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Ladies, Can You Do This?

I don't know the story behind this but...

What do we caption it? #whenmohammedhastogotothemoutain #whatamancandoawomancandobetter #timewaitsfornowoman 

Guys what say you; Awww... or Ewww!


  1. I support and advocate for more women to do this. You would be marrying each other anyways. Does it matter who brings it up first? Isn't this act supposed to only assure you that you are both on the same page? So why can't a woman ask a guy if he will marry her? For some women, if they don't find courage for this, they will remain in the bf/ gf stage for years because what if the guy doesn't intend asking you to marry him yet he wouldn't break up with you. whilst you live in dreamland thinking he would come around because to you he is the husband you want?

    1. Blue bubble are u for real?remember we are in Africa and Niger for that matter,try with a Niger man who has never crossed the airport before and see if he would maintain or loose his respect for u,dis can never work in Niger and the bible says he who finds a wife finds a gud thing and not she who finds a husband. Let's not allow civilization turn us to something else.

    2. Is will you marry me ? Marriage?

    3. Lol,funny. Is blue bubble a man or woman?lol

    4. Confused sex I guess Lol. I'm a lady

  2. @ blue bubble, the good book says he who finds wife and not the other way round. A woman shouldn't be get this desperate. A man should be the one to get down on his knees and ask for for her hand, because a woman is priceless!

    1. Thank you jare Stephanie. #enufsaid
      Bluebubble really?! Like really?!!! Hian! Big hian!
      They just want to turn everything upside down. I don't understand. Mstchew!

    2. Kabuoy please answer me o.
      Is going on one knee with a ring and asking will you marry me ? Marriage? Does this action qualifies as marriage? This action only engages you to the person. It only puts you both on the same page so why can't a woman ask this question so as to know and put her mind to rest? That people have been going out for 10 years does guarantee marriage. Just ask him and be free of any future heartache.

  3. I can't abeg. I don't fault people who do, but not for a Naija guy sha.

  4. Replies
    1. "Hian" raised to another

  5. #WhatAManCanDoAWomanCanDoBetter

    1. Memphis na dis kind thing dey sweet u.

    2. Memphis! Really? Lol! You can't be serious! Hehe! Real Yeye like u o!

    3. Ah ah...Warris dia again? Simple proposal o. Infact I recommend this trend to further spice up the 21st century.

    4. Memphis na dis kind thing dey sweet u.

  6. I think its sweet tho I just don't like the fact that she knelt down. She should have done it standing..

    Personally, I kent do it, I'm not that bold, I will over think myself out of it before i finish thinking the thought over in my

    Wish the Godspeed :)

    1. Smh.. jus try pull a stunt like this one and see if my father wie noh finish you with every degrading word in the book! Lmaooo! Sweet kor? Chewing gum ni! Palapala!

    2. ROTFL.. Emi ni mo n se palapala yen o.. Issokay

  7. Omg!! Been soo busy ds week dat I've been off d blog for 2days..n now I'm just seeing numerous posts, but When I'm free Thelma won't put up any post oo!! Thelma Diarisgod oo!!
    Anyway, Let me go back to previous posts to trace where I stopped.

  8. I think a woman can ask a man to marry her, but she should never propose this way to him, let him do the proposal.

  9. I personally don't see anything wrong with it but I don't think I can do it.i belive if the guy is your real paddy,as in you guys are real best friends,he would not see a thing rong with it while other guys like my bf for instance will see this act as just all depends on who you are dating sha

  10. Blue bubble you are sha funny. Isn't it the proposal that leads to the marriage? You just said that many women may remain in relationships for long years if they don't do this abi, meaning without the proposal the marriage plans won't be in place abi. For crying out loud, a man should find you, and ask you to spend d rest of your life with him. Not the other way round. This pic above reeks of desperation. You aren't a tree. If the guy isn't ready, biko move. This is a mega eeewwwwww for me. Hope she got him a ring btw.

  11. I can't. And I really don't believe I need to do this before I know if there's any future with whoever i'm with. If I can't read the signs clearly and he's not forthcoming, I take a walk and if He wants a future, it's up to him to come after me. Even the 'oyibos' some people think are so liberal would rarely do this. I think a "let's get married" statement thrown out during an intense moment is more the way they go. #Mymanbestbetheman

  12. Can't, won't, shouldn't have to, wouldn't have to do THIS!!!

  13. Must be from a Stage Play...
    Bored Colleagues after work.


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