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When Your Fantasies Become Facts. Sisi Yemmie.

This came just minutes after reading about Alice Gorman, the woman who wrote 100 qualities she wanted her husband to have, then tossed it away and forgot completely about it. Years later, when she wasn't necessarily searching and had come to that point in your life where you're almost like 'whatever!', Mr Man walks into her life and he matches that list almost exactly (98 out of 100). The two were very happily married. 

I guess there really is a lot to say for speaking things into existence, visualizing it, and oh, the propagators also strongly advise that you put these in writing. Just write it down and toss it aside and it just might happen!

LOL. I know it sometimes sounds like a load of bollocks but more importantly I know it does work. 

So hey, who wants to use my blog as that place where they can refer back to in a day, a week, a month, a year or five, from now and say LOOK WHERE I WROTE IT AND NOW ITS HAPPENED! What does your heart desire? Write away!

BTW I've got a testimony guys! You know, happiness really is a decision and one you've got to make a conscious effort to exercise? I strongly believe that happiness brings only more happiness. I got offered some jobs, legal work, but you know how it is when they've given you that job/contract, but any money has yet to surface, so you feel like you have it but then again you don't feel like you do?... Last night I asked my payments to manifest, before I slept in the early hours of the morning I asked my God to do what He does best and not let this day end before I receive alerts. Oh well, the first one just came. Paid in FULL!!! My God is so faithful! I told You I would praise You in a large assembly, this is just the beginning Daddy!

Have an awesome day people. Be happy!


  1. Very soon, sooner than my imaginations,I will marry my OWN husband. Someone that will love me the way I am. Someone who will not judge me by my past. We will have wonderful children, both male and female. Have enough money to meet our daily needs. He will be my friend, brother and husband. I will stand in the congratulation of God and give my testimony by myself of how awesome this God of impossibilities can turn tears to joy. I have been dumped once. I will rise above those who dumped me. They will watch my live like a movie from away and gnash their teeth. God you know say na only you be my paddy,

    1. Amen!

      But on a lighter note and this is in no way rubbishing your prayer but I'm curious... You said you've been dumped once, by how many people?

  2. Gengen dancing shakitibobo on your behalf. Congratulations Thelms. May you find fun in the work you have to do and more money too ;-)

    Personally, I agree 100% with putting things into writing and beyond writing, keep visualizing. Even if these things don't happy immediately my dear they will some day. I can't begin to recount all the big moments I have had from mere writing of certain things and I say mere because it won't cost you nada save for a few ink and a page or two from your diary.

    For some it took weeks, some others years but the bottom line is IT WILL HAPPEN. Don't ever be afraid to visualize after all no one is going to sue you for your thoughts and your diary is yours.

  3. Before this year ends, I will be carrying a child in my womb and I will carry it for 9 months without story.

  4. By May 2016, I will be a mom to a beautiful baby because I am a fruitful vine and because it's my heritage from heaven. Amen!

  5. - I want to be able to travel the World and not think twice about the cost
    - I want to visit every continent of the World
    - I want to be the real definition of a tourist. Travel and be amazed by the wonders of the World
    - I want to have enough money that I will not be affected by Govt policies, economic situations, international conditions etc.
    - I want to be happy with my family even through all the riches, me and my son will be like brothers, my daughter will be my best friend.
    - I want to help everybody around me. As long as you come in contact with Kon, he will provide help to you.

    - And many others...


  6. by this time next year will be sitting in my school of choice attendong lectures

  7. By December 2016, i will be living in my own house, a healthy baby girl added to my family, and a happy, peaceful home/marriage.


  8. I always will be happy, very happy.

  9. I will live and not die to declare of the Lord's greatness in my life..The blood of Jesus will always speak for me all the days of my life..I am a blessing to my family and generation.. My parents will see my kids and bless them and likewise me too..AMEN!!!

  10. Before next year July 2016, I would have my job in KPMG as Corporate Communications or a liasing officer. I would be a super mega wealthy young girl who would succeed in her career in two years from then. By 2016 December, I would be getting married to my wealthy husband, who will be from a wealthy home. He will be older than me with four years, but he will be disciplined, successful, focused, handsome, will treat me like a queen, have an open hand towards myself and my family, we would go for trips together and be the hottest couple in town. He would love me and can sacrifice anything on my behalf. I will be a wealthy and a humble young girl who will desire to help young women achieve their dreams. Oh yes, so help me God....Amen

  11. In less than a year, I would have completed that home for my mother to live in. Lord, you know this is one of her fervent wishes.

    Within 5 years, I shall be in a position where all those who look up at me for financial helps because they believe I'm rich, shall be blessed by God through me.

    Very soon, I shall be doing the work I actually enjoy doing and fulfilling good purpose.

    In about two years, my first daughter will be in a top university studying a course she enjoys and which God has designed for her.

    My marriage is still a work-in-progress having been separated for 5 years and just reconciled some months ago. Before this time next year, God would have perfected the union and make good His promises.



    1. Hello F, is it possible to get ur email? Will like 2 discuss sthing wiv u, if it's ok, plz respond so that I can drop my email wiv Thelma. I am a silent follower of this blog n rarely comment. Thanks

    2. Hello Anon,
      That's no problem but may I know a little bit about you? Could you send an email to Thelma to forward to me?



  12. I have written mine down someplace and I believe The Almighty is already working on them.

    I will come back and testify.

  13. I will ardently seek God's face and find it. I will learn what it really means to love my neighbor as myself.

  14. Hello Thelma, your blog is lovely! Rich content "up & down". :)

    Before September 2016, I will:
    1. I will be fluent in french language (starting class this month by force)
    2. My blog would be certified a great platform that inspires and impacts people. (Work in progress)
    3. I will be featured on international news channels for the impact of my blog in various ways.
    4. My fashion biz will thrive in ways beyond my grand expectations.
    5. I will star in at least two major feature films,one in Nigeria and the other internationally. (I just dared to audition first time ever weeks back)
    6. I will build a thriving vegetable farm in my apartment without "land". (Oyinbo has done it..why shouldn't I?)
    7. I will improve my social networth (not-shy-introvert)
    8. I will be married to a man who has been asking God for me...and build our home together.
    9. still want to see more??? :p

    Thanks Thelma for this. :*

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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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He was my coursemate, crush, then my boyfriend.... he was super
intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
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the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
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