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He Pulled The Trigger!

An intruder visits a guy and his fiancée he is about to marry and after robbing them, he hands his gun over to the lady and tells her to shoot her fiancé if she doesn't want to die but she refuses on account of her love for her future husband...the thief smiled, took the gun from her and gave it to the guy and told him to shoot the lady if he doesn't want to die, he fearfully pulled the trigger.... But there was no bullet in the gun. The robber smiled, took back the gun and told the lady to decide if what exists between her and her fiancé is really 'LOVE', then he left.

The lady was disappointed at her fiancé and immediately she left, the guy began to plead.
If you were in the lady's shoe, would you forgive him? 

Now here's the thing. Before you scream NOOOO in righteous indignation, remember that love makes us stupid and we forgive lovers for things we never imagined we would condone. I know the scenario above is a bit extreme but remember the boo you forgave after cheating, the one you still went back to after he beat you blue black, the boo who constantly puts you down and makes you feel small, the one who stole your money... This lady really dodged a bullet but don't wait till someone pulls a trigger before you walk away from someone you know is no good for you. 

Speaking of forgiveness, give me gist. What's the worst/greatest/most terrible thing a person/lover/ex has done to you but you eventually forgave?

This scenario brings something else to mind. Stop carrying someone like a bag of rice who carries you like a pinch of salt! The things you're willing to do/give/sacrifice/lose for the one you love, would they be willing to do/give/sacrifice/lose for you? Just asking. Remember people always show us who they are and how they really feel about us. It's us, most times that choose to shut our eyes to the reality. Be guided. 


  1. Hmmm. I can't think of any situation....maybe cos it's been so loong. It simply means the guy values his life above his fiancée's life.

    1. Who doesn't value his or her life more than some other persons? The only reason why I won't pull the trigger is cos of the guilt I will feel of having killed someone and I know I can't live with it . otherwise...... Love gbakwa oku. Love ni love ko!!

  2. Me I would hv pulled the trigger o. I think I haven't forgiven my ex for dying.Lol so today is my 2nd anniversary and I'm grateful to God

    1. Happy 2 anniversary luv.. Hope u are going to treat hubby nice tonit....wink!..

    2. Happy anniversary to you ma'am

  3. I've had nice exes,lovers and friends
    Noone has done something to the point where I cnt forgive
    I will definitely not pull the trigger on someone that's not trying to kill me...that guy is a bag of beans

  4. I am gonna need that intruder to put a bullet in that gun and hand it back to me...**straight face**... Heya mami...

    I can't remember at the moment what an ex did to me that I probably swore I would never forgive.....buh I know I have said those words to myself tho'....hehe...Oh well, love and lust can make one do stupid things eh...

  5. Uhmmm i av actually caught bf red handed cheating on me. So this was wat happened. I was to cook for him at his house and so i was at d market and after buying all d stuff i needed i called to confirm i was gonna b on my way to his house in lik an hr 30mins since i needed to get to my house and pick up some tins. So when i called instead of responding as usually all he kept saying was yes..ok!!...ok. I no talk, i continued my waka. So wen i was on my way to his house and was on his street , somtin jst told me to look in d distance and i saw my dear bf driving lik a mad formular 1 driver o. Rushing to enter his compound. I jst boned lik i dint witness that scene. So i got into d house and d first tin i did was to go round d rooms to do my own private investigation. He was in d living room feeling all fly and acting nice and all. Only for me to enter one of d rooms and i saw remains of sharpened eye pencil and checkin flight ticket paper with d name of a suspect. And i went to him straight and asked who came to spend hol and he was like what are u talking about. Better stop dis. And i calmly went in and picked up all evidence and showed to him dat was wen he mellowed and started apology. He obviously did not av time to clean up all of d left behind evidence because wen i was calling from d market and he was answering yes, no! He was on his way to drop her at d airport and wen he was rushing in after seeing me driving down his street and thought i dint see him, he was rushing to hide somtin bt forgot d others. I was pissed off. Took my bags and left. I said i wont forgive him bt i later let it slide bt i have never forgotten and dont think i ever will.

  6. Haha.. Tibs's comment.. That robber will give me that gun back o, this time with a bullet.

    Seriously tho, I know we forgive cheating husbands, abusive husbands & co but its only someone that's alive that can forgive now.. He tried to take my life! right after I refused to take his.. There's no way that kind of person loves me for real.

    I'm pretty sure I haven't completely forgiven the ex who hooked up with another lady barely 3 weeks after we ended things and I knew the lady so it wasn't like they met right after we broke up. It still hurts sometimes and I think about him everyday! and its been almost 4years. *sigh*
    I need true love

  7. Had an ex that tried to do fast business with a very good friend of mine, yet making it clear to her that he "Loved" me. Turns out she was a better friend than he was a bf. Funny thing is after the initial hurt and rage, I actually forgave him too easily. The fact that I never went and still refuse to go back though, makes him feel un forgiven, but that's his cross to bear. I have peace is all that matters.
    I don't blame the girl for pulling the trigger, we all don't react to fear and terror the same way. I've seen a woman abandon her toddler in the middle of the road while robbers shot sporadically on that road. We can't say she didn't love that child. The fact is the first basic instinct of man is survival, very few people are willing to put their lives on the line for love

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