Thelma people make side chics look bad but nobody really plans to be a side chic. Unfortunately when all the men are married and the single ones expect you to kiss the ground they work on because they pitied you enough to date you then you cannot blame more and more women for dating married men. For instance I met one guy last week. I live in the Ajah axis and he live in Ojo, that is after Festac. He's been calling me and telling me how much he likes me, then he asked me for a date but said I will have to come to Ojo. I said that I cannot come and he started to complain, that am I saying I cannot come to Ojo or what? I said that is not what I'm sayin, I'm sayin it's wrong, he's the one asking me out so he should be the one to come. He bluntly refused sayin that he cannot come all the way from there to see me, I stopped hearing from him after that. He is just one among many examples. Single men now think it's a waste of time to woo girls because there are many girls while they are a scarce commodity. But a married man will come from abuja to lagos to see you, call you regularly, check up on you and show genuine concern. I don't even want to talk about the financial benefit because that is not the point of this mail. How many single men will agree to date a girl without sex? The last guy I dated dated me without sex for seven months before I agreed to do it, and it was my decision because he had been too good to me and my family and not because he pressured on me. I broke up with him because I feel bad but he still insists on taking care on me, and it hes been four months since I broke up with him. Single men these days behave like gods gift to women and cheat on you with anything, even when you cook, clean and give him the sex of his life. People call girls name when they are dating a married man but the truth is that married men treat us better.
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