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Pretty Cupcakes and Lecherous Fathers.

Good morning!!!

Yesterday Miss Pynk sent me some pretty cupcakes. Yay! Please help me say a great big heart thank you to Miss Pynk! Unfortunately the cakes arrived just as I was heading to the airport, I took and few and my nephews took the rest of them to school today to share with their classmates. Miss Pynk the kiddies thank you too. LOL. Thanks so much Miss Pynk I really truly appreciate it. 

Quick question ladies, how would you handle your friend's father toasting you? 

Some weeks ago I ran into the father of one of my friends. I will leave out all the details but the bottom line is that he asked for my number. I thought it was quite unusual but then again I concluded that it had to be harmless. He is seemingly very Christian and is generally a decent man, moreover saying no would have been rude, and, I had no reason to. I could also imagine my friend calling me and saying "My dad said he saw you and when he asked for your number you refused to give him?". Yeah, then it's I who would look funny. So I gave him the number, expecting almost never to hear from him.

I thought wrong. He has been calling and I've tried my best to be polite but that's not working. He's been badgering me to send my account details or my address so that he can "send something over". He says if I'm uncomfortable in Lagos then we could take a trip somewhere, apparently my wish is his command. Hia! I've stopped answering his calls, not like that's deterred him...

It's very absurd because he's the most unlikely person one would have imagined would do this and his Mrs is a very beautiful woman who's always been good to me. The sad part about this whole thing is that he doesn't care if they know, It being a man's world and all...

What the heck is wrong with men?

Anyhoo, would you keep your mouth shut or tell your friend what's going on? 


  1. Wowsah cute little pieces of joy... Missy pink we thanks you, ose gaan.

    As for your friend's father, allow me to say warrafeckinghelliswrongwiththenigger??? "Breath in, out"! I dunno what I would do if I found myself in such situation, but I think I'll most likely tell my friend with style. Maybe start by asking her seemingly rhetoric questions, about how she would feel if she knew her father was hitting on a friend of hers...

  2. For the cakes tanku Miss Thelma we shud be licking the cakes via internet abi! No for the friend's father. it depends on the relationship between the said friend and I. if we are not that close I won't tell her though its hard but if we were really close I might tell her cos truth is if this is not done with wisdom, one might end up losing a good friend or breaking a home! When it comes to these issues, forget the size of some men's Bible or church positions...may God have mercy.......#JoyDaNuGirl

    1. Seconded!

      Since I wasn't permitted to air my views. "Quick question ladies, how would you handle your friend's father toasting you?" 

      Also, on behalf of Thelma and the visibly beautiful and pretty cup cakes from your gracious heart, thank you Miss Pynk.

  3. Mis pynk that's soo sweet of you,God bless
    I will really not know what to do in a situation like that,if I have a really close relationship with my frnd I tink I will find a way to tell even if not directly...

  4. Miss pink all d best in everything u lay on hands on.......

  5. Awww..God bless you Miss Pynk.
    For your friend's father,he wants to spend money abi? I'd gladly send my acct details and when I've gotten an alert,I'd never take his calls again..nonsense!

  6. Those cup cakes are what i need right now.. Thank you Miss Pynk.

    To you question, you have to understand the kind of person your friend is. Is she the kind of person that will blame you for "going after" her father or hear you out and try to confirm the story. You have to be very careful. On the flip side tho, if you were the daughter or wife, would you want to know?

  7. Aww...the cakes look delish! Thank you Miss Pynk.
    I wouldn't tell my friend about her dad's advances at me. I'm guessing she'd be very embarrassed and sad. I wouldn't want that, I'm sure I can handle his mess.
    Maybe I'd keep messages for proof. I know of a man who did this and when he couldn't succeed tried to turn his daughter against her friend. The messages came in handy.

  8. Aww Thelma You are welcome. Glad they got to you in time and you liked them.

    As for you friend's father, kindly send him a text message and let him know you have no interest and are uncomfortable with whole idea and if he can kindly refrain from doing such. He will respond to you by text. Save a picture of it. After that block the living daylight out of him and please do not tell your friend. No need to embarass the friend, however as the father has no shame, he can try and accuse you of what you havent done. Just a way to cover yourself.

    We dont get to choose our parents unfortunately.

  9. Beautiful cup cakes, tnk u Miss pynk. As for the question,I wudnt tell my friend, I guess I wud just ignore the man's call till he gets tired and stops calling.

  10. Those cupcakes look yummy,God bless the giver.

    That your friend's father na alakoba....yeye

  11. Thanks a bunch Miss Pynk. May God bless your kind and generous heart.

    T, do not tell your friend for now , however do ensure you protect yourself by keeping any proof if that friendship matters to you.

  12. Thanks a bunch Miss Pynk. May God bless your kind and generous heart.

    T, do not tell your friend for now , however do ensure you protect yourself by keeping any proof if that friendship matters to you.

  13. I doubt I'd be surprised if any man, any man on earth woos me. I've seen too much to be surprised anymore.

    I'll advise you keep quite and not tell your friend except it becomes absolutely necessary. If your friend believes you at all (which is not guaranteed), the knowledge might make her lose some respect for her father and what if she doesn't believe you but instead conclude you're the one who lured her dad?Obviously, you're not his first where trying out his adulterous skills is concerned.

    By the way, God bless Miss Pynky.


  14. loool T... its well oo.. I will get back to you d day I start understanding me..but please dont tell your friend she will neva understand. .thats my two cents

  15. loool T... its well oo.. I will get back to you d day I start understanding me..but please dont tell your friend she will neva understand. .thats my two cents


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