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Where Have I Been???


I'm not sure what the charges are but I admit that I'm guilty of the offense. I'm sorry, these last few days have been tedious. I've been all over the place, still all over the place and I've barely had the time to sit still or catch my breath. I guess I'm just trying to fit in all the things I'd thought I'd do before 30, before I turn 30 next Monday. These include get married, get pregnant, put my career in order, straighten out my finances, register my company, and of course learn to fly a plane! So far so good, as you know Monday is just around the corner and there's hardly any time left. 

So bear with me. LOL.  

Yeah, I also want to leave Lagos for a week or two after my birthday, go get some good lovin', TLC and pampering *wink wink* *blushing* *eye lashes*... And that also means that I have a lot I need to execute this week. So... 

That said, this post is basically to inform y'all of the winner of Sunshine's shoe giveaway. I chose Chioma Ukeje because she's been consistent on the blog but more importantly because she wrote a post for the The Perfect Valentine's Day contest and a number of you voted for her. So Congratulations Chioma Ukeje!!! Please mail me for information to how to pick up your prize. 

As we all know Anonymous Rider won that contest and she asked me to giveaway the 5k airtime. These were some of those who expressed interest. I promise to get it across to you by Friday, today and tomorrow are quite tight for me. 

Quirky Moi
Talikhi Bekas
Joseph Ameh

Would any of you be around Lekki Phase 1 on Monday evening, say around 7pm? Would you be interested in some Cold Stone ice cream and Domino pizza? I don't intend to celebrate my birthday but I'm thinking it might be weird to just let the 30th go by... The last thing I intend to do is have some big celebration, or any kind of celebration for that matter, but if you're interested in a chilled evening eating ice cream and some chitchat please let me know. 

This is subject to change though, and I would inform you of any changes before then, because there's a possibility that I might make that trip on Monday.



  1. I refreshed like a million times 2day..wheww
    Yaay...Lucky me ,Thanks T
    Please take time to breathe o,I will pray to God specially to let you accomplish all you listed above before Monday

  2. Yaaaaay! it should not be subject to change o! heheheheheheheheheee! And Thelma, you just went AWOL like that! Aaaaanyway... I missed you. And thanks to Sunshine and Anonymous rider. God bless you guys!

  3. Thelma you intend to get married, get pregnant, put my career in order, straighten out my finances, register my company, and of course learn to fly a plane" before Monday? You don turn magician? Bebe! Goodluck biko.

  4. Yaaaaay! I got picked.... lol. Thanks T and anonymous rider.

    I was beginning to wonder where why you hadn't put up a new post. Nice to hear you are good.

    Ice cream and pizza*licks lip*.....but na lekki loun loun *tear drop*..

    Am very good at forgetting birthdays,just in case I do let me use this moment to say Have A WONDERFUL BIRTHDAY. WiShing you the best this life has to offer,God's favor,love and guidance. advance

  5. Happy Birthday in advance, you've been told you can always take your 'me time'

  6. Yay!!! Dancing sekem. Thanks Thelma and Sunshine :D, happy birthday in advance too and goodluck with the list :D

  7. Anonymous Rider!5:46 pm, March 11, 2015

    Amen Amen .... Thelmaaa< where you de go?

  8. Thelma has turned magician ohhh,u wan do all this things stated above before Monday?? Hmmmm okay now. Tnks anonymous rider,singing*GOD go make u bigger ohhh*Amen. As for the pizza and ice cream, wud b at lekki on Monday but not till that time,so I go miss*sobs*but hey sweets, have fun more. Happy bday in advance, u are marching into your glory.

    1. maybel.. tell me when you get to lekki o! but how sef? so i can see your pretty face! hehe and big *clears throat* #nohomo loool

      i will look for ur email so we can communicate.

    2. Lol,no wahala dear,I wud love to see ur naughty sef too.

  9. Awww thank u T and Anonymous Rider. Meeanwhile T u rily dnt have any idea d effects of ur uninformed abscense O! All d best as u turn the big 30!

  10. Thelma Thelma Thelma ..... *lips are sealed*

  11. T U don try oh!
    I just hope not to be in that plane when u fly it. LOL... Whenever U are this busy, just leave a blank post, Ur readers will have a great time with it.

    1. Seconded! We re sure gon have fun with just a blank post.

    2. #blankpost, thirded

  12. Thelma,welcome back.So u intend to achieve all these things before monday,d Lord is your muscle'.I wasn't picked for that beautiful shoe *wipes tears*,congrats Chioma.

  13. Happy Birthday in advance.


  14. Welcome back Thelms the magician..and Happy birthday in Advance. Hope u have a good celebration...ccheers

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