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Dear Thelma, (In The Heat of The Moment)

Hey Tee I'm sorry to send this but I don't know who else I can ask without getting judged. Yesterday while having sex with my new boyfriend, in the heat of the moment I pulled off the condom. Before that I have always insisted on protection. After sex we were gisting and he playfully said to me that you're the one that pulled off the condom so whatever I have you now have. I am so afraid, I don't know if it was a joke or not and I didn't want to ask because it would have been awkward or it could have been a joke. Please what do you think I should do now? 


  1. Go and run STD tests dasall

  2. How did u take off the CD in the middle of the action? Still can't make out the visuals in my head!!

    1. Exactly what I have been thinking...dang!!! some gehs are 'hotting' mehn... kikikkikiki

  3. Oh my lawd sasha keep visualising stuffs in your head okay? Hahahaha.
    Madam poster please go and test yourself and what kinda boyfriend makes such a yeye statement pls??

    1. Lol to oh laws....I wonder too. Sharp sharp test. How can she?

  4. Hahahah. But you sef why did you take off the condom?

    I used to do that when I was younger. When Im in the zone with my game face on and I want to switch to gear 10, Im like funk it and I pull off the condom. Switch to gear 11 and Im at the destination. But when I got wiser...Hello no! Never take off the condom.

    Nothing you can do. Jokingly ask him when last he did any kind of STD test. His answer will either give you high blood pressure or put your mind at rest.


  5. The guy just gave you an hint. Go see your doctor, and I heard there is a drug now for prevention of HIV(not sure if it's true) so find out and use one. Next time be wise

  6. Lmao @ Sasha, I've been trying to visualize too. The moment must have been very heated, that you performed that magic. If it was the guy the removed it then....

    He might have been joking, some guys do that after sex with a new partner, either to lighten the mood or to avoid any awkwardness. You should ask him when last he got tested, then wait for two weeks then go and get tested yourself. Worrying yourself half to death won't change anything.

  7. Hw might have been joking but if you are worried go get tested

    1. True sha...sounds like she's messing with the blog readers. How now?

  8. Buhahaha. Kai Sasha's comment just did it 4 me on dz post!

    I'm glad I opened it. Buhahaha

  9. Hahahahaha....poster doh. Just like others mentioned go and run a test. Although I think your bf was joking with you....but next time please leave the condom.

  10. You for tell am "everything I have you also now have bae"
    reverse psychology ni

    1. Tor!! Abi oo. Better go check urself sharp sharp

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