We discussed this on this blog in 2013 and popular consensus was that ladies should never ever make the first move. Oh well... the post below gladdens my heart, who doesn't love Happily Ever Afters...
I just read a post on this lady liking this guy and asking if she should ask him to be his friend or not, many called her 'desperate' which i found immature and unreasonable...but so are some comments aren't there?
To the lady, you can show a man how you feel without words...let me tell you a story...my story
I love to hangout at the Cinema alot, on this day, i went to Silverbed Abuja, sighted this hawt guy who was waiting for the same movie, i thought he was hot, i still do, i kept throwing glances at him, he noticed of course.
When we went in for the movie, as a smart guy, he took the seat directly behind me, i looked back at him and said ''hi'' he said ''hello'' and i struck a conversation, into it, he asked if he could join me and i said yes, so he moved to sit next to me, babe, i was holding this guy down-eye contact on point, smiling, laughing at his jokes, initiating conversations and seeming to have a little knowledge of all he was saying, the guy confessed that he was impressed because most girls in his words, are ''dull and always wait for the guy to do the talking and the gist dosen't even flow''
He asked for my number of course, we kept in touch and during the ''friendship'' i kept up being interesting and a ''good girl''.....(wasn't being promiscuous)
I have always been the bold girl, not afraid to go for what i want, my motto is, ''i would rather try than live my life wondering on''what if''.
After praying for a life partner(if you are ready for it), you do your own work, you don't just sit around and wait. So don't be afraid to be bold, also be honest and exciting, initiate chats/conversations, check on him to know how he is doing, listen to him and support his dreams, laugh with him, be willing to try new and healthy things, go out of your comfort zone and try new things, adjust, send funny pixs and videos, learn about the things he is interested in so that you will have contributions to make, above all, be his friend, his hommie, don't be forming anyhow, be humble....all these are things he says got him stuck on me and it is actually who i am, oh, and i sabi give compliments well.(always makes him blush).
(But be wise, don't go carrying his burdens upon you, support but don't carry, that would crush you and if you see red flags, don't ignore....if he turns out to not be the man you taught he would be, walk and believe me, you would meet someone amazing again).
On his part, i keep thanking God for the broken roads because this man is so good to me, so loving, so giving, so accommodating, he tolerates things i wouldn't, its not just in the way he treats me, its in the way he is with everyone else, so kind but firm, handles the bills, he makes me laugh and wet my pants, he honestly is the best i have ever had, he calls me ''his world'' (smiling) i could go on but in plain words, he is more than i prayed for.
Our marriage is next week Saturday (14th of March)
So my dear, show a man how you feel ,if he throws it back at your face, accept it and move on but that shouldn't stop you from showing again, trust me on this.
Oh dear, I loved reading this. This was culled from Stella Dimoko's blog, she also included a picture from their pre-wedding photo shoot.