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About Last Night; An Unexpected Turn. (Would You Love Him If You Didn't Need Him?)

Hey guys, so as y'all know last night I was in the mood for something, and someone different. It was hilarious I tell you! But people don't listen now, do they? Everyone that contacted me, save one, are people I already know. What? Did y'all think I was joking when I said what I said? Anyhoooooo to be honest the thought of getting dressed and glammed to go hang out with someone I've never met seemed a bit much, but I'm hoping we'll be friends and maybe some weekend we could do drinks...

So among the 'contacters' from last night was an ex. Interesting night, last night. Here's what happened; I was all dressed up to go have a drink or two with said ex when another friend hola'd and reminded me that HOTR had night vigil last night. My people, that's how I ditched the makeup and short dress and put on jeans, a tee shirt, a cardigan and a shawl, and hit the church! Hehehehehe. Yeah, that's where I turned up last night.

As you might have figured by now I didn't go alone. (Totally unrelated, but 30(s) is turning out to be much more exciting than the 20s. Who woulda thunk it!?). When we parked the car, my companion made a comment premised on an observation he made on the walk from the car park to the door. He also attends HOTR occasionally so he's words were quite founded. He said to me, "did you notice how almost all these cars here tonight are very ordinary?". "Ordinary how?" I asked. "Compare the cars you're seeing here now to the usual cars you see in this church on Sundays". I looked around and I could see his point. He continued; "it's funny, on Sundays you'll see mainly G-Wagons, Range Rovers, LRs and other luxury cars. This night we're seeing only saloon cars, and most of them old or beat up, at that". I looked around, he was right. I mean there were a few "nice" cars but otherwise, this was not the normal HOTR car park look.

"So why aren't those ones in church tonight? Because they have money, and all the things that they need and can't be bothered with the stress of coming for night vigil? And the ones who came for vigil are the ones who obviously really NEED help from God, the ones that are hustling?...." He seemed really keen on this; where were the owners of the multi-million rides? Why did it seem like the saloon owners were the only one present at vigil?

Why do you think this is?

Makes me wonder; if you didn't really need God, would you still love Him the way you do? (And no, I'm not suggesting that our needs are solely financial). 

I wrote this yesterday, last night refers to Friday night. 

Have a beautiful Sunday guys, it's the last one of the Month.


  1. It is generally known that the poorer a man is, the higher the likelihood he wants to be closer to God. Most people believe their greatest problem in Life is money, and frankly when you have money or have figured it out, whats the point in sleeping in church? I can't bet if you ask 10 people what their prayer points include- financial prosperity will top the list for at least 6 in thise 10. In a depraved society like Nigeria- it will more than likely even be 8 of 10. Your friend's theory is correct for the most part.

  2. What if the ppl with d BIG cars are same ppl with d small cars? They cud hav just preferred to use their less flashy cars at night for safety reasons. After all, ppl have more than 1 cars right?. That's my thought sha.

    1. That's an interesting thought but let's think about it for a minute... You must be insinuating that the 100's of big car owners all opted for smaller cars. Generally if Mercedes Benz G63 AMG is your big car then your small car would be something in the range of a Toyota Highlander or maybe even any car later than 2008, definitely not a 1999 Sienna or an End of Discussion or Baby Boy, they just don't mix. Have you ever seen a Rolls Royce owner drive a corolla at night? Not me sha

      Mind you, most of the same people that went with the ordinary cars won't go to vigil once they have been blessed enough to switch it up. They say everything happens in stages but it's sad that we think we can outgrow being humble before God or gain material success to the point where we think we don't need Him anymore.

  3. Hmmmm! Sometimes we don't seem to understand how much we need God until trouble shows up.

  4. Hmmmm! Sometimes we don't know how much we need God until trouble shows up.

  5. You have a gift for writing, and getting thoughts out of people. You should nurture and treasure it!
    To the question, we have a culture of going to God as the person who solves our problems. And He IS that person. But God is also our friend, and I wish more people will see Him that way. That person whom when you've got some spare time, you can just call Him and have a chit chat session, with a chuckle here and there.
    I wonder where the modern day church has gone wrong. We have a sort of fast-paced microwave-type christianity just Bing-Bang-Bang. go to church on Sunday morning, ask Pastor to pray on Sunday afternoon, see answer to prayer on Monday, give Testimony in church Bible study on Tuesday, then out of the church on Wednesday, till we have another problem, and we can do it all again.
    I wonder how many modern day christians have actually experienced God. Forget the church (building). Forget your Pastor, Deacons. Forget that brother and sister that do follow-up with you in your house. Just you and God alone. How many christians in the church today can, when all the fanfare surrounding christianity in the modern sense is stripped away, say that they have felt God, they have known God... that they have experienced God. How many?
    Because when you know God, it would be an utter delight to be in His presence, with or without everything else that comes with going to a church service in 2015.

    1. Not many my dear

    2. I could kiss you for this comment! Spot on! Very apt! :*

  6. When the good gets going naturally people forget God. So it's not new, even in my own church it happens. But may God help us all amen. Happy Sunday T and BVs

  7. Yes it is known fact,dat in times of need we as humans always run to God.wen we become successful we tend to 4get him n only a few show appreciation.well to d matter on ground I do attend vigils n I see a lot of fancy cars,money is not mustn't be abt financial breakthrough everytime.u will be amazed at d rate of marital,personal problems pple encounter.I totally agree wif anon 11:46,dey cud av as well decided to use dia less flashy cars cos of security reasons.nobody is without problem,no one whether rich or poor.

  8. Amen to your prayer anon.....Amen!


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