What do you do when your loving, faithful and absolutely wonderful husband has eyes for only you and one other; your little daughter?
Dear TTB readers, the things we hear! Some time last year I and some ladies got into this argument at the salon. They were all older women, all married and mothers. The argument began when one of the ladies called her maid and asked to talk to her little daughter who was about 3. The maid said the girl was using the toilet. Mother then asked; if you're answering the phone, who took her to the toilet? Maid replied saying something like; "Oh, it's uncle (Akin), he offered to help me". The woman immediately went ballistic and told the maid to rush to the toilet and put her daughter on the phone.
While it's not clear whether uncle Akin had any bad intentions, we couldn't understand why a male guest would offer to take a little girl to the toilet. And that's when the arguments and conversation began. Among everything that was said, I remember one of the mothers saying, in the heat of the moment, that she has 3 daughters and she doesn't even let them sit on their daddies laps, how much more a guest? She then added something that made us quiet, I can't leave my husband alone with my girls.
Guys, this is even more heartbreaking than a cheating husband, don't you think? To have little daughters and feel uneasy leaving them with their own father? How sad that is. Yet, this isn't the only occasion I've heard such a thing. Last year someone wrote in to a blog on a matter like this; suspecting her husband of sexually molesting their baby girl; touching her innappropraitely and all that. Now, see this mail sent in to
"I noticed my husband has been molesting my 3months old daughter. I've been suspecting it but it's this evening I confirmed it because I saw him trying to make her suck his breast so immediately I came out from the bathroom he paused. I entered to get something, came out and saw him trying to make my daughter suck his dick. He did as if he was trying to make her get up. I saw his penis out from one side of his boxers. And it was wet. I collected my child and he quickly adjusted his penis. I'm so confused right now. My heart is heavy. What do l do?"
Guys, this is desperately sad. Where does one even begin with a matter like this? Please how would you handle such an issue? What would you advise this woman to do?