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Mr Responsible or Mr Run Away From Responsiblity?





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  1. A 27years old man in prospect of being a father is behaving like an 18years old guy who just got admission into the university. Where do all these people come from? I mean, when you were having sex u never thought she could get pregnant? Now she's pregnant, you can't even man up and take up the challenge? As a matter of fact, the challenge of being a father should motivate you to become an even more successful person.
    If you are not ready for marriage, that's understandable but there's never a time to be 'ready' to have children when you are sexually active.

    Please madam, he's scared of being a bad father that he's already playing out the script of being.

    Take care of your child, abortion is not in my dictionary and I don't expect it to be in anyone's. If he's not ready now, he can never be ready.

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    1. "If you are not ready for marriage, that's understandable but there's never a time to be 'ready' to have children when you are sexually active"
      for this comment Uyi! Instead of 10 punches that I have been saving for you(maybe 15) i'll give you 3! Just 3. Like you are bae for this comment! Loool!

      The guy is just an a$$!

      What does he mean by "don't rob me off the right to be the kind of father I would like to be" tell me, what kind of father would you ever be if you're asking for your child to be killed?! Ehn? A 27 year old! Tooor! This one is just giving sorry excuses. You probably don't need this kind of man in your child's life anyway. I was going to say maybe he is scared but i'm like... he is 27! what exactly is he scared of? Responsibilities? Marriage? Growing up? The deed is done. She is pregnant, a baby is about to be born! Take responsibility and stop talking nonsense.

      Eleyii o ni nnkan se. Simple!

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  2. A man has no say in deciding when to have or father a child because no sane man would sleep with his girlfriend and no expect pregnancy after some time, if he knew he wasn't ready why on earth should he do it without a condom? Back to the question, he isn't running away from responsibility if u ask me I would say he isn't ready to tie the knots with that babe. At 27 he is already comfortable, so it's not like he can't afford to cater for the baby. I would say ignore him n keep the baby, if he cares for him or her, fine, and if he doesn't, let him be, the guy has other plans.

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    1. Read. They used a condom.

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  3. When it comes to pregnancy,its more her decision to make in keeping or not to keep! You don't just tell a lady to get rid of a pregnancy like it synonymous to having a haircut. No!
    If and when the baby comes,he shld man-up and face his responsibility!

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  4. A man has no say in deciding when to have or father a child because no sane man would sleep with his girlfriend and no expect pregnancy after some time, if he knew he wasn't ready why on earth should he do it without a condom? Back to the question, he isn't running away from responsibility if u ask me I would say he isn't ready to tie the knots with that babe. At 27 he is already comfortable, so it's not like he can't afford to cater for the baby. I would say ignore him n keep the baby, if he cares for him or her, fine, and if he doesn't, let him be, the guy has other plans.

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    1. I guess we should be expecting another of the same comment on exactly 6:42pm right? Hehehehe

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    2. Lol, Uyi u not serious, don't know what happened to this network.

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    3. Lol, Uyi u not serious, don't know what happened to this network.

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  5. See this is the thing when you aren't certain the character you open your legs to. The guy is not ready for whatever reason she should move along if she decides to keep the child. Otan

    www.pynk360.com

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  6. Guys like this are the reasons why you should be sure of what you are doing when you have sex

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  7. People only start stories when pregnancy is involved when he was having sex he didn't know abi
    Its totally up to the lady if she wants to keep the baby

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  8. The truth is he doesn't want her for marraige.Period!!!

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  9. Why are yall attacking the poor guy. The truth is being a father at 27 is a lot to handle. With present economic situations a 27year old is still a small boy.

    On the other hand (Selfish view) the lady wants to have the child because of her age. It is very selfish of her to give the poor guy the responsibility he is not ready for. When they agreed to have sex if was for sex alone and not for a baby. The fact that he even used a condom proves he does not want a child yet. He wants to be a father but not just yet, probably because of finances, plans etc he is not ready. If she goes ahead to keep the child she would be changing his whole life which he is not ready for.

    They should sit down and talk about it. If one party is not ready for the child then I suggest she does not go ahead to have the child. Both parties must be on the same page for this pregnancy to be kept.

    Peace.

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  10. She should forget the guy,keep the child and not expect anything from him. If eventually he wakes up,then good for him but if not she should prepare well for the responsibility of being a single mother.




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  11. Remove the baby I'm a single mom and it's not easy. It's worse whn d guy doesn't want d child and u. Forget age it's just a number u will meet someone better.

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  12. The guy isn't ready. She should move on

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