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Who's At Fault, The Dumper or The Dumpee?




A blog reader sent me these tweets, an account of something that actually happened, and ORDERED me to post it. LOL. He's keen to know if you think the guy was right or wrong. 












Was he right to dump her? 



Tweets; Linda Ikeji's blog. 

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  1. Lool how does he know she cannot afford it?, what was the guy expecting you carry her go highbrow boutique in ikoyi, learner.

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  2. On another thought, why are we humans so complicated? Your girlfriend picks something that is too expensive, why not tell her your mind? a responsible girl will retrace her steps, dating is also for learning and correction, and I want to assume this is the first time this has happened. Am sure if you ask the girl why the guy broke up with her, she would have no clue. Communication is Key.

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    1. I wonder?
      Ill say good riddance to mr "I KNOW IT ALL, RIGID, UPTIGHT" Deji

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    2. I mean life is not hard...just communicate

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  3. Dupe is a learner. And Deji is not straightforward.both parties made a mistake. Always try to establish what you are about before hand. I cannot ask my husband for a Hermes bag, but i am sure i can approach him with a business idea (profitable or not) and he would consider funding it. My point is know your audience. Folks need to learn how to "woju" very well.

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  4. he is childish.. this is not a random babe..she is your gf.. if you thought it was expensive, you should have told her that before paying.. that was an excuse to break up..IMO..

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  5. He's right for dumping her. If he can't handle a girl like that then it's fine. I believe people should be reasonable. It shows she just wants to take advantage of him.

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    1. Yeah, after all he's an oil worker with loads of cash.

      Or it could be that he's been preaching his wealth to her and she felt a 250k bag won't harm his pocket and she may be right but she wasn't smart enough to see an opportunistic avenue to venture into an enterprising business.

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  6. Items in Ikoyi,VI and even Lekki boutiques are over the top expensive. If you take girl there what exactly do you expect. Wonder why he thought she cannot afford it,she works in a good place.

    BTW: I was passing this boutique in VI one day and I saw 60% discount on their door. I decided to go in and do some awoof shopping. I picked one regular gown and the price on it was 42k. I was busy doing maths to know the 60% of the 42k so i'll know what i'll eventually pay. When I got to the pay point, I was informed that the 42k was the discounted price. My eyes were so big that Segun Arinze could not hold a candle to it at that moment. I dropped it so fast before somethn spoils and ran. J

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  7. Once again, where are the male readers of this blog???

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  8. I saw ds post on bellanaija.
    Both parties are wrong. Why would a guy take a lady to a high brow shop he can't afford? Who is he trying to impress?..that's soo low of him!
    And for d babe..she no try. On a first date she's raising her stakes high. She would have just gone for something cheaper(not like she can't afford expensive bags..but moderation is key on a first date). Also what happened to just casual hang-outs or movies or perhaps a nice place to sit,eat and talk and then understand each other better as to spending powers and other stuffs..etc. Why shopping on a first date? Wrong signal to start a date in my opinion.
    The guy should park well biko...he never had long-term plans for d babe. If he really loved her dats not enough reason to call off the relationship. Good riddance jarey!!

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  9. After all she only picked a bag. What if she picked 5 bags? Na d guy wan show say him na big boy na. Who says dupe can't afford 250k bag, does the guy know how financially bouyant dupe is? Please save me that crap! Thelma I love your blog and for the fact that I can now comment yippie!!

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  10. Maybe, just maybe dupe had decided deji wasn't 'it' and took the bag as a 'parting gift'...in which case he most likely wouldn't have parted with the cash for her to be enterprising with...
    Back to the original setting, they both were foolish. Case closed.

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  11. Hmm. What if that was the cheapest item in that store and since he was the one that took her there,she decides to massage his ego by taking just one item?

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    1. There's a store in Phase 1 where shoes are sold for 450- 500k plus. It's not open for everyone. If ur boo takes u there for shopping,if u say no,he might think ur not on his class and thus dump u. So she picked one item and has been dumped still...

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