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The Perfect Valentine's Day- By Onyinye Nwoha.

It all started out with no plans at all, from my side. My best friend had called and begged me to tag along as she went for a surprise shopping for her boyfriend.
She seemed so happy, as she had been saving up for that day and she wanted it to be so ghen ghen. We bought perfumes, a swatch wristwatch and a bracelet for the boo. We made reservations for dinner in a restaurant. I was happy that she was happy and that seemed to be just what I needed to have the best vals day. I retired for the day with my single self.
The surprise came when she showed up at my door and asked me to go with her to the restaurant. She said she needed me to sit with her until boo comes. She made me dress up like I was going on a date. I didn’t hesitate or complain.
We got to the restaurant just in time and we were ushered in. She ordered a bottle of wine and then we got talking. She told me how much of a friend I’ve been to her and how she truly appreciates everything I’ve done for her over the years.
Then, she reaches for something under the table and drags it out. She hands me a wrapped package and asks me to open it. It had all the gifts we had both picked, earlier in the day. It was then it hit me, I had picked out the perfumes, three of them, all unisex( she made sure we went with unisex as against those for men alone), I had personally selected the wristwatch from Swatch and then, the accompanying bracelet, which didn’t even look masculine, in the first place.
She had made me pick all these gifts for myself, thinking it was for the boo. I was beyond surprised.
Then, I asked about her boyfriend and she told me he wasn’t in town and that she had sent over his gifts to him.
We ordered dinner and spent the remaining night remembering and talking about all the beautiful memories we had shared together, for the 8years we’ve been besties.
My best friend gave me the perfect valentine day of my life!


  1. Awwww I like dis one... caring friend..

  2. Awwww nice one. I wonder why I never have good friends. Anyway one man squad is not so bad.

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  3. Awwww nice one. I wonder why I never have good friends. Anyway one man squad is not so bad.

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  4. Yayyyy, so far this is the "correctest" story/write up.

    If only....

  5. Lovely. True friendship translates to love...

  6. Yayyyy, so far this is the "correctest" story/write up.

    If only....

  7. Awwwww...isn't that sweet?!

  8. Besties rock!

  9. True friendship. I like this one best... it broke away from the norm..


    1. Besties rock!!!! A sister in a bestie and a bestie in a sister is just awesome!!! Y'all shouldn't be jealous... that's how we roll mehn!

      Errr... *clears throat* ... so what are you getting me for valentine?

    2. Lmao! I just knew you'd pull something like this..

    3. Lmao! I just knew you'd pull something like this..

  10. Awwww..Besties are the spice of life
    This is beautiful

  11. I know My Bestie will totally do this for me if she can afford all these... Someone who missed tests/exam when I was ill & admitted in the hospital.
    Love her forever & a day!

    I Love this story!!! *off reminiscing*

  12. Lovely and creative Valentine moment...

  13. Lovely write up! Reminded me of my bestie! She didn't have enof on that Val's day so she just got me a card and a sweet red night gown.. #biggrin# quite unexpected.

  14. Aww so beautiful. Cheers to friendship!

  15. Lovely curve. Besties rock truly!

  16. I just got the perfect Valentines gift.

    I'm so happy. I'm elated, overjoyed. There's no word to describe how I feel now.

    I've been waiting for NYSC since 2012...Infact, some of my mates are having their POP next week. They were delayed too so just imagine. I got tired of the questions. My mum made it a prayer point. Everyone bothered my

    I'm sitting, lounging with a friend. I had great plans for today. Told everyone I will not be available....and a call comes in...."Babe, come to Gwags now now.." For what? They added your name to those serving with the first batch today. Come for results verification.....and I'm like..."No. My name isn't there. I went to collect my statement of result two weeks ago and they said I have to wait till session ends as there's a problem with my result...a 100level course at that. And he's like...NO. I just saw your name. Senate just sent your results to student affairs. I took my bath, cancelled all lounging plans, blew a kiss to Bestest for falling her hands. She was just giving me attitude. I don't care. I practically ran to Gwags. I got there and truly, my name is there. My result is verified. I finally graduated with a 2-2 (covers face). My mother has not heard this part. No more car for me. And I'm serving May. Its just the perfect Valentine. Tears of joy.

    1. Awww congrats Ruby Diamond, I can imagine how you feel. *hugs*

    2. Congratulations Ruby!!!!!!! *hugs*

    3. Awww...the best valentine's day yet, for you!

    4. Congrats dear, happy for you. So you finished from gwags, hmmm I might even know you, what department did you finish from? if you don't mind me asking

    5. I have a sun candidate here. I promise to stalk you from now.

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    6. Congratulations Ruby... this marks the beginning of awesome testimonies in ur life this year

    7. Amen @Sunshine.

      Thanks everyone.

    8. Wow. .congrats dearie...God is taking you to greater heights

    9. Ah! See my gwags peeps here o. Congrats Ruby Diamond. Wish u d very best.

  17. This is so beautiful...

    Pls Thelma reply my mail. Biko..


  18. This story got me 'awwwing"...besties are awesome, always there when the chips are down and in good times.

  19. *smiles* Good story.


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