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Let's Play a Game! (And then I ramble on...)

Who's game?

I'm in the mood for blog games later tonight guys, the kind that's very exciting and EVERYONE wants to get involved. Any ideas? 

The person with the most interesting idea gets a
well tell me your interesting idea first before I tell you what it's worth. 

Can someone please ask me if there's a real reason behind this post... Thelma why are you taking up blog space...?

I have absolutely no idea. I feel unnaturally happy this afternoon. Unnatural because I'm alone, facing several challenges, spending tomorrow alone, missing several blog readers that just varnished like smoke, hungry but can't eat because my belly must varnish like the said blog readers, mummy thinks he's coming for V day and I haven't told her the news, (I don't know how to), or how to tell her it doesn't look like it's working (yeah, I'm subtly hinting my readers that I may back to my single status), I'm stuck here, thanks to the carless situation and I really really feel like talking but I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to...

Yet there's this lightheartedness that's kept my lips twitching and my mouth breaking into smiles at the most unexpected times. Maybe because I've still got things to be thankful for. 

For instance, Yoko had a baby girl two days ago! I remember some ten years back Yoko, Onyi and I were talking. I asked Yoko; "What do you want to be when you 'grow up'?". Her reply, with all sincerity and seriousness; "An island big girl". Buahahahahahahhaha. I can never forget that day. 

But she wasn't alone. Onyi said she wanted to be a "Globacom big girl". I think we were reading too much City People back then. 

Both ladies are mothers today and those days are long forgotten. Life...

I'm also thankful because I've got some freaking amazing blog readers! Y'all rock. 

...When mama sees me in her kitchen tomorrow evening I'm going to have so much explaining to do. I kinda feel like when you get to a certain age, when your relationship comes to an end, your mother is even more heartbroken than you, because they had so many expectations...

If you let me I can ramble on till thy kingdom come so I shall stop now.  


I'm really in the mood for kisses.... 

Yeah, don't forget to suggest ideas for blog games. 


  1. The important thing is that you are happy. May God continue to keep you happy T.

  2. I'm in the same boat T. Being Single doesn't faze me anymore. Infact, once a guy says "Hi", I envisage the "breakup goodbye".
    But most importantly, I've just realised how Being Genuinely Happy depends on me Alone, so I'm doing just that... Living my life for ME!

    U have been doing Great T & I'm sure U'll be better!!!

    Over to the game Suggestions. I'm blank ni

    1. Ruth you are so right, I sometimes tie my happiness to persons but all humans can disappoint that is why its not good to depend solely on anyone, Thelma you will be alright, I have a feeling your final bus stop is coming soon ;).
      Now to games,I have an idea, why don't we ask each other random questions for eg whoever comments anyone else gets to ask them a. Question, bt ofcourse there has to be a starter. On another note today is mumsy's birthday and am so happy.

    2. Happy Birthday to your mum Chioma. God bless her richly and continually grant her all the good things her heart desires. Amen

    3. Happy birthday to your mum Chioma!!! May God bless her. :)

    4. HBD to your mum Chioma. God's blessing and most importantly His love are my wishes for her in this month of love.

    5. Happy Birthday to ur mum..many more years of increase and favour is her portion..God will continually bless the works of her hands

  3. Kisses to you too, Thelma.

    About mothers worrying more, it's just natural. They can't help it. It's good to know you still have joy. Be happy. You deserve that and so much more. *hugs*

  4. I relate to that mum being more heartbroken than you and having higher expectations than you, reason I am now very careful about who I tell her about, Infact my mouth is shut till am very sure, before it will be as if na only me waka come.

  5. Kissessssss right back at you T, *e-hug*
    Blog games??? I seriously have no idea. Or maybe we could consider that game where someone starts the trend with a sentence /statement and the next person start his/her comment with the last word of the previous poster . But I have a feeling that comments might get mixed or messed up.

  6. What a small world. Your friend Yoko was actually my faculty mate. She was very controversial and we ended up graduating together. Funny how the world can be.

    1. LOL @ very controversial. Oh dear... Let's chalk it down to youthful exuberance shall we?

  7. Awwww T, after all the sadness and all, I think I'm trying to let go of the hurt I feel. I will be making coconut rice tomorrow for my hubby, it's his fave, along with prawn sauce n mixed vegggies. I'm tempted to add too much salt (wink @ T)

    But my peace of mind is more important. Let's hope he surprises me too.

    I know how important it is to have someone to talk to, especially when you are low.

    In God's time, you will meet the man of your dreams T, just believe. Until then, do have fun fun and loads of fun, cos marriage can be very tasking o!!!. You will definately miss single hood when you do marry.

    I recall when I had an almost broken relationship, I was 29 then. Hmmmm, my mum and dad even had a family meeting on the matter o. They were worried that I was about to send a good prospect away with my "selective attitude" during that period I had just turned down marrying a Doctor that came all the way from south Africa.

    Everyone seemed to like him but moi. Lolz.

    1. Ah Clare biko nu, let's not ruin a perfect meal, nay, a perfect Valentine. *Big Hug*

    2. Lol @ nay. You sounded so much like Barney Stinson!

    3. Do let go of the hurt Clare. Will do your mind some good.
      And no, no too much salt. Enjoy making your husband the meal; enjoy knowing it will make him happy.

    4. A relationship needs at least one party's commitment for it to survive, some days we are lucky to have both parties commitment. It's oftentimes tough to keep going when the odds are against one or a relationship but still, that doesn't mean we should quit cause somehow there are always odds against one in any worthy endeavour.

  8. kisses back at you Thelma! :* :* :*
    It seems so, that most mums get more worried about their children than.the children sef.
    Don't have any games idea now o

  9. Uhm Thelma, please if you still don't have any games idea, I like the one in that box you posted. But my account details instead!

  10. Kisses :*:*:*:*:*Thelma
    I think being happy is the most important thing

  11. Happiness is good.. Be happy.

    So, i'll just make up the game stuff as i go..

    I dont think this qualifies as a game but peeps can talk about their all time crushes and all the crazy or not so crazy things they did to get their

    Or peeps can talk about their first day in uni.. i remember mine like it was yesterday..funny.

    Or your dream job. That thing you know that if you're doing, regardless of how little it pays, u'll be fulfilled.

    Or... i think thats all i have right now.

    1. I like the talking about crushes idea and first day in uni. I have some cute memories about my childhood crushes and a very distinct memory about my first day in uni

  12. sometimes you got to taper down on playing too much compter games coz it is quite addictive
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  13. i would really love to play card games, it is also a very addictive game.
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  15. Thank you very much for this game. Personally I prefer games guns , do you?
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