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The Perfect Valentine's Day- By Kiki O

Words don't form except they are thought off.
Memories can never be forgotten no matter how hard you try.
Thoughts are one of the greatest weapon in our mind.
Actions comes from each thought we have in our heart.
The heart never truly forget the one person it truly loved even when its no longer there.
The heart never heals if the wound comes from the one person who was meant to keep it safe.
Night after night the memories of love lingers till sleep takes over.
Each morning brings another fresh thought of what today holds.
Yet,each thought never comes to reality because it fades away with the sun.
The sun lingers for hours but can't stay forever so also is Love.
Love is the only true thing on earth,it lingers for as long as it wants but it fades when its no longer needed.
Someone once said,take each day at a time because this love is meant to stay.
He fills each memories with so much laughter that its hard to let go even if you want to.
Love is never meant to hurt but this one hurt so deep that even the whispers are cold.
They all said let it go but I wonder how easy its meant to feel.
This memories I shut out,this feelings I once felt,this emotions I let out consumes each tiny space I have left.
Each day I stand in the way of the wind and let it caress my face,each day I stand in front of the mirror and say 'LET IT GO'
Each day I block memories because that's the only way to heal from the Piercing hurt.
Each day I wonder what happened to the one who promised to love and protect.
Each day I wonder how everything went from being good to bad.
Each day I wonder why the man who once felt the emotions turned back and just wouldn't see the smile he once created turned sour.
Each day I wonder what happened to the man who looked into the brown pupil of a girl and said I won't hurt you but turned around and stabbed her.
Each day I wonder but each thought is blank with no answer.
The hurt is real.
the pain is crazy.
the feeling aches.
the thoughts won't rest.
This day I try to let it go.
This day would have been the first celebration of love.
The gift would have been perfect because its one of your favourites.
Yet,this words can't wrap up the whole story but its a way to tell you 'Never hurt the one person who sees your flaws,knows your weakness,bless your strength BUT still finds you Amazing.
Its hard to let go but surely its going to happen.

Hi Thelma I just thought of sending this in,I'm hurt but I guess its part of the healing process.


  1. Hmmmm I'm so sorry Kiki, I felt your pain reading through those words. You'll be fine. I've been through this before and I came out better than ever. So will you. Hugs

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  2. Oh dear! So.sorry Kiki about the hurt you feel. I hope you heal soon and even find love; that which would stay, again.

  3. Oooh Dear,Sooo sorry about the way you feel,I can relate to this right now I tell you.everyone that is celebrating love today I admit am jealous..Feel Better KiKi

  4. God will give u d strength to heal totally.

  5. Aw...Kiki you'll be fine. You"re indeed a strong woman..keep staying strong

  6. Ts well kiki...Ts just a matter of time,u will get over it

  7. Ts well kiki...Ts just a matter of time,u will get over it

  8. Stay strong dear... your best memories are yet to happen. Sending love hugs your way.

  9. I remember when I was here. It's a hard place. A heartbreak is worse than an open heart surgery.
    But dear Kiki, u too will be fine. Better than Great even.
    Time & Love heals ALL wounds.

  10. Morning will come Kiki.
    This too shall pass and you'll see a bright light at the end of the tunnel.
    Stay strong
    All the best

  11. I understand how you feel,the brightest dawn comes just after the darkest night. You will be fine, sounds cliche right now but you will be *hugs*.


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