Haha! What's with these Exs that keep asking for stuff back?
Sometimes we do things that surprise even ourselves. Something similar happened with a close friend of mine. *Chioma used to be very overweight, like a size 20 or 22. Naturally it affected her self-confidence. She was in a really good relationship though, and Le boo was crazy about her. She was very happy that in spite of her weight she had a great guy who loved her and found her sexy. Still, she couldn't shake the feeling that even though he never complained, he found slimmer gurls attractive.
She then went on a diet and started to exercise vigorously with some Jillian Micheals videos and eventually dropped to half her size. She came back to Nigeria after her Masters and was a totally transformed person, mentally and physically. Unlike the likes of me and a few others that lose the booty and boobies when we lose a little weight, Chioma didn't lose those and as such had this banging hour glass body (Think a slimmer Toolz). Of course she started to get a lot of attention from guys and once admitted that she was beginning to feel like she was too good for le boo.
Eventually Chioma who had never cheated before found herself cheating with someone whom she felt was more worthy of the new her.
The whole thing makes me wonder if we're with certain people because we unconsciously or subconsciously feel that that's the best we can do, and when our status or standing is elevated, we'll look at them and think you ain't shit.
I can't say I blame Chioma or that poster's wife, I've never lived their reality. I just think that if someone stuck with you at your worst, they deserve you at your best. Reading this, I can't blame that girl who said she feeds her boyfriend fat because she's worried that if he loses weight he'll become too good for her and dump her. LOL.
So back to the post, If you were the Judge in this matter, and this man comes to you for an order asking his wife to reimburse the surgery money, would you grant it to him or not? And why? Do tell.