I told you last month that my husband has been cheating on me. I don't know if my husband has ever been faithful to me since the beginning of our marriage but before he used to have the decency to try and hide it. After our first baby he stopped trying to pretend. Please how can a man go to a bear parlour every night and come back in the morning, what do they do there?
I have begged cried prayed fasted even threatened to leave him but he does not care. That is the most painful part, when I say I will leave it is almost as if he is happy. With two children and my unemployed situation I cannot go anywhere. My friends have said I should ignore him and focus on other things, everybody says all men cheat and I should get used to it, that if I see what is happening in other marriages I will thank God for my own. I don't know how to get used to my husband sleeping with other women but I have tried. Now, my husband started dating this girl Chioma. Even the girl did not have the decency to hide the relationship. She buys him perfums and boxers and she will buy greeting cards and write her name, can you imagine that my husband stopped bothering to hide her gifts anymore. Can you imagine that that jezebel traveled, and bought things for my husband and my children? if I know where she lives I will have gone straight to and warn her. I know it sounds stupid my friends say how many will you go and warn? But she is taking it too far. She calls him anytime she wants and he doesn't hide anymore. His excuse is that after all I have already caught him so why should he continue to hide? I know you people will say face your husband and leave the girl alone but this girl is taking it too far. Last week I did some FBI and found out his password. Thelma last night Chioma sent him her naked pictures, not only that but the pictures of her female friend sucking her b**bs and other naughty pictures. She said as his birthday present she and her friend have a surprise. God knows that I am tired of praying and fasting and i know I sound stupid but I love my husband and I don't believe in divorce . I have it in mind to publish her pictures and even her contacts, I sent everything to my phone. She sent her faces even in the naked pictures. Is it that she is that stupid or she trusts my husband this much?
*Chioma is not the real name, I changed it.
*The mail was sent to me personally but I'm unauthorized to voice opinions on marital issues. She gave me her permission to post.
She has said a lot but her main question is doesn't "Chioma" deserve to have her pictures and personal details posted online? Is that a punishment well deserved or should our dear poster "temper Justice with mercy"?