Hi T and BVs. I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago because it did not look like our relationship was going anywhere. We were together for a over year and I loved him but we don't have a lot in common, also I would like to settle down soon but he says that he has a 3 year plan and he doesnt plan to marry untill after that. I met someone that I like and we have strong chemistry. I didn't want to cheat on my boyfriend so I broke up with him. He begged only a little but didn't seem to mind much so went went separate ways. Last year he bought me a MacBook and a small Lister gen for my apartment, now he's saying he wants to collect them back, and a few other things he bought me. I don't mind returning them but I also spent money on him in the relationship too. I threw a big surprise party for him on his birthday and it cost me a lot of money. I also paid for a week long trip to Zanzibar during Christmas for both of us. I know I also spent a lot of my own money on him too so why should I return the things he gave me? Now he is insisting that if I don't willingly return them he will get police involved. What do you think I should do?
Apologies poster. Seems you sent this last week but it went to my spam mail.