''I've been married for 7 years and I can confidently say my marriage is made in heaven. How do you describe a man who single handedly sponsored our wedding giving my mum and dad money to handle the part that was supposed to be handled by in laws?
How do you describe a man who puts down his pay slip and pay every month and together we plan on how to spend and save the money? How do you describe a man who gave me his only car to be taking to work while he hitches rides to work?
How do you describe a man who after he was promoted was given a brand new official car gave it to me to be cruising while he took over the rickety old car? How do you describe a man who after I pointed to a very tech and expensive Elba gas cooker as my dream gas cooker, the next time he got a bonus at the office I saw the cooker right there in my kitchen?
How do you explain a man who after several other promotions decided to buy me the second most expensive saloon car in the Hyundai fleet as my birthday gift? How do you describe a man who all he ever talks about is how he will buy this for you and buy that for you, how do you describe a man who makes statements like,"I need to work harder to be able to build a house for you " .
How do you describe a man who leaves behind all his debit cards for you when he travels? How do you describe a man who sends you to London for holidays and then pays for you to stay in the most expensive hotel in central London?
How do you describe a man who will without hesitation drop his car keys for me when i say it's his own car I feel like driving that day? How do you describe a man who after ranting and shouting for a little mistake he made will just calmly calm me down and initiate a discussion that will end the misunderstanding with a hot passionate sex to seal it..
How do you describe a man who ensures that my mum is paid allowance every month without failure, a man who sponsored my little sister in school till she finished... Infact the love this man has for me is so much that when his people are around they treat me like an egg because they know their bro and son no dey use me play...
We are blessed with 3 beautiful children and the older the marriage the sweeter it gets.. When we want to gist we gist and laff like best friends, when we want to gossip we gossip like 2 house wives, when we want to plan the life of our family and children we do it like 2 CEOs...when we want to make love you will think we just met. We disagree to agree, fight to make up and for the past 7 years no 3rd party has come to settle our disputes..
Marriage is amazing and refreshing, if you see me I'm so fresh and young looking you would think I wasn't married not to talk of having 3 children. no one should loose hope in the marriage institution its the best creation of God!
Someone shared this on Facebook and I understand it was gotten from Stella Dimoko's blog. We all need every encouragement we can get when it comes to marriage, after all the horrid stories we hear. Thus I thought to share this.
And if you have any similar stories too, stories that could give hope and encouragement, please send them to me and I'll share them with the house. We all need those.