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The Things That Matter To You?

The weather was simply fantastic this morning and I couldn't let it go to waste. I decided to go for a nice long walk which turned into a full workout, thanks to peer pressure. LOL. Everyone seemed to be doing one exercise or the other and my sluggish stroll was incongruous with their frenetic activities, so I picked up the pace. Well, you know how those settings are, you get to meet people, which is the sole idea behind working out there, for some people. 

Someone came to chat me up, lively conversation. In the looks department he wasn't exactly easy on the eyes, but when he opened his mouth to talk it was a silky smooth baritone that you wouldn't mind falling asleep to. We chatted for a while, about ten minutes or so, but it was enough time to gather that he's really smart and has a great personality.

While I may never see him again, thinking about it makes me wonder. One lady might swoon over him for his great personality and charm, another might flick any thoughts of him away because of his below average looks. Doesn't it make you wonder at the things that matter to some and the things that matter to others?

So I'm just going to do a little test. On the scale of 1 to 10, 1 being the least and 10 being the most, how much do these in the opposite sex, matter to you?


I don't mind going first. 
Looks-6. Personality-9. Education-6.5. Finances-9. 

Like most people, I find that a person's personality is important. But unlike most people I'm willing to admit that I like money, the things money can buy and the lifestyle money can afford. Oh before you say it, of course I intend to be financially independent, but with our combined awesome finances, imagine what magic we can make!!!!!

Now it's your turn, show me your answers. LOL. 


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  2. Looks 5
    Personality 9.
    Education 7
    Finances 10

    1. why the name change? and i liked the previous one.

      looks - 7
      personality - 10
      education - 8
      finances - 7

    2. Awww...thanks Chris
      Someone advised I dnt use my full name cos of the way social media is this days and just so everyone everywhere who sees the comment wont immediately know who wrote it...this kind keep them guessing kind if thing
      Hope you like the new one too

    3. You welcome.

      Wise advice and one that should be heeded if i may add. Yeah, the new one is nice also.

  3. Looks:8
    Personality: 9
    Education: 7
    Finances: 9

    1. I'm too lazy to type. We agree totally

    2. Thirded.
      Nkem u just wrote wetin dey my mind jarey

  4. Looks 7
    Personality 9
    Education 6
    Finances 10

    Yea I'm that selfish

  5. Looks 7
    Personality 8
    Education 10
    Finances 10

    NOTE: I LOVE MONEY and I don't hide that fact

  6. Looks 7
    Personality 8
    Education 10
    Finances 10

    NOTE: I LOVE MONEY and I don't hide that fact

  7. I will go for a 8 across all levels, that is slightly above average!

  8. Looks -6
    Personality- 9
    Education - 8
    Finances - 8

  9. Looks -7
    Personality 9
    Education - 8
    Finances - 8

  10. Looks 5
    Personality 7
    Education 10
    Finances 9

  11. Biko Personality it's 9 (cos no one is perfect).
    Looks 6 (I'll compliment him well).
    Education 7 (at least a Bachelors or Masters won't hurt no one).
    Finances 9, cos I'm not a gold digger. Lol

  12. Looks 5 (biko he should not be finer than me
    Personality 8
    Education 8
    Finances 10 (y can't I have it all)

  13. Looks 5 (biko he should not be finer than me
    Personality 8
    Education 8
    Finances 10 (y can't I have it all)

  14. Looks 7.5 (huuuhhh attracted to fooiinneee guys like magnet)
    Personality 8
    Education 9 (he has to be able to challenge me)
    Finances 9 (who doesn't love money?)

  15. Personality - 8
    Looks - 6
    Education - 6
    Finance - 4

  16. Looks 9(cos beauty is in the eyes of the beholder)
    Personality 10
    Education 5.5(it doesnt make you any wiser than you choose to be)
    Finances 10(be rich in mind not in cash cos cash can go away)

  17. Looks - 5 (I'm attracted to fine guys but its not a deal breaker)
    Personality - 10 (you have to have an awesome personality to be able to engage and hold my attention especially if you're not "easy on the eyes")
    Education - 9 (you dont have to have a PhD but please be intelligent. How will a masters degree holder and a secondary school drop out relate biko? Intelligence is really really important to me)
    Finances - 6 ( I'm still trying to upgrade to maybe a 9 but right now, a guy's finances dont matter so much to me and i know it should)

  18. Looks 8 (Dude gotta be fine)

    Personality 9 (Well if being awesome makes it a 10 then its still accepted)

    Education 7 (Na who pass exam sabi book)

    Finances 8 (Be able to afford the good things of life)

  19. Personality 9, Looks 8, Education 6, Finances 5.

  20. Looks 7.5, Personality 8.5, Education 6, Finance 9

  21. Looks 7
    Personality 9
    Education 6
    Finance 7

  22. Looks- 8 ( God made us in his own image, and i believe God is very handsome)
    Personality- 9 ( The way he talks, presents himself in public, table manners- won't eat rice with spoon...)
    Education-7 ( At least a degree or masters wont be a bad one)
    Finance- 9 ( Should at least be able to pay for my vacation once a year :)


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