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Happy Birthday MAMA KABUOY!!!

I’m not a writer but I’ll try not to be all over the place with this..


On the sixth of March a very long time ago, a gem was born. The beginning of strength, the excellency of dignity, theexcellency of power of her Father’s household. I thank God every opportunity I get for making me her daughter. Her life isn’t exactly easy but she sails through it with a smile perpetually plastered on her sweet face. I’m talking about my friend, my confidant, my very own cheerleading squad, my one man army, my jewel of inestimable value, my mother.


Fondly called Mama Kabuoy on this platform, she makes me want to be a better me; she loves unconditionally and cares even more. I rest assured that no matter what I do, she will always be there, loving me and praying for me. At a time when most parents are out of touch with their children’s lives probablybecause of the advent of technology, Mama Kabuoy makes a strong effort to be part of our lives at every given point through constant phone calls to “check in”, Facebook, Twitter, BBM,Whatsapp, and very recently, TTB... lol constantly encouraging and cheering us on.


When I had my first heartbreak a couple of years ago, I was crying like a baby in the middle of the night, I remember my mum coming to my room and consoling me. Before that time, to me, you weren’t supposed to discuss boys and stuff with your parents but Mama Kabuoy is different. That night, she became my best friend. My sisters and I discuss everything under the sun with our mum without fear of judgment or being sent for deliverance… lol


When I think about my mum, “I Love You” seems grossly inadequate. She works herself sore everytime just to make sure that her children are well taken care of, she’s an amazing wife, a fantastic mum, a “soji” pastor and a great cook J. She loves parties and coldstone dates with “the girls”, she loves to minister, her favourite food is white rice I think? (She can eat it 3 times a day), she also loves soft soft soft  amala and ewedu, and she can pray for Africa!


On this special day, I wish my amazing mother a very happy birthday, may your life be filled with more joy than your heart can hold, more laughter than your mouth can contain, peace that transcends all understanding, abundant grace, and dumfounding testimonies. We love you mum. Thank you for all you have done.


Sunshine & Kabuoy & Dee *wink wink*


Mama Kabuoy, on behalf of the entire Thelma Thinks family, I wish you a very happy birthday. We love you Mama Sunshine & Kabuoy & Dee. We may not know you personally but these young women are an evidence of what an amazing mother you must be. God bless you always. 


  1. Happy Birthday, Mama Kabuoy! I pray you have many more years of bliss. Your children's children shall surround your table IJN. Long life, joy, peace and perfect health are my wishes for you.

  2. Hbd mama kabouy....we love u ma
    Make una dhl my share of d cake o

  3. Hbd mama kabouy....we love u ma
    Make una dhl my share of d cake o

  4. Happy birthday ma. God bless you. Your children are so blessed.

  5. Happy Birthday mama kabuoy, God bless you and may you continually reap the fruits of your labour. You girls should order a cake for her and a picture would suffice ;)

  6. Haa, so Dee is a member of d Kabuoy household too? Issokay

    I think I need me one of d beautiful and brainy Kabuoys 4 a wify *scratches head*

    Api born dai Iya Kabuoy, iya ton sure! Wishing u many more happy returns.

    Good 2 know dt we hv some motherly and fatherly figures among us *wink wink*

    1. Not my Dee people!
      Happy birthday to mama Kabuoy, wish her many more great yrz ahead in good health, won a jeun omo pe oo.Amen

  7. TTB members/addicts thank u all. I appreciate u all.

    May d good Lord bless n keep u all, grant all your heart desires.

    My bebies Sunshine, Kabuoy n Dee God bless u. I am proud of u all.

    These write up brought tears to my eyes. Am happy. God will grant all my heart desires for u in Jesus name.

    TTB lovers I wish u a blessed n wonderful wkend.

    Mama 'D'

  8. Happy Birthdayyyyy!!! Iya ton sure *in Eesah's voice. Wishing you the very best life has to offer madam. Many Happy Returns :D

    So, wait o. Dee is also a member of, and she's been forming *not knowing*. Issokay o. Or maybe @Dee isn't Kabuoy's Dee, but #Dee that comes and *eat without paying*. Which one?

  9. Thank you all for the warm wishes. God bless you.

    Disclaimer: Our "Dee" is still a small pikin not the Dee on TTB.

  10. HBD Ma,wishing you the very best of the season.

    Wonderful children you have got ma,especially my baby gal Kabouy.
    Have a Blessed,Joyous and Groovy Celebration today and forever.Amen

    1. *bats eye lashes* thanks blogit up! *kisses*

    2. Especially your stubborn baby Kabouy Lol! Happy birthday Iya Kabouy ... Wishing you many more happy returns with long life and prosperity.

    3. Uyi mee stubborn okwaya?! No wahala! Just so you know... your punch is getting "dirtier"... and even if I have to jump to give it.. trust me! I'll take my chances! Lol!

    4. This emphasis on Kabuoy's height she that short? Abeg na honest question o, no pun intended. I don't need that flying punch in my life right now.

  11. Happy Birthday ma...God bless you ma....Many more years ma....the rice nko 'MA'?....and pls its 'mama to sure' not 'ton'....#smiles...#JoyDaNuGirl

  12. Happy Birthday Mama Kabouy, may God continue to bless you and give you long life in perfect health.
    Your daughters has proven to us what a wonderful woman you're

  13. Happy birthday Iya Kabuoy. God's blessings, mercies, favour and grace continually be yours today and always.

    Like Thelma said, your amazing personality is evident and radiated through your offsprings, thus I wish you happiness like none other and life abundantly to relish, bask and take delight in such wonderful creations you have nurtured and still nurture. God's best always for you and yours Ma.

  14. Happy birthday iya Kabuoy. Many more years mama, may you live long to see your grandkids in good health. Well born mama...

  15. Mama kabuoy toh ki! Lool! Happy birthday mum! I am blessed and grateful to have you in my life. E ma pee fun wa.. adeh ma tunbo yo siyin lorun! Lool! Ema jeun omo pe pe pe ko deh ni kan lenu yin ma! God bless you.

    Thanks everyone! For celebrating my mama! The Lord shall honor you, open a book of remembrance and favor you. Thank you all soo much. See as my head is even swelling sef. O ga o! Lool!

    Thelma you're the bestest! Thanks! :* *hugs*

  16. Happy Birthday Ma!May God grant you many of happy years of abundant blessings.Your days shall be long. You will continue to be a source of inspiration to your children & everyone who comes in contact with you.God bless you Ma

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  17. Happy birthday Ma, God's blessings on you and your household always

  18. We wish you more joyful years ahead.
    Happy birthday ma.


  19. Hearty birthday cheers Kabouy!!!

  20. Happy bday mama kabouy. We wish u long life and prosperity, may u live to enjoy ur beautiful and. Brilliant daughters. Amin

  21. Happy Birthday Ma! Wish you many more years filled with love and laughter. J

  22. Happy birthday Iya Kabuoy.. God bless you with many more years of joyous healthy living on earth and abundant wealth to go with it.

  23. A big happy birthday wish to u ma. Wish u wld share ur wisdom with us on this blog every now and then. Many happy returns...

  24. Happy birthday ma. Many happy returns.

    Kabuoy, send my cake, eba and okra o! Mi o fe ajeku.

    1. Lmaoooooo!! Ruby.. tomorrow is PMCH o! no food and water till tomorrow. So no cake or okra and eba! Lmaoo! Iyen di next year! Loool! *hugs*

    2. I don kach u,so we attend the same church,okay now. I couldn't go for PMCH ohhh,woke up late *shines teeth*.

  25. Happy birthday mama kubuoy....Many more years.

  26. Happy birthday day management, may the hands of God never depart from ur life. Have a great day

    1. Management kee,dis ur auto correct ehhh. Lol *winks*

    2. Lmaoo! Ma to management. The auto correct noh be here o! Lool! Maybel! You sef! Lool!

    3. Lol. No mind me, I dey find tolu trouble

  27. Happy bday to Mama Kabuoy...wish her many more years

  28. I am so overwhelmed. Thank u all for ur well wishes. Eyin na a dagba, e e s'orire, l'oruko Jesu(u will all live long, n prosper in Jesus name)m

    I appreciate u all.

    Mama Kabuoy (Mama 'D')

  29. Happy Birthday ma'am

    The best gift I could wish for you is family and it's obvious you have that in Abundance. I pray that God continually impacts you with trans-generational values.

    You are blessed beyond measure ma

  30. Awww..happy belated Birthday Iya Kabuoy! May God bless and keep you Ma. Sorry it's coming late. Like they say,"better late than never".

  31. Happie birthday mama kabuoy.

  32. Happy belated birthday ma'am. May God bless you :)


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