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Acceptable or nah?


  1. She has not only crossed the line, she has jumped the fence! Maka gini nu? What for? Is she the office chef? Did he say he's hungry? What even led to her bringing food not once but twice? Hmmm, I smell a big fat rat and I will squash it with my big fat leg!

    1. Hahahaha, Thelma u got me rotfl

    2. Lol@ squashing with a big fat leg. Thelma biko I no fit laff. Lol. But that's really crossing the line men

    3. Hahaha...babes are not smiling oo..

  2. Lol na wa o. It is just wrong on all levels. J

  3. If my husband tells me i'll send her a subtle message. I'll pack some dirty cloths wrap it well with a note inside which will read (Thot you may be interested in helping me out in washing also) send it through DHL to her in the office. J

    1. Lmao.. professional trouble

    2. Hahahaah I agree with you anon...equation balanced right lool

  4. It is wrong but maybe if you find time to make his lunch he won't have to eat another woman's food outside.

  5. I tend to not take things very seriously and so my first thought when i saw the pic was *shrugs* "na her wahala" then i read Thelma and J's comments.

    I guess the babe is trying to snatch my man abi? Its crossing the line.

    1. Rotfl! I was just going to say "i'm sure sunshine won't mind!" Smh!
      You might even call the babe to say thank you sef! Lmaooo!

    2. Hahaha. Sunshine please mind o! The beginning of trouble is thinking everyone's mind is as pure as yours.

    3. Best statement evurr! The beginning of trouble is thinking every1's mind is pure O!

  6. Hmmm,i know a babe that lost her man to one calabar chick through this food ish.Any woman that does this definitely has an ulterior motive.

  7. Yea she crossed d line, but wat abt my accepting hubby? He shares in d blame too. #jusmythought

  8. Hmn. She has flown over the line. Not acceptable.

  9. Could my man allow me go with my coworker (just the two of us) to lunch, not once but twice etc without raising an eyebrow?


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  11. I don't see anything wrong as a guy sha...

    Maybe it is just me

    1. Yeye Somebody! How will U?
      If na ur babe & her male coworker nko?

      Infact, report to bbm make I flog U small.

    2. Before nko?

      Guys, they can be very clueless..

    3. Lmao... A beg make una leave Oh. Ruthy ruthy

    4. Clueless like you. He's your twin brother! Lmaooo! Sometimes I wonder how we are sisters! Lol! Smh!

  12. @Uyi, as a guy, you won't see any thing wrong, especially when you have no motive. However, when a girl/lady/woman goes the extra mile to do something nice for a guy that ain't her BF or Hubstar, then make fear begin catch you.

    Us women can do things o!!!.

    She cooked this meal from home, it's not Mr Biggs pack of rice or snacks. She actually prepared the meal from home.

    Biko, she has crossed the line and she is asking for IT!!!

  13. @Uyi, as a guy, you won't see any thing wrong, especially when you have no motive. However, when a girl/lady/woman goes the extra mile to do something nice for a guy that ain't her BF or Hubstar, then make fear begin catch you.

    Us women can do things o!!!.

    She cooked this meal from home, it's not Mr Biggs pack of rice or snacks. She actually prepared the meal from home.

    Biko, she has crossed the line and she is asking for IT!!!

  14. And why is my man eating the food?

    1. Lmao...good question though....I see it as Long Throat... apirir.....#JoyDaNuGirl

  15. I saw this on instagram and I really dnt knw if I will mind really,I tend to always give pple benefit of doubt

  16. Lol, I definitely came to this party late....but here's my opinion.

    I love to cook, although I hardly do, but when I do, I take food to work for myself. Although there's no single man in my office, they are all married, each time I bring food to work, they want to eat with me (we are like that in my office), so, most times I dish for more than myself. I even pack specially for some of them, say one or two. As in, I go pack my own, pack their own separate, so nobody disturbs my flow, plus I feel happy knowing I just fed someone (who could anyway afford their own meal). So, those ones now, their wives will now send me warning messages abi wetin? LOL

    If on the other hand, I feel threatened by my man's female collg, na to begin pack fodd for am na abi? If the man see food chop from house, will he be eating female collg's own?

    But we can like to worry sha...........LOL


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