Hehehe. This is hilarious. What wouldn't I see? Ok, truth be told it's not exactly hilarious, but still... So yesterday I got a male from a mail blog reader... (did you notice my blip), a mail from a male blog reader LOL and the basis was "seeing as you're a sexologist in the making...". So the basic gist of the mail was that he ran into a childhood friend months ago and they recently started dating, early this year. Boo wanted to wait for sometime before they both got sexually active and he didn't mind waiting for her. Well recently they finally did the do, and all the heightened passion and excitement only ended in one anticlimactic moment, thanks to the rather of pleasant smell of her nether regions.
Normally this would be a deal breaker but he really likes her, so he decided instead that for now he would avoid going to bed with her. But as fate will have it, now that it's been done there's no going back, she's started demanding. In addition to wanting "sexy time", he said she expressed to him that she wasn't happy about the lack of foreplay, and by that you know she means oral sex, right? *covers face*.
Here's someone asking me this question. I, who doesn't know how to tell someone that their breath is below par or that their body doesn't smell too good. How am I to tell you how to tell the boo that the veejayjay stank?! Truth, is after suggesting this and that I admitted that I didn't know the "right" way.
I asked my sister about it and she said "if it's you, how would you like to be told?"
Ladies, now I know we're all very clean, very hygienic women in here (I hope...). But in the lady's shoes, what's the best way for your man to tell you that you have a smelly vag?
Is there any "right" way? If yes, then tell us what. If no, then what should he do; hold his breath while he does the do, or break up with her?
My question basically is, if you smell bad down there, how would you like to be told?
Guys, ever had to deal with this? Did you just suffer in silence OR break the silence? Do tell.
...Honestly, I wouldn't like to be told at all, just break up with me. LOL