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Thelma Asks...

Honest answers only. Ladies do you trust your man enough to do this with him?

Men, can she trust you enough to let you do this?


  1. Lool, I don't trust anybody enough to do this oo.

  2. People wey get man...ova to you.
    Happy sunday guys.

  3. I don't think she'll be strong enough to hold me

    1. I meant, can she trust you enough to let you hold her over a cliff?

  4. I don't trust anyone biko,anything can happen, the heart of man is full of wickedness, never can tell what he is thinking, love no reach here,dere was a caption on the photo on Facebook that said,I love u but no follow me play dis kind rough play.loll.

  5. I think no 1 should be In a relationship where ur boo doesn't trust u enuff on dz..

    I can trust anyone I call my friend with dz let alone my significant other...

    1. Easah you must be very trusting. I will NOT do this with anybody.

  6. Am not sure if I would,assuming I was in a relationship.

  7. Without any doubt or iota of fear, i'll do this with Bae anytime...

  8. Without any doubt or iota of fear, i'll do this with Bae anytime...

  9. LOOL he'll first have to be able to convince me to go up that cliff, before convincing me that he can carry me. To even convince me he can carry me, he'll have to have The Rock's muscles. Dazall

  10. I trust Bae, but I'm sorry, can't take chances biko for this matter. Even if Bae has good intentions, anything can happen. Personally, i detest rough plays of this nature. We can't control some certain things. # Nature
    #Supernatural forces fit detach me from Bae's grips#...#some village tinz fit

    1. Exactly!!!! This is NOT about Trust, it's just about Stupidity & Wisdom!!!

      Wetin happen? Which kin mumu people be this? I can Trust my Future Man to take a bullet for me, but will I let him stay during a robbery? NO. We'll run it out dude.
      No matter how my Sis, Mom or Friends Trust me, I'll never do this to them. "Anything" can happen & i'll drop them mistakenly! Accidents happen!

  11. No thanks..
    Not that I dnt trust Him but my mind won't just let me

  12. I'm looking for that lady that I can trust with this. Because I'm sure I can be trusted...

  13. I don't trust people to lift me a little off the ground, much less hold me over a cliff. I like my feet best on mother earth. Let's imagine it's the couple from the 11 years 'dated and jilted' post, he just might choose to drop her off the cliff, rather than actually breaking up with her... less drama and all. Meanwhile in her mind she's thinking "bae of 11 yrs... I trust him with my life"

  14. 1) This is a very photoshoped pix cos gravity wldnt even let the couple live enough to have the pix snapped.
    2) No.

  15. Hahaha,the devil was on his own,you people now decided to tempt him

  16. Is this pose even possible? They would have dropped to their deaths before the camera even clicked.

    And NO! I dont trust anybody enough to hold me over a cliff. Lai lai!

  17. I guess what the question basically is asking is if you would trust your significant other with your life. Not necessarily mountaineering lol. If you had asked me this a year ago, I would have shouted a huge resounding yes from the rooftops. But I have become a little hesitant now. Sufffice it to say after the hubster's indiscretion last year, I have realised that my idol has feet of clay. He is as human as they come, as I am myself. That being said, does it mean I shouldn't ever trust him again? I honestly can't say that. I just realised that Jesus is the only friend that is 100% trustworthy come what may. And that may not because people don't love you. The same way I always tell people when others are promising to be there for them when they lose their parents, some really wanted to be there. But that committment couldn't stand the test of time when their own challenges came calling. They wanted to, but lacked the werewithal. Realise that we are all mere mortals, but that doesn't mean go into a committed relationship without trust. I think I'm rambling...

    1. No you ain't rambling at all Nubian Princess. You just typed 90 percent of Mt tots down.

      Trust in the Lord Jesus only 100 percent

    2. No you ain't rambling at all Nubian Princess. You just typed 90 percent of Mt tots down.

      Trust in the Lord Jesus only 100 percent

  18. Yes I will 100% without any aota of doubt....

  19. I wouldn't o and it has nothing to do with trust. What if his strength fails him somehow? What if....just what if something happens and he has to let go off me unintentionally? This is dangerous game, abeg.


  20. Fear don finish me as I dey look am sef.....#JoyDaNuGirl


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