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My Favourite I LOVE YOU.

Good morningggg!

Some days start on such a great note that you know without a doubt it's definitely gon be a good day! I'm still in bed, basking in the glow of that morning wake up call from someone I casually said something to, about stuff I need to get done this morning. Calling me just a minute before the time I said I need to be up, reassuring me that the day would go perfectly, reminding me that if I need anything at all they're just a dial away, and praying for me... What says "I love you" better than that?

So while I laze around in bed post-call, I think of the best ways I've been told I love you without the words being said. 

We all have different love languages and although receiving gifts is one of mine, I realize that some of the most expensive gifts I've received are from persons who didn't really love me. So let's see, I Love You; Calling me in the morning to say good morning, how was your night?

I Love You; sending me lunch because you know I'm too busy to cook or get something to eat

I Love You; spending quality time with me even when it's not convenient for you...

I Love You; having my account details and making the occasional deposit without me asking...

LOL, credit alerts have got to be one of the best feelings in the world though! 

Guys, a ton of things say I Love You, from "I hope you've had something to eat" to "May God bless you" to "I'm going to go down on you, just because it makes you happy" (LOL). Or it's simply an act like having them come over to make a meal, or help with chores, or pay for a vacation, or just sit quietly and hold your hands... So what's your favourite way of being told I Love You?

And it isn't just romantic love. In truth, one of the best ways some of my readers show me love is by leaving comments, even when it's not convenient, even when the blog swallows it, even when having to prove they're not robots is freaking infuriating! Still, they write. Thank you, I love you too!


  1. Awww, a call does it for me or going out of one's way to do sommething for me/quallity time. Yay I love you and this blog Thelma, everyone have an awesome day.

  2. I Love You; having my account details and making the occasional deposit without me asking...

    Ain't no better way 2 say I love u, esp whn d deposits are in hundreds of thounsands kikiki

    T, ekaro o

  3. I love u right now to me means at 2am in the morning I'll wake up with you and keep you company while u feed the baby even though I have to go to work in a few hours.... Right there is true love lol

  4. Sit quietly and hold my hands

  5. Anonymous Rider!9:52 am, August 19, 2015

    My Favourite I love you is staying indoors with me and staying awake for some time when i cant sleep at night.

  6. loving you from here Thelma. God bless your kind heart and for being an angel from God to me. God bless your day. Can't seem to appreciate you enough.

    Thanks cos my day is not complete without checking what Thelma posted for the day. Guess what happens each day you did not post anything new or days you go awool. lol

  7. My favourite I love you is calling to check up on me and genuinely caring about how and what I'm feeling.

    1. So I called sunshine a few mins ago and said "i'm calling to check up on you and I genuinely care about how and what you're feeling"

      I repeated it 3 times... and she kept saying are you sure you're okay? lmaooo!

      My love language:
      Giving me a big hug and a back rub when i'm crying and consoling me(telling me it'll be fine... you'll be okay.. this too shall pass...)

      Being available when I need you...

      Understanding my mood and knowing when to just let me be..

      Giving me whatever I ask whenever I ask...(or as soon as possible) *shines teeth*

    2. Are you sure you're okay? Loooool

  8. My favourite i love you is hearing " I miss you"

  9. I love you is offering to make the meal because I could do with some rest.

    I love you is knowing I'm going through stuff or have a deadline to meet, and being there either for comfort or practical help

    I love you is knowing that when I send a distress call your way, you'd answer even if it means going out of your way

    I love you are little thoughtful gifts from my favourite soda to a shoulder rub

    My favourite I love you however is constant honest conversations as often as can be everyday.

  10. I love you is telling me what's going on in your life without me asking

    I love you is taking me to go get icecream even though that's not your route

    My favourite I love you right now is listening to me talk about my day,I have long tiring days

  11. My fave ILU: getting me breakfast in bed after tiring night b/feeding the baby and studying.

    I Love You; having my account details and making the occasional deposit without me asking.

    Getting me pizza/sharwama/grilled fish for dinner, so I don't have to cook.

    Taking me on a well deserved vacation and shoe shopping spree

    Telling me 'I love you"

  12. On blogosphere, my favourite "I love you" is where I visit a site and leave comments and also have the owner return the gesture.

  13. Mine.. Understanding my mood,being available when needed, making an effort to put a smile on my face,preparing meals for me when I'm tired.. D list goes on.

  14. My favorite I love you is accepting me for who I am, all of me, my good, my bad, my moods etc without judging or criticizing me. Just love me this way and don't try to change me


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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