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7 Thoughts, Questions & Musings Before I Board The Plane.

1. After all those years of denying that there's a difference between the light skin and dark skin, you catch yourself staring at the girl twenty feet away again. Not becasue you know her, not because she's particularly beautiful, not because she's special. Because she's light-skinned. So although she's twenty feet away your eyes boycott everyone else in your line of view and repeatedly stray back to her. 

2. But is it possible for a man in Nigeria not to cheat? Dang there are women in this country. We've freaking got beautiful women! I'm female yet I just got lost staring. Just when one catches my attention and I'm wondering what it must feel like to live in that flawless skin, graced with such a pretty face and blessed with that bone structure, another one even more beautiful catches my eyes. I alternate between women-watching and watching men watch the women. They too seem overwhelmed, just when he thought damn she's hot!, someone hotter walks in. 

3. So Faze just walked in, well tailored native outfit, a cap on his head and dark shades. Dark shades inside the departure lounge. Why? Does he worry that he'll be ambushed by fans, rushed by the ladies, attacked by the paparazzi? Or perhaps he doesn't want to be seen and have them think; that has-been. Hell that's what I thought when I saw him; if only I could ask him what's it like; the life of a 'has been'? What are your regrets, fondest memories, deepest wishes and truest feelings about the success of Tuface...

4. The lady who just sat across from me, what's with her? An artificial yellow pawpaw with professional bridal makeup (people get time sha), designer bag, gold jewelry, painfully high heels... Just before I stuffed my ear piece into my ears I thought, I should try to get someone going to my destination, just in case I get carried away by these amazing pieces of 90s music I downloaded last night and miss my flight's announcement, to alert me when our flight is announced.  So I says to her "Hey, hi... Please are you going to ABC?". She recoils like I just asked her to suck mucus from my nose and shrugs no. A minute later she gets up and relocates to a seat at the opposite end of the lounge. Curious thing. 

5. Is today "And co" day? I'm sure I've seen at least three couples (not married), matching the colours and fabrics of their outfits. This one that just walked pass, both denim on denim. Pretty couple I must say. I'm not quite sure though, wearing matching outfits with the boo; cute or 'don't do it!"?

6. I did it. I did it. I talked to a celeb!!! In business class Faze is seated on the right (are you surprised?) and Chigul is on the left. I was going to gush to her about her TEDx Talk, but I noticed the faint lali on her hands and remembered the vibrantly colorful pictures on Instagram the day she had it done. So I'm like "Aww, it's going off already, I saw it when it was brand new", and without missing a beat she looks at her hand and replies with mock sorrow, "Yeah, it's fading, and fading very fast. So so annoying!", I laugh; "I know, right" and walk on to my seat. She's good people! 
       Oh Daddy Freeze was on board too. Very cute but smaller than I'd expected. Him, I wanted to ask; so is this one of your $90,000 watches, because it don't look 'that' expensive... But hey, what do I know about watches?

7. I find it very hard to believe that the departure lounge is packed and bursting at its seams with people, yet I don't know one person here. Not a familiar face, not an acquaintance, not an old friend. So many people in the world, way too many, 6,000,000,000 and counting. Thousands of people here too, thousands of people everywhere. So how is it that I have not one to call my own? 

Feels good to be away from Gidi, I really need this! How goes it, guys?

To summarize my thoughts 
1. Light skin is more attractive 
2. It'll take God's grace and severe discipline (for a man) not to cheat
3. It must suck to have had fame and success. 
4. Weird things and people abound. 
5. Not sure how I feel about dating couples matching outfits
6. I like Chigurl
7. Too many people yet no one..


  1. Interesting thoughts indeed. Nice weekend and best wishes!

  2. So many people in the world, way too many, 6,000,000,000 and counting. Thousands of people here too, thousands of people everywhere. So how is it that I have not one to call my own?
    I just love the way you convey your thoughts.

  3. Wearing matching outfit is annoying unless you are married and it is for an occasion. I will never purposely match my boyfriends clothes. I think it's even embarassing lol.

    1. Even as married couples going for an occasion...arrrrrrrgh. I wouldn't like it. I would have to play around with my style to reduce the 'anconess' but I think most men these days just wear white and the cap can match the colour of whatever the mademoiselle is wearing.

      Have a safe flight TT and enjoy your weekend.

  4. sometimes I rather just watch the women n appreciate how there are really beautiful women in Nigeria
    •Wearing matching outfit is annonying,why do people do it

  5. What u don't know is that guys actually get tired of seeing "fine" gehs especially when dey v had unpleasant experiences with the most gorgeous ones.

  6. Have an awesome T baybeh!!!
    Who knows, U might find ur own on this trip.

    As for ur thoughts, biko keep wandering. We are with U!

    1. "Awesome TRIP" I meant.
      Overzealous brain I have!

  7. Nice thoughts T..and do enjoy your weekend

  8. Funny interesting post. Truly your mind is wanderland! Very fascinating musings.
    'and co', and 'national anthem', I'm yet to decide which I dislike more.
    Have fun Thelma...

  9. No 2 is so me. Sometimes I not only stare and admire, I wish I was a man so I could date and date lots of them. Naija get fine babes abeg!

    I trust ur flight was great! Have a nice weekend bvs.

    1. I'm also guilty of this. So many 'well-shaped' and attractive women.


    2. In other words if you were a man you'd cheat a lot and have many girlfriends abi. Then why is it so hard for women to understand why men cheat?

    3. Mbanu! No I'll neither cheat nor have many girlfriends, I'll simply date one for a while and move on to the next that catches my eye.

      No mind me abeg.

  10. Lol people watching is one of my favorite things to do at the airport. Trying to guess where they're coming from, stuff about they're lives, what they're thinking...etc. safe trip madam!

  11. I would have guessed you went to Benin...but benin airport is closeed i hear. So abuja it was.
    Light akin is striking in Nigeria - because the population is titled towards darker skin..same way a black person in Finland will always get stared at.

    2. Fidelity is a big choice for both men and women. Lol.

    3. Airport people watching is interesting esepcially in Nigeria...some people are fully dressed to head to parties from the airport.

    As for has been, Faze- can't imagine how he feels. I am still confused as to why Freeze is so razz by declaring watch prices no one asked him about.

    Hope you had or have a good time away from all the Lagos madness.

  12. Your mind can run sha, lol.
    1: I think the light skinned attraction has to do with our being used to sun blackened people that it's rare these days to see a genuinely light skinned person with no patches.
    2: it's possible for a man not to cheat, all it takes is knowing, valuing and most importantly valuing who you're with and know that you can't risk losing her. Another question I ask myself before I approach a girl cos of her looks is, after the sex what next? She'll become ordinary in my eyes like any other I've slept with. Not worth it when I have someone that gives me sex and so much more!
    T you might need to move around more, the billions of people are scattered all over the world and the one might not be close to where you are right now.
    Meanwhile matching outfits are just so... I dunno the word for it but tacky, cheesy, annoying don't quite cut it.
    Hope you have a nice flight T, I'm sure you did, you talked to a celeb after all.

  13. Change of environment... Enjoy dear...

  14. Change of environment... Enjoy dear...


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