer for yourself.

    All of me is nice, but i prefer "you and I" (aint nobody in the world). That was my husbands first dance and my ringtone for the hubstar and his ringtone for me.

    I believe the key is friendship and just plain ol' genuity.

  2. Beautiful people. The pic inside the restaurant, look at those other

  3. Now, why wouldn't anybody - be it male or female, wish for a love like this?
    By the way, does the restaurant picture present a sharp contrast - kimye or is it my imagination?


    1. My thoughts are like this. They say a picture can speak a thousand words, the question is are those words just pure positives and no negatives? That depends on the viewer.

      Some peeps can look at these pictures and say "arrrgghh celebrities and their publicity stunts to portray perfection and next thing u hear is DAT they've broken up".

      In my experience with professional photography, I can give you collages of pictures that would make you and your present lover look like your love originated from heaven. The power of images.

      Now look at kanye and Kim. From that pix some would say they don't look happy together but would that be up to even 50% percent true? Don't think so.

      A married couple who act like best of friends as well, have somehow been together as friends before thinking of I think I will marry him or her. If you go into a relationship with just the intention of friendship before the other "intention", you will get a partner that would be both your best friend and your lover.

      Now it doesn't necessarily have to be that way. There r couples today who went in with the intention to be lovers and subsequently married couples. And they are happy together.
      So Thelma maybe u might have to start thinking in the latter. Creating happiness with Ur lover without the wishful "best friend and lover" part.

  4. AMEN, AMEN and AMEN!!!!!

  5. I love this two...they are just tooo cute

  6. Don't want to sound like a kill joy or prophet of doom, but I don't get excited when I see things like this because tomorrow now, you'll hear they are divorcing and go ' but they were so inlove!' yimu

  7. Yh,i heard they even had sex on their first I guess the chemistry was that intense and has prolly kept them going till now...

  8. Hmmmmmmm.... and I just thought 'and Thelma went to get all these pictures.... ' :) A big Amen to your prayers.

    We never can tell. I pray they last forever. I don't trust celebrity marriages but then they are no different from others just that the spotlight is on them. I used to think of Robin Thicke and his wife(lost without you). See what happened eventually...

  9. I just love their body language and PDA..The wife has lots of vibes in her. Saw a video where she "spilled the beans" and said they once had sex during an event. John Legend couldn't hide his embarrassment n had to change the topic. It was soo funny!
    Thelma Amen to your prayers. You deserve such type of love and more.

  10. Amen in Jesus name....I don too suffer for this life...let God give me this as a tear wiper for all my past sufferings and to make my remaining stay here on earth bliss and make us friends forever in heaven...#JoyDaNuGirl

  11. Amen.It is this kinda love that would bring about such emotions in a deep song as ' All of me'.


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