Sometime in my mid twenties someone made me an indecent proposal. Back then I'd thought I was pretty experienced, or exposed, still it hadn't prepared me for what I was about to hear. Being a giving or generous person means you often get asked for favours (and at a time when I didn't really have any financial intelligence I gave gave gave, as the requests seemed never to stop!). Yet this favour was of a different nature. In fact if I obliged, I would be receiving this time, not giving, and receiving quite a lot!
Oh well, after spending a lot of time thinking and praying about it, she decided it was something she would have to do to keep her husband happy. He wanted a threesome, she would give him a threesome. And for reasons beyond my own comprehension (I'd like to think it's because I'm known to be a very loyal and discreet friend. I hope that's it oh! LOL), she thought I might be a good candidate for this task.
You know, when I think back to that day I don't remember my shock, I don't how I gently said No, I don't remember thinking about what she'd offer in return.. I remember the pain, frustration and desolation in her eyes. I always imagine how many tears had been shed before she finally gave in, how many fights had been fought before she conceded. Because you see, that act in itself was an act of defeat. The resignation; the thing I must do to please my husband...
Doesn't it make your skin crawl, getting in bed with a married couple? But I think what's even more unthinkable is sharing my marital bed with some random third party. Ever since then I've prayed to God for a husband with very traditional sexual tastes.
Over the years I've come to learn that wives often go above and beyond to please/keep their husbands. Here's something a blog reader sent to me this morning, he said he saw it on Twitter. Please be warned that it contains some explicit content and adult language.
Hia @ is there anybody going through this? I was like Nne this your cross is one of a kind, very unique...
Ladies and gentlemen please share your thoughts on the above, if you have any. But I've got a question of my own; does giving in to all your man's sexual demands, both the orthodox and the unorthodox alike, really keep him from doing the 'dirty' with someone outside? Most of us say it doesn't, so why then do wives continue to bend over backwards?
Men please weigh in, does her catering to all your sexual fantasies, fetishes and desires keep you faithful? Do tell.