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About Last Night. (What Would You Do?)

Last night was magical. But magic aside, around 12am I found out I needed a supply and began to panic when my friend says not to worry, we'll go pick it up at the 24hr store. We were cut up in drinks and conversation when we realized it was 1am and we best get going. Off to the store, the roads were still busy, I got stopped by two police men #happyweekendma and the store was a bit crowded #saturdaynightlife. Leaving the store, my friend was walking beside me, but along the curb while I was walking closer to the road, as it wasn't so busy. Then a car coming towards me suddenly starts speeding with full force, with the horns blaring loudly, the car swerves straight at me and on getting within a few inches of me, the driver suddenly marches his brake and swerves back unto the road, the driver and his cohort laughing uproariously. I'm in shock and unlike was expected of me, (to panick, shriek, jump up and jump back, fall down maybe), I stand on the spot, transfixed. Those bloody idiots could have either killed me or destroyed my legs. 

A few feet away they park, come out of the car to walk into a nearby club. (I was glad I didn't give them the satisfaction of seeing me freaking out. 

Now my partner stood, battling with emotions and decisions; to ignore them and keep walking or to approach them and demand an explanation/apologies. Everyone looked to him to see how he would react. The guys had just assaulted the lady he was with. 

My question is, as a lady, would you have expected/preferred him to approach the young guys and "defended your honour"? As a guy, would you have confronted them, perhaps made them apologise, or would you have just let it slide?

Do let me know.


  1. Thelma, tell us how it ended. :)

    Defend honour? Those guys were definitely not ok. I feel there's no need wasting time or energy on them. If the car had hit me or the items I carried, then we can talk about approaching them.

    1. I agree with u Enjay they were obviously drunk but if I were the one I would hv waited for them to go into the club then scratch the car in a very horrible way. Idiots now I'm angry

    2. I agree with u Enjay they were obviously drunk but if I were the one I would hv waited for them to go into the club then scratch the car in a very horrible way. Idiots now I'm angry

  2. No need escalating the issue beyond that by trying to play hero. They could be on drugs, drunk or just plain ignorant. Best thing would be to get their plate number and report to the police for hit and run, or something.

  3. I won't put my date through the stress. Anything can happen especially if the idiots are more than 2 people.

    If I'm in a really vengeful mood, I'd wait an then slit their tires. I mean all 4's.

    Honestly, I don't even have to be in a vengeful mood to slit their tires, what they did was very despicable and it was just God.

    If you were asthmatic or hypertensive, who knows what the effect of such trauma would have caused.

    As my mama will say, don't get angry, get even.

    Thank God you are A-OKAY,

    1. Yup! this is my comment. I'd slit their tires, all four of them.. vengeful mood or not.

  4. Wasn't worth the stress, no harm done. Carry on.

  5. Crazy peeps behind wheels..thank heavens nothing serious happened. Like someone mentioned,who knows they might be on drugs or were drunk.

    I won't have allowed any date to go confront them...

  6. Well as long as nothing happened to you,let them buru nsogbu ha gawa...

  7. As far as there was no harm..there's no need confronting them..they could be drunk and wasted

  8. This topic is very sensitive. There was this girl I was courting a while back and things were going really well. One friday night we went to the SIP, we were having a lot of fun till I noticed two drunks staring at her butt (which is offensively big by the way) and murmuring some unintelligible things to each other. So I said them, na my madam be dat o, so they apologized and stopped. Later I told her that I noticed some guys were admiring her butt, then she asked me what I did when I noticed and I told her. Next thing her mood changed. After that night she stopped taking my calls. Then two weeks later I asked her friend if she had spoken to her and if there was something wrong. Her friend said she told her that she couldn't date me because I couldn't defend her honor. And I told her friend to tell her that I said that if her idea of defending her honor is fighting with 2 drunks for staring at a woman's ass in the club then she should fuck off.

    1. But you cautioned them by publicly laying claims on your woman which ended the blatant staring and the guys even apologized. How else does one defend honor?

      What is you hadn't shared what transpired with her?

    2. Ehen, we would have probably dated and broken up over another petty issue.

  9. Reminds me of one time I was walking with my albino friend (female), and this guys were saying all sorts, what they never guessed was that I am Yoruba, we walked past them and I gave them the middle finger without my friend knowing too... Then this other time too I almost got in a fight with two guys talking foul behind me... I mean it's a full time job to deal with issues like that. So it's best to just walk away. Thank God nothing happened and continue with your life.

  10. Best to ignore the maniacs and puncture those tires.....maybe not all four of them, but definitely not less than 2 and not more than 3!

  11. I would definitely want my companion to ignore them. There are other ways to show masculinity than to get into a row with hooligans. When a sane man argues with a mad man, an observer cannot tell the difference.
    Thank God you're safe, Thelma.

  12. Hahahahaaa! Write "bloody ass wipes" on their car with whatever you have and what Clare and sunshine said. All four!
    Crazy lot! I sure would have done something! Especially if I could! Idiots!


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