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It scares me that if I take a break or say I'd BRB when I eventually come right back I'd meet an empty home... My fears aren't unfounded, everytime I leave for a day or two and I return I come back to a house that's almost empty. And so I stay, even when I don't feel like it, for the fear that I'd lose my readers, because if I've got no readers then what's the point?

But in truth I need to get some space. I need some time to refuel. I continually ask for submissions from you guys because it's not a gossip blog, so if we've got to have stuff to talk about I cannot always generate topics on my own. I need contributors and submissions, and seeing as no one ever wants to, mehn, I am frazzled and I need air! Plus I don't think I've been actually productive in the last few weeks, so I'm taking a breather. 

I may be back tonight, tomorrow, next week or next month, I have no idea. I just know that at this very minute I'm feeling like I need a break. 

But if you care to see the blog up and running feel free to send me links, articles, mails or ideas. Thelma needs to clear her head... Kudos to LIB, SDK and all the bloggers who stay on the grind come rain or sunshine. I doff my cap...


And Subomi, yes I have a boyfriend. LOL. I'm positive about this one, he's far from perfect but he makes me happy and gives me something to smile about...



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  1. Yh I understand you thelma, being meaning to send in an article, will do so soon :D

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    1. Okay o, oya do and send it in sharp sharp. We are waiting. Ah ahn, una no dey pity Thelma? Haba! Hehehe

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  2. Hmm..., sorry that you feel this way. Some of us are (I am) always here but don't comment as often as you'd desire.

    Might I suggest you increase participation on your blog by creating segments that come up weekly, forthnightly or monthly from volunteer blog readers who have content consistent with your blog's purpose.This would create more content for your blog and frankly speaking, it is the posts that spark up conversations and comments. More posts, More comments, ......... a happier you. I feel you have the platform that some blog readers might desire and they have articles that could help retain your 'commenters'. Quid pro quo

    Last, I doff my cap for you.Your refreshing perspective on life issues and daily living is what keeps me coming back to this blog and of course the comments from blog readers. In essence, what I am saying is that you should come back tonight or sometimes soon after your much desired break.

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    1. Thanks for the ideas. I'll look into them. Weirdly though, this isn't about comments (it often is but this isn't). I just feel a bit exhausted and it's affecting my general output. I really like your ideas and I hope I have the energy to implement them, I really should...

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    2. So I saw Kabuoy referring 2 u as oga (meaning u r a man) yesterday or so, and u didn't say anythg. I had tot u were a happily married woman all along. @Chrisyinks plz come back and put us in d clear on dz...

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    3. Haha... @Eesah.. he's refered to his wife before na.

      @Chisyinks... With the way you write, i thought you'd volunteer to send posts every other day cos in my head, u're a real writter. *smiles*.

      Tee please take oga Chris's suggestions. Biko dont leave..
      Take a break but one month is veeeeery loooong! Thats like 30 days.. 30 times an average of 3posts a day omo!

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    4. @ Thelma,

      You are welcome. Sorry about the exhaustion, hope you get rejuvenated soonest.

      @ Easah,

      I'm a man. I had a response typed to Kabuoy's last comment but I experienced a glitch and lost it. Was too tired to re-type it. In some ways, we were saying the same thing, just differing on trivialities.

      @ Sunshine,

      I'm not married, at least not yet. I remember that statement, I wanted to say something and the right words eluded me. Sorry if I created the wrong impression. If I were married, I surely would have mentioned boo a lot more times.

      Thanks for the compliment. I don't write though. The advice was based on my perception of blog readers - I believe we have a film maker, story writer, script writer etc as members, and publicity of their works won't do them any harm.

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    5. Where are the single ladies? *coughs roughly*

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    6. Lmaooo! Sasha! I give up! You're one very funny and troublesome lady!

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  3. *crying* Thelma plsssssss, dont go anywhere oo biko, one month???? *sad face*. Bia thelma u r threatning us oo, dont worry i ll try n send in stuff every other day, i once had a job where i had to run all the company's social media handles, its tough but this too shall pass.

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  4. Awwwww, T we totally understand. Take a break if totally necessary. We'll be right here when U get back.
    The other blogs are copy & paste hope u know? So no much work is needed as much as yours. TTB is unique, we'll prefer U taking a break than imitate those other blogs.

    Chris has good suggestions though, u could look into it...

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  5. Pele Thelma. Lifestyle blogging is more challenging than the gossip blogs in my opinion. One thing i know about blogging after almost 10 years at it off and on is that just write, dont think about who is going to be reading it.
    thinking about the readers puts undue pressure on you. Something else to consider might be a vlog..this one has come to me a few times, but i prefer just writing.

    take your break and come back stronger. We are all rooting for you.

    www.pynk360.com

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  6. We are here baybay....anytime, Anyday we gotcha!

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  7. Awwww...pls take a break if you have too..we will be here waiting..lifestyle blogging is actually harder than news n gossip

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  8. Eya, I kno exactly how u feel. Plz take a break if u hv to. We still full ground gidigba.



    *lips sealed and watching*

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    1. Eesah,been meaning to ask...Are u the same Eesah on stella`s blog?

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    2. Yesso @TNHW. My mode of writing on both blogs differs abi?

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    3. I tell u,really different.....#hard to know the real you#

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    4. Well it's due 2 d nature of both blogs. Most of d BVs here are intellectuals, but most of d BVs over there are Razitos save for pple like Ronalda, Mrs Zulu and co. It's on SDK that u'd type a sensible epistle as a comment and one smally dt's under 18 would come and curse ur mama and ur papa join sef hehehe

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    5. HAHAHA..I feel u on that one....

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    6. Eesah u sound like a victim. Chai!..God pass dem jareyy!

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    7. Thelma even if ure nt here a while, ur loyal BVs will patiently await ya return. *hugs*

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  9. Pele Thelma....look into Chris's suggestions too...Besides,sometimes you could just post ur pictures...me am always happy looking at ur ukwu..#no homo# Sunshine,is this you? Kabouy where ya own pisure dey?

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    1. Yes that is "she"! Lol!!! My own pishure dey inside my phone. I dey wait for memphis, Eesah and Oga chrisyinks jare.
      Hehehehee!

      Thelma... I hope we are allowed to call to remind u to cut the break short. Its one week me I give you o! Or you'll soon start avoiding my calls too! lol! *hugs*

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    2. Ok oh...I shall patiently waiting...

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  10. Take a break but dnt take long O pls, plus u now have boyfriend?... Happy u happy

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  11. Pls take your desired break so u can come back fresher and more energized.. i feel sad already because i am going to be missing a part of my daily ritual which is refreshing your blog. Stay safe hun

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  12. My cousin told me about this blog late last year & it instantly became one of the two blogs I refresh like 20times a day.You're doing a good job here & I like the fact that you blog about real life issues.Please,while you're taking this break don't forget that there are people who want u back.So take your time but don't take too long.Stay blessed.

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  14. Rest well nne. You deserve the vacation. Lifestyle blogging requires *biceps*, and you've got them T, huge ones.

    I'll just start all over again reading from Post 1, till you come back, because I can't see myself not opening Thelma Thinks for one day unless I'm in the bush. Be forever blessed Thelma.

    #FavoriteBlog

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    1. I'm telling ya. I can't do without my Thelmathinks. I'm sure this for the best.

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  15. Pele Thelma.. you will soon miss us and run back to us. Take your break sha.
    Yay!!! Im happy for you jare. My regards to him.

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  16. aww T,I wud miss u o even if I dnt comment much dis days.aldo u deserve d rest tho,take ur tym.nd dat is ow @uyi omoruyi 4got me cuz am in plateau,der is God o,nd @blink,girl give me a call asap 4rm d hole u curled into.

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    1. Steffi Steffi. I'm sorry for that. But trust me, I haven't forgotten you oh!

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  17. Take care of yourself

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  18. Ah! Tee baby, a break? Ok....puhleease do but then not for too long o, while waiting for u to come back whc I know it won't take long I will just do as memphis have typed.....probably start from Thelmathinks one year anniversary post!
    Hoping to see u back here bt the time I gets to dis post.................................

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  19. I hear people get addicted to blogs like LIB etc and I wonder like seriosly? but here I am always opening THIS blog everyday except on saturdays and sundays just to read up and comment even though most times no one notices (thats how I feel here most times) but still I come back! I hope your break will have you returning refreshed and better in all areas...do takia....#JoyDaNuGirl

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  20. We will wait & keep refreshing till a new post comes up...

    *thinkingcapon*

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  21. Like play like play, no post today o.. I've opened this page like 5 times today. Issokay.

    Day 1...

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  22. Hahaha,@sunshine ohh,bia thelma would you com back jor!!*crying ohh*

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  24. Break over. .. oya come back o. We miss you already.

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  25. Yh babe,its really not easy but we know u can handle it.
    While we wait for a new post,why don't we share random whatever on this post? It cld be anything. Like that chick who was asking if she shld get the friend-zoned guy a bday gift. It cld even be new comments on old posts but here on this post. Let's give it a shot?

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    1. Nice idea sasha...oya start...

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    2. Ok so to keep the blog fun, let start.
      Anyone interested in super high-heels size 10 pumps in abuja?
      Holla @ me giveanditwillcomebacktoyou at yahoo dot com

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    3. Hmm,this ur email tho. Did u create it specifically for this shoe giveaway? Lol

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    4. Lmaooo! @ Sasha! Chai! You have ehn! Wahala!!!! Rotfl!

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  26. Funny peeps... Thelma Pele it's obvious some sturvs could be tiring that's what making u feel like going on a break... Ll miss u tho

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    1. Adeola... where have you been ehn?! one of our "unavoidably absent" or "silent" bvs. You, Wale, Oyinlola... issokay! **watching you all on black and white tv*

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    2. Ayyam here o Kabuoy. There's just been a lot to do lately; inner mind workings and actual office work. I'm sure I'll have more time to read and comment after this first quarter ;-)

      Thelmathinks is just a URL away...

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  27. Hello everyone i want to share a live testimony on how Dr. momodu was able to bring my husband back to me, myself and my husband were on a serious breakup, even before then we were always quarreling fighting and doing different ungodly act..
    My husband packed his things out of the house and we had to live in different area, despite all this i was looking for a way to re_unite with my husband, not until i met Dr. momodu the great spell caster who was able to bring my husband back home, Dr. momodu cast a love spell for me, and after some time i started seen results about the spell....
    Today my family is back again and we are happy living fine and healthy, with Dr. momodu all my dream came through in re_uniting my marriage, friends in case you need the help of Dr.momodu kindly mail him on( dr.momodulovespell@gmail.com ) Sir i will forever recommend you!!!

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    1. You need Jesus not dr. momodu's love spell.

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  28. Just when I took out some days to read up to 3 weeks posts I missed,u wanna go on a break?*sadface*
    I feel u thou,reading up felt like hard work, how much more u who thinks of what to post & types too.pelee,d Lord is ur strength

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  29. I can't pretend that i was not surprised by the spell that Dr.Adodo casted for me because through the help of the spell my lover who has left me for some months actually found reasons to come back just after 48 hours that i contacted Dr.Adodo. With this i have discover that Dr.Adodo details will help a lot to overcome their relationship or marriage depression so with this effect i will write out the contact information of Dr.Adodo which are +2348156784928 or via email: Adodospelltemple@gmail.com on web http://adodospelltemple.wix.com/adodospelltemple

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  30. Shakira Elliot Says

    Am giving this testimony cos am happy

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    GREAT SHAKES SPEAR i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you. Email Him Through his email address... shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com

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    What a powerful man such as DR SHAKES SPEAR.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com

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  33. My Name is Racheal Vivian, I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Shakes spell temple, on what he has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband with his great spell, I was married to this man called Mathew we were together for a long time and we love each other but when I was unable to give him a child after 2 years, he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man. My friend gave his email to me and asked me to contact him but I didn't want to because I doubted at first but later reconsidered because it's so rear for a man to be as powerful like she said. So I contacted her through this email ( shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com) You won’t believe this when I contacted this man and told him my problems he cast the spell and my ex came back begging on his knees and asking me to forgive him. Not only that after a month I miss my monthly flow, when I went to my doctor, he confirm that I am pregnant so I told myself that I will testify to the whole wide world about the wonders of the powerful man if I give birth successfully. I am so happy today because I am a mother of a bouncing baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Shakes Spear for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of the following situations :
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  34. THANKS TO DR BENEDICT FOR SOLVING MY PROBLEMS

    An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{benedictsolutioncentre@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster DR benedict. So.
    So,if you are in a similar problem or any kind of problems you can also contact him via his email(benedictsolutioncentre@gmail.com}he is the solution to all your problems and predicaments in life.his email again is{benedictsolutioncentre@gmail.com}.

    HE ALSO SPECIALIZE IN THE THE FOLLOWING PROBLEMS;

    (1) If you want your ex back.
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    once again make sure you contact him if you have any problem he will help you. his email address is(benedictsolutioncentre@gmail.com).

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  35. After four years in marriage with my husband with 2 kids, he suddenly
    started going out with other women and coming home late, each time i
    confronted him it turns out to be a fight and he always threatened to
    divorce me at all time, my marriage was gradually coming to an end. i tried
    all i could to stop him from this unruly attitude but all proved abortive,
    until i saw a comment in the forum about a spell caster who helps people to
    cast spell on marriage and relationship problems, at first i doubted it but
    decided to give it a try, when i contacted this Spell caster Dr.momodu, via
    email, he helped me to cast a spell and within 6 hours my husband came back
    apologizing for all he has done and promised never to do such again and
    today we are happily together again. Contact this Great spell caster for
    your marriage or relationship issues via this email; dr.momodulovespell@gmail.com

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  36. i will love to share my testimony to you all the people in world i got married to my husband about 2 year ago we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side i have never love any man in my life except him. he is the father of my child and i don't want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today .few month ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about DR.lala how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad i was surprise about it because they have been without each other for three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each other. i was directed to DR. lala on his email:lalapumena@gmail.com and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him i Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact Dr lala the great spell caster on his email addresses lalapumena@gmail.com

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I got into town pretty late and needed to keep an appointment ASAP. I'm heading out right now and it's going to be a long day, but thought I should drop this first. 
Have a splendid day. Im'ma be back soon.

THE ‘NEW’ SIDE CHICK: I WAS HER

A side chick is commonly known as a mistress or a woman that’s romantically involved with a man who is in a committed relationship.  However after doing some reflecting, I realize that’s not the only type of side chick.  I want to discuss “the new side chick”–a woman who decides to stay by a man’s side after he has expressed his lack of relationship intentions with her through his words or actions.  So many women have made this mistake at least once in their lifetime, and unfortunately I’ve done the same thing. I like to think of the new side chick as an appetizer.  You’re there just to satisfy the immediate appetite of the man, but as soon as that mouth-watering entrée comes out to the table, you will get pushed to the side, literally.  Why?  Because that entrée is what he really wanted; he went to the restaurant to order steak, not hot wings.  You were just a placeholder, fling, temporary commitment, or  maybe even just a “good ol time” until what he really wanted was presented to hi…

Shhhhhhh....

I'm in an amebo mood tonight. Don't ask me, I honestly don't know why. Also I'd like to share too but I'd do that anonymously in the comment section. Tonight I want to talk about secrets. It's ok, we can all be anonymous. 
Is it true that EVERYBODY has a secret? 
Is there anyone here who doesn't have a secret? I'd really like to know; You're a completely open book and there's not ONE thing about you that you wouldn't mind other people knowing about? Please raise your hands up. 
And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

Let's Be Random Together! (Open Keypad).

Hey guys, a while back blog reader F said something about creating an Open Keypad post, where you can write whatever you want in the comment section. I thought it was a fun idea!
So who is interested? Comment on anything you feel like, ask me or anyone a question, talk about how your day went, your job, your interests, tell us something about you that we don't know, share a testimony with us, rant about anything you feel like, talk about your crush/boo/spouse/relationship/marriage, challenges you're facing, ANYTHING AT ALL! 
I'll only make one request; that we stay civil. 

(F it was you who made this suggestion, right? I'm not too sure and I can't even remember the post the comment was made on). 
BTW please Ejoeccome out come out, wherever you are!

One More Post...

Adventures, Fun, Friendship & Laughter at the TTB Hangout (Lekki Conservation Center).

Nicole to Clare: mummy lets go. I want to climb that ropy thing!

Isn't Clare beautiful?!

Uyi et moi. Clowning. 

Mother & child. 


Scary af! Trish on the ramp. The chica loves the outdoors so much, she was like a kid in a candy store. She and Uyi took this walk twice! More power to them, you can't pay me to do this a second time.


Uyi & Tiwa

Giveaway Finale!

Happy Sunday y'all. 
This is the conclusive part of #WCG. 
All the N25,000 recipients have received their cash.
All the students have also received their N10,000. 
Once again guys please comment under any of the posts, or this one that you've received your money. Thanks. 

So moving forward, this final giveaway contains 
1. N10,000 for 5 people. 

2. 3 kimonos from Julian's dressmakers. 
3. 3 pairs of Palm slippers from WaleOnibata. (Gents) 
4. 2 pairs of shoes from Courtney's Closet. (Ladies. Size 9 and Size 11). 

5. 1 human hair wig from Gabby's Wigs'n'Weaves. You pick from one of the wigs below. 
6. 3 cakes from CakesandCream 

7. A getaway at CitiHeight Hotel Ikeja for 3 people. (Who can each bring one person along).  


As I said earlier, Kon has already won a stay at CitiHeight and Clare, a kimono. So those gifts are now available for 2 people each. 
There is no competition. We are only going to play a game. 
I have each gift item listed out in numbers. Number 1 to 100. …