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Dear Blog Reader @ The Palms; I'm So Sorry!

I'm not quite sure where to begin. I was about to write about the couple I met at The Palms on Saturday night; apologize to the guy and explain myself just when I saw this comment. Read below:

"Well... saw you at the Palms and excitedly told wifey that this was the Thelma that I read her blog and send her links to on the regular. Then I came up to say hi to you, but felt you were a bit cold initially (or was it just me). I had to quickly chip in that I was here with my wife to see a movie (and point her out) in case you thought I was tryna hit on you. Only then did you muster a smile. Lol. As I walked a way, I couldn't help wondering why I bothered... although I acknowledge it may just have been the wrong time or you had stuff on your mind, after all you aren't obliged to do/say anything. PS: had to be anonymous for this comment". 

Anon, I was going to write about meeting you yesterday but decided to include it in my first post for today. But after reading your comment I have to make it a post all by itself. 

After I met you I immediately called sasha boné and told her I just met a blog reader and I feel terrible because I think i might have been cold. When Uyi came to my house yesterday I told him so too. Both of them agreed I should post about it and apologize, and I'm doing just that now. 

Yes, I could have been warmer and more welcoming. I normally am not that way (ask any of the other blog readers who have approached me, they can vouch for me. LOL) but I was having a moment. When you tapped my shoulder you literally brought me out of a reverie, and I couldn't recover quickly enough. Truly it was when I turned and saw your wife that I had to muster a smile, especially because I felt quite guilty. Everything I say now would sound like an excuse, and with each passing month I learn to share less and less of my personal dealings/issues on the blog. So I can't even go into all that here, but the truth is that it just wasn't the best moment. 

I appreciate more than you know, you coming to talk to me, I gushed on and on to Uyi about "the cute couple I met at The Palms yesterday" and how your wife is so adorable and so young! I'm so sorry I came off cold and unwelcoming. Unfortunately some times some circumstances we find ourselves in make it difficult for us to be genial, even when we want to be. 

Please extend my apology and my regards to your wifey!

I hope it's accepted? Please say yes. Please!

Blog readers please help me apologize, and I promise to make amends and not let situations get the better of me. 


  1. Lols, Mr the-man-from-The Palms-who came-to-say-hi-to-thelma pls accept her apology. Pls!!!!!

  2. Dear Blog Visitor and wife, please accept her/our apologies. From my own experience, I'll say Thelma has a beautiful soul. I'm sure she was having one of those moments...... like she explained, - personal.

  3. I'm suspecting BV could be Eazee E. If I'm right, he'll understand. If I'm wrong, well...he'll understand. Lol. Right bro?

    1. memphis, you are looking for trouble o! Hahahahahaha......if i were the one, T would have been writing about someone who gave her a peck (and probably got a slap for it too!!....LOL!) and not 1 who tapped her shoulder!

  4. Awww, such a heartfelt apology. Blog reader and wife please accept it.

  5. Plsss anon forgive her,Thelma is a very cool person, I actually spoke to her on phone even.before we met in person but trust me,the whole phone conversation felt like we had known for ages,so plssss I guess she was having a moment like she said,so kindly forgive her okay. Biko obi di oku dajuwa, lol u might not understand this shaaa but it means let ur anger melt away plss. E hugs.

  6. I apologize on behalf of Thelma as well... She actually told me about you. Its a bit unfortunate everything happened that way.

    I believe she's truly sorry.

  7. Hehehe, I tried to comment on the post about Uyi's visit but somehow e no goes.

    Bros Uyi, Choi! I must say that you are a looker...infact, you be fine bobo. Please please, would you take my lil sister's hand in marriage?? Kindly reply.

    Then, madam T, are officially a confirmed 'pepper body' and I bid you welcome to the club..from your encounters, you are more than eligible to run for the Pepper body presidency.
    B seriously, you need to work on it. Make a conscious effort to be warm...remove that exterior that says 'snob', 'intolerant', 'critical'. You are already such a belle...just do a little work on certain areas and you'll be awesomely awesome.

    Dear 'palms bv', kindly forgive T, she already feels bad enough. Let's just call it a 'factory fault' of hers, and love her with it...while praying that work is in progress in that area of her life.

    Okay, I've never written this much on any blog..shows how much I love T. No cuss outs please. Just stating my frank and humble opinion. 1love...

    1. I'm assuming you are a guy... Lol

    2. Eish! No please, I'm not a guy..... I am a gal and would have asked T to hook me up if I wasn't already in love with an Anambra
      So...what say you fine bobo, are you single and searching?

    3. See toasting things ohhh,okay now Uyi where are thou ohhh come out and answer to this toasting. Lol

    4. Lol... Talk to my madam for verification and permission.

    5. Lamao Uyi really wants to hook up with Thelma's mail.kaiii Uyi ehhaa

    6. lmao anon, you had to point out it that it's an Anambra man

    7. Lmao @ anambra man plus I see Uyi seriously blushing and ready to mingle. Hehe

  8. We're human and it is normal. From experience thelma is usually very friendly maybe that day she caught bros on top another woman. e dey happen.

  9. Dear Palms BV,please forgive Thelms.....i have never met her personally but we communicate via email and phone calls and she is always me....when someone has would show via their intonation and words.

    As she said it was just a bad moment ....please say you forgive her

    Thank you bery much.....ile ise yin oo nii joona oh....ehn....aja o de nii jee nnkan ini yin....Adupe gan nii

  10. Dear BV at the Palms, (I also think its Eazee E cos we don't have so many married men here, just him and Wale), please forgive Thelma, she's very very sorry.

    Thank you.

  11. Thanks Thelma.

    I just checked the previous post and noticed my comment wasn't posted and was wondering why...

    Only to come here and see this post. Thank you for being a darling and apologising so publicly. I wasn't even expecting it, just wanted to let you know how I felt.

    Because you have done so, I have left this comment with my blog id. Lol. no more anonymous, although I rarely leave comments.

    I see you in church once in a blue moon, so next time I do, I will holla again.

    1. Thanks for accepting her apology. Big hugs for u.

    2. Thanks for forgiving and for being such a nice guy.....


    3. Quaggar thanks a lot! And next time please holla again.

      Thanks TTB community for helping me plead my case. Big Hug!

    4. Sorry about the way you must have felt.
      It's nice that you've pardoned her :)

    5. Quaggar, you a such a good sport!!!

  12. yawnnn.. always one excuse or the other.

    1. Why are you here again???awon monitoring spirits

    2. Rotfl @awon monitoring spirit. Lol

  13. Lmao @ monitoring spirits....

    Very funny people.

    Thanks oga quaggar for understanding.

  14. Couldn't even read all this one

  15. loving this blog everyday by

  16. sweet of you Tee.. Loving you more for this post..@anonymous gbahara zi ya okay..

  17. Think I saw u around past 9 and 10pm saturday night too seated in ur car at the palms but wasn't too sure...


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