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Where Did All My Readers Go? (And 4 Other Thoughts I Had This Morning).

1. Yesterday though! Yesterday was Chocolate's daughter's first birthday party and it was a very veeeery beautiful occasion. I don't mean aesthetically, I mean the people, the ambience, the camaraderie. Most of us have known each other from way back and people came from far and wide. I hugged and kissed old friends, old class mates, an old boyfriend, an old crush and several acquaintances. It was truly beautiful. Happy 1st birthday darling Summer!

2. Today! Today is Yoko's daughter's christening and dedication. So I woke up wondering what time I'll go and what I'll wear and how nice it would be to be a Mum and how most of my friends are preggers with their second or third bambino and how I need to hurry up on that front and bless the world with my offspring *big grin*. Then back to what I'll wear and who I'll go with? To go alone and be forced to be more sociable (good thing) or to take a friend and gladly not mix (bad thing)?

3. Where did all my readers go? Since I'm awake I might as well flip through the blog. Flipped through, didn't look like Thelma Thinks to me! So, where's everyone and what's stopping y'all from commenting? In the past week I cannot count how many people cheerily said to me "I'm one of your silent readers", they say it expecting me to be happy or something but they have no idea that that's beginning to become one of my most dreaded statements. Yo, like, read, enjoy and drop a comment or two y'all. I love to talk but I hate talking to an empty room, it kills my vibe and dries up my juices. I'd sooner close shop than talk and have my echo respond. So what's the deal? I miss y'all. Talk to meeeeee!

4. HOTR or Divine Mercy? I really want to commune with God today, like really really. There's so much on my mind and I don't feel like my bedroom is the best place for this conversation. The thing is that at the former, it's singing & dancing, new teachings and whooping shouts, which might rob me to that quiet time my soul desires. At the latter, I get the quiet time that's characteristic of orthodox churches, but... 

5. What should I blog about today? Ideas anyone?...

Ps; I had to start approving comments as it's the only way around proving you're not a robot...


  1. Hi, it's Clare signing in. Off to do church runs. Be back to mingle.

    Go where the spirit leads, by the time you are dressed, you will know.

    Congrats to Chocolate's Summer-many more wonderful years .

    Congrats to the Yoko's. May the child be covered in God's Grace and love.

    Yes, where is efry-bori. We need our diverse ttb regulars and newbies. Come out come out where ever you are.

    Thelma, let's talk about how to survive in this economic bruhaha, I'm not seeing money o. The big spenders seem to be worried cos of the 'Buhari factor"

  2. Present T, feels like u have been the one away actually :)

    1. Aha! True, Tolu. You've not really been 'here', even with your posts. Speaking for myself, I've been here everyday. I can't count how many times i refresh this page daily. I miss you and your 'original' blog style. I guess you need time, be assured we are here and not going anywhere. :)

  3. Here we are Thelma, blog abt relationship Biko (religion matters)

  4. Hiya, congrats to your friends. I worship at HOTR, so I second HOTR for you to go. You never know,it just might be in sync with what you desire this morning.

  5. Whew! It's good to be back here....I'd told Uyi to inform the house I'd be away for a while, I see how well he did that job...
    Guys, pray for me o! when I pass these exams ehn, I'm taking you guys out, whoever is interested when the time comes.

    1. I forgot so many things oh... I'm really sorry!

      How far your exams?

      Thelma wat of our communion service now?

    2. Tiwa, you will get that success you are so optimistic about.

    3. Amen Enjay darling, thanks so much!

  6. Signing in too!

    True talk Clare, the 'Buhari factor' is really affecting spendings oh! Lol

  7. Its good u re now feeling what we feel at the times u go AWOL and without prior notice and den we keep refreshing and refreshing and refreshing and den u now come and mark the register! And at such times, it doesn't also mean u abandoned us... So dear am sure we all still here with ya. Happysunday2everybary!

  8. Thelma, I totally agree with Tolu and Queen. . aitete mole.. lo le moloko! You went AWOL last week... posting every other day. leaving us high and dry/hanging. Hehe... anyway.. we are still here! don't go AWOL on us again.... if and when you do(cuz we know that you are a busy young woman), tell us. So we'll be prepared. :*

  9. Hi ma... we are present but can u now feel what we feel when we refresh and refresh and no new stories and we ask where's Thelma

  10. Been a lazy and rainy sunday. T talk about relationship, love, and everything in between. I just need to read some encouraging stuff cos at this point i am tired of been tired.

    1. When someone is tired of being tired... I too can relate as well! Be strong anon. (Although i dont know how to tell myself that sometimes, but be strong). Go and watch a movie (romance) ALONE.

    2. Thanks Uyi. I just had a looonng nap. Back & better

    3. But going to watch a romance movie alone is somehow oo,lol..maybe its just me sha,I would prefer going with someone..

  11. Present T
    I tink u should blog as the spirit leads..that's my 2cents anyways.
    Happy Sunday peeps;remain blessed....

  12. Present T
    Thelma I feel you will be a good mum when the time comes,

  13. We are here #anonymousmode. Please blog about giving back to the society through volunteering. I've recently had people telling me about it. I'll like to know how and where I can give back to society...SBHM

    1. Not a bad idea!

      Errr... blog about finding one's self! discovering who you are and stuff like that! What we talked about. :)

  14. I might lose this baby - please pray for me
    Thelma you know who!

    1. Life and death lies in the tongue. Please, speak life and always believe that God is able to preserve your baby and make your joy full. All is well with you and the little one inside of you in Jesus name. I pray that the same God who saw your mother through so that you were born will empower you to birth you baby at full term.

    2. Positive mental attitude Anon! You won't lose the baby! *hugs*

    3. This comment sent a shiver down my spine. Proclaim that which you want and if it's in alignment with God's plan for you then it shall come to pass. Your baby shall live if you believe and cry to God for life. I join with you in prayers for that life... May God grant that child not just today but many many tomorrows in Jesus Name

    4. "Proclaim that which you want and if it's in alignment with God's plan for you then it shall come to pass. Your baby shall live if you believe and cry to God for life."... Believe this anon.

    5. Thanks all
      I was in a dark place
      If it is in alignment with Gods plan- it is well.

    6. Anon it's in God's plan because the Bible says the plan I have for you is of Good not of evil so hold on to the promises of God. I know it's hard believe me. It is well with u xxx

  15. Its no guarantee that I'm not a robot, what if I'm artificial intelligence or the smart monkey from rise of the planet of the apes? Maybe your readers need more content and less 'clichéism'.
    Have a swell day T.

  16. am present ma,just preoccupied wt job huntn...

  17. Right here. You have been abandoning us too often... have you repented?

  18. We are very much present Tee

  19. My bambinos 1st birthday party was yesterday too.wanted to send in her pictures but changed my mind. Didn't go to church today cos I had to rest and today I have my friends baby's dedication. T keep up the good work biko. And wen u said it dries up ur juices my mind traveled far. Lol okbye

    1. Please send pix of babies oh... I love them!!!

      Btw your mind really really really traveled far and wild

  20. Still here...Just waiting for you.

  21. Memphis! Where at thou?

  22. Oooooooops! I typed a very long comment this afternoon but can't seem to find it as part of the approved comments...

  23. Chaii T,I feel you. The Lord is your muscle😘

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  25. Very late, but present all the same.

    Hiya Tee, how are you doing?

    A fabulous week to everyone.

  26. LASTMAdotcome. I'm here anyways.

  27. Present Thelma......

  28. Present Ma...... Exam things on point, Biology and Chemistry wants to make me mad, I pray I'll be able to scale through sha.
    God help me.

  29. Men are still marking register on this post ehn! He he he.

    Thelma I hope you are gladdened by this cos I can feel the love from this post


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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