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Toyin Aimakhu & Niyi Johnson, Social Media Marriage?





I'm not one to offer unsolicited advice or opinions, especially concerning something as supposedly sacred as marriage. But when two supposed adults ("supposed" because are these two really adult?) decide to make their marriage a public show, then they shouldn't wonder when we the public offer our often unsolicited opinions.

Toyin raised brows when she put up a post yesterday and included a (very unnecessary) hashtag, addressing herself as #MissAimakhu. Today it seems her husband Mr Niyi Johnson has also taken to Instagram to ask us the public to BEG on his behalf; saying the insults should be directed at him instead. His hashtags also tell us that he is probably a not-so-faithful husband who sexts (sexy texts) with other chicas (but in reality, maybe he's just a nice chap who isn't happy with people putting his wife on blast and hauling insults at her, and would rather take the heat, thereby making himself the target...)


"To clear the air of the recent happenings… I ADENIYI JOHNSON is at fault and not my wife… she reacted according to her pains and we all have different ways of reactions… I beg everyone to pls stop throwing banters and insults… u can channel all anger and greiveances towards me and not her…. instead of abuses I would rather BEG u to join me in apologising to my darling, lovely and adorable wife… OLUTOYIN I’M DEEPLY SORRY PLEASE….. I promise to make things right…. I Don’t want a broken home…

#shecaughtmeflirting #dirtychat"


This whole thing leaves a very very very yucky taste in my mouth. I thought marriage ought to be between two MATURE adults. I really find this totally unappealing. We really don't NEED to know. 

But hey, that's just the way I feel, and it's not the point, right? The point is that y'all should please beg Miss Aimakhu for Mr Johnson. Thank you! 


*i think the picture above is super cute by the way*


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Quick question. Do you thinking airing personal deets of personal matters such as marriage, on social media, could be detrimental to one's marriage/relationship? If yes, how so, exactly? Thanks for your responses. 

Comments

  1. It's really hard not to keep posting pics of ur other half especially if u r a social media junkie, not to show off but just cus u are happy. Celebrities have it harder really and I sympathise with them.

    But they really should keep their marriage business between themselves.... How many times will they break up and make up.
    Now they have invited the public in they make things more difficult because every body will be come a marriage therapist without even knowing the real story and then if and when they do make up u have forever left a bad impression on other people's mind about your partner and it's very difficult to erase it.

    I don't even tell my mum when hubby and I have issues it's between me and him and God.

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  2. Sorry but is Toyin the fashion lady who's boo is younger?

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    1. No that is Toyin Lawani. And even though she is dating a baby they are still more mature than these two children.

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  3. "but in reality, maybe he's just a nice chap who isn't happy with people putting his wife on blast and hauling insults at her, and would rather take the heat, thereby making himself the target". Thelma this your theory does make sense sha. It's the kind of thing my husband can do. When I am wrong he may scold me at home but he will tell his family that he was the one at fault.

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  4. Mstchew! Can they like to swerve with their craziness please. Your husband offends you, you change ur name on social media instead of talking to him or throwing a tantrum of volcanic proportions in ur house/compound? Baby Oga too, you offend ur wife, instead of begging her in private or calling her family and close friends to beg for you, you took to social media to express yourself.. smh. Babie!

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  5. I have never envied their marriage because I hate d way they throw everything that happens in the face of the public. And to ur question, yes airing whatever happens in one's marriage Is wrong, when u invite third party to settle issues between two partners it shows how immature those partners are, talk less of throwing it in the face of the public, then no more privacy, the marriage then belongs to the public.

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  6. It makes absolutely no sense to me.

    -F

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  7. Their cup of garri.

    ....And yes that picture is cute.

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  8. Abeg free these jokers ! Their whole life was on Instagram..

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  9. I don't even know who they are to start with. Hence my late reading of this post. Hence my very late comment. Even the airing of their personal lives does not even begin to catch my interest; no matter how minute.

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  10. Honestly these two are jokers. I think this is even the second time they're throwing their marriage tantrums on social media.

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