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Let Me Clear The Air.

I didn't want to do this but staying silent might be detrimental to me, so I think I really need to clear the air about certain things. 

It has come to my notice that some of you seem to think that I

I don't...

You think it's ok to...


I just wanted to get your attention and announce that yay, I did it, I got my exercise on! For the first time in 2015. Smh! I know. But still...

So I hope y'all had a great weekend. My weekend was FULL, beautiful and very productive. How was yours?

I'd also like to use this opportunity to appreciate some of my blog readers. 

I remember years ago when I was an SDK addict, I used to stalk some of her commenters, I particularly loved Wide-eyed, I also used to look out for this commenter called Memphis. At some point I stopped seeing comments from this Memphis and then suddenly one day he resurfaced. So filled with joy was I, that I commented saying "Yay, Memphis is back!"

I actually didn't expect him to notice, or care or whatever, but later that night I opened my blog and right there was a comment from this Memphis whose comments I'd been stalking for months. Ever since then, this Memphis has been a huge part of my blog. Now it's not just my blog but my life. I kinda feel we have a priest-confessor relationship. You know, for some reason I can tell him anything, the ones I'd never write about on my blog, the things that really do matter; the real state of things in my love life, my career pursuits, my fears, my spirituality, the disappointments I've had and general randomness... And Memphis always always has something life-changing to say. 

It's just a beautiful thought, the relationships I've built from my blog. 

I really just want to appreciate everybody, especially those that actually understand that there's much more to what they see here, those that reach out, and talk, and share and care. I am really truly grateful and blessed to have you in my life. 

There's not much else to say. 

Except the first commenter gets 1500 airtime. If you're interested include your email address in your comment. 

Do have a beautiful day!


  1. Replies
    1. I'm sorry (dude) but the council of BV wld have to decide if she shld actually give it to you...

    2. Me I dunno, but if she can't take tongue lashing, be it good or bad or whatever, then she has no business being a blogger, ask Perez Hilton, he gay, but still fair. So be fair and send my card, shogbo. Don't be doing African things, give ur word some weight, no matter how heavy it is to let it go. U owe me that 1k5, and yes, if u win my 1m I will give u. Word is bond boo, don't be petty. Damn am still blasting u on top ur 1k5, I know, i must be some type of asshole innit?

    3. Alfarsi the attention seeker thelma said if you're interested include your email address. Maybe you cannot read well, after all your ranting you still did not do that.

    4. Story, my email can be gotten from my handle, even if i cut my left balls off for her, nothing. but to fulfill all righteousness and enable me lay claim legally, naah mean

    5. Please who are u that they should open your handle? Yeye dey smell, if u like next time dont follows orders.

    6. 9913 4902 1900 1420 Thanks a lot nwando, ur a darling. Anonymous, alfarsi, same difference.


    1. Thelma you need to develop thick skin and just be mature about your reactions sometimes. not everything deserves a response or defense.

    2. Still haven't seen credit oooo. Abi have they given it to this alfarsi character?

    3. Anon 2.21pm what is it abt her reaction that is immature Plz?

      Some peeps these days are just forming opinion just for the sake of feeling wise. *sigh

  3. Working out is a great thing indeed, all the best with your program. Greetings!

  4. I hope to be the 1st commenter. Lol.

  5. Now I am hooked!

  6. waitn to hear aproko.hoe am d first o

  7. Please I would love to give the airtime to my mom. I'm in Ghana and I really need to talk to her at length. Abeg I want.

    1. Eiii pele Mide,no be you...ehnn no be me. Lol

    2. Lool. Mide you cracked me up. Oya what network does mummy use?

    3. Awwwwwwwwwwwww I'm gonna cry!
      Mtn please.


  8. good morning....i'm interested pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee

  9. Hello here! You really did get my attention ma'am. I sometimes mix Steele and Memphis up. Where has Wale been though? And as for me, I just decided to go Ghost on the blog for a while, but now, I'm back!

    1. Welcome back Eniola! Might I ask why you did a disappearing act on us? Wale is fine, hopefully he would reappear just like you.

  10. Hehehehehehehe,good morning T,good to know you finally got ur exercise started. U got my attention shaaaa. Have a productive and fruitful week ahead guys.

  11. Just a warm hug for you this morning. :) have a wonderful week filled with pleasant surprises.

  12. Hey Thelma. You did not give me a shout out. Abeg I want airtime (Glo). Thank you.


  13. i think you've found a soulmate in memphis... maybe he's "the one"...where is Ruthy ooooooo??

  14. Im going to assume Memphis is single. If not then ignore my next comment.
    You know what they say about single ppl friend zoning themselves till one gets seriously hooked up and it does the other 'voom ' in the eye lol. You 2 sound like you will make a good fit if only you will give it a try b4 its too late. I reckon one of you if not both secretly fancies the other like mad and even fantasizes. Agama eyes on you 2.

    1. Lolssssss anon no go kill person ohhhhh,Thelma somboryyyy gat his or her on you isok, qm.watching in 5D.

    2. Hian!! na so Trouble sleep,yanga go wake am. Abeg don't start to put sweeteem in their minds o.
      Last time I read,Memphis had a serious relationship. Abi memphis amalayin?

    3. LMAO! Anon, me too I reckon with you o jare. After all that love story? #iffayear!

      Thelma, agama eyez on you.

    4. Loooool! Mee too o! I'm watching you both.

      And memphis suddenly goes quiet! Looool!

  15. Weekend was so so! Have a fruitful week peeps.

  16. My weekend was very busy, worked throughout (sad face). T na wahala you don find for this Richard card marra oooo. anyway if anyone is interested in airtime for visafone holla i have some for dash

    1. Visafone ke?
      This is getting serious sha

    2. Em,i knw u said visafone but can u make it Glo? *asking for myself*

    3. ...or mtn? *still asking for myself*

    4. Visafone Lmao

    5. hahahahahaha @Sasha bone sorry dear that is all at my disposal for now.

    6. Sasha bone ooo... Looool! please send your number to

    7. Dear Kabouy,my comment was in good humor but since you vehemently insist,expect my Tnx

    8. Lmaoooooo! Yes ma'am!!!! Would be expecting it! *smile*

  17. Thelma, I'd love to get some loving too...

  18. Been following silently..Nice place to be..So much Love from Tee..Nice one

  19. Been following silently..Nice place to be..So much Love from Tee..Nice one


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