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Has Plenty, Gives You Some OR Has Little, Gives You All?

The above is quite deep and got me thinking. I've been a recipient in both situations and in an ideal world I would tell you I'd rather have Mr B (Have little and give you all), but errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, this world ain't ideal. 

Ok, people lets talk about you. Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who's got great financial success and spoils you with a little bit of his wealth? It's just a teeny tiny bit of what he's got but it's actually very sufficient for you. Or someone who's financially challenged and gives you all of the little or nothing he has? 

Answer this honestly bearing in mind reality and realities. You've probably even had to choose between these two men in the past. Yes, I'm sure many of us ladies have, at least once. Which would you pick? Which did you pick? And why. Let's talk. 


  1. Lol, I'm waiting o... In the past I used to know girls who would scream that they would pick A. Most of them are married now... most of them married B.

  2. I'll wait to read comments (because I'll rather have a great financial success of my own).


  3. A little bit of his too much money won't hurt nobody as far as it's "sufficient",it's okay.

    Honestly,If he's financially challenged,please he shouldn't give me all of the little or nothing he has...he will end up having zilch. Give me part of it and I'll understand. Don't go hungry trying to impress,but if he insists,give me all and I'll help him invest in my

    1. Help him invest in your name... lmao!

  4. But Shebi when Mr A has much, he will still give me what is sufficient which is probably a little of what he now has. Lemme just go with B na... abi I neva tire to do e go better? who good girl help?

  5. So ultimately the Q here is choosing between a Stingy guy vs a Generously broke nigger?

    1. Now that you have put it this way, none of them is appealing. I agree with what F said above.

    2. No that's not the question. The question is choosing between a broke guy that loves you enough to give you everything he has, but what he has is very small, and a very rich guy who gives you little from his large wealth, which is double what the broke guy gives you. So essentially will you choose a broke man with plenty love or a rich man with just enough love.

  6. He that is faithful in little is faithful in much, if he gives his all when he has little, he will do the same when more money comes. He won't remain poor for life

  7. I know of only one girl on earth who would do this(accept the guy with less)... Only one.

    1. You know two now! *shines teeth*

  8. Broke guys are always loyal, You will know the true colour of a guy when he is rich.

    1. Not all broke guys are loyal, Some dudes are proudly broke!

    2. Not always Dinma. Some people are actually horrible to be around when they are broke but they light up when there's money (especially fraudsters lol).
      Broke guys are loyal when they want something from you and have nothing to offer in return. The true test of a man is when he has plenty to offer (not necessarily money) and you really have nothing to offer in return but he still treats you like royalty... Then you have struck gold.

    3. dat wan nah double wahala for deadi body o.

    4. I fall into that category of "people who are horrible to be around when broke and light up when there's money" o, bhet I know I'm a honest law abiding citizen, lol. A poor man is despised in his own land! The good book says as much repeatedly. Being broke isn't appealing at any level or scenario. I wouldn't impose a broke me on anyone, people should be more considerate too.

  9. I'll not even lie, this decision is a hard one to make..

    1. Pls don't be offended. Are u the same sunshine that comments on SDK blog

  10. I second what sunshine said....

    This is really a tough one.

  11. Having little, giving all is not just about the money. It's a state of mind. Money will come and go but Amour *sigh* Amour lasts forever. I choose amour state of mind.


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