Hello Thelma and blog visitors. I recently started seeing someone and I think I'm falling inlove with him. I am also praying that he will be the one because I've suffered too much heartbreaks and I hope to settle down soon. I know that he likes me too and he is very mature and comfortable so I believe that he too will like to marry soon. I am really praying that this relationship will lead to marriage but the problem now is that twice he has asked me how many men I have slept with, I didn't answer and he is becoming suspicious as if I'm hiding something. Because of the failed relationships I have experience the number might be too high, so I am afraid to tell him. It is not more than twelve but I feel that if he is insisting I will tell him 2 or 3, but I don't want to lie to him. Should I tell him the truth or reduce the number? I don't want to tell him anything but the more I keep quiet the more he thinks that it must be very high. Please what should I do?
I personally don't believe in full disclosure, especially in regards of things I don't consider a factor in the present relationship. But that's my personal opinion. What's yours guys; to talk and be truthful, to talk and be economical with the truth or not to talk at all?