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3 Abortions And Still Got Dumped!

The mail was sent to @joroolumofin. I have just one question; why do girls think that having several abortions for a guy entitles them to a ring? 

And his new pastor had a vision about him marrying a virgin? Nigerian pastors be taking the piss, I swear!


What does she tell him? What should she do?...


  1. My darling... you need a big hug and a reality check. it's over... move on and don't make the same mistake again. 3 abortions? and now he believes in visions?

  2. Obviously the guy wants out. She should count her losses and move on biko. And why do I feel the pastor has a 'particular virgin' he wants the guy to marry.

  3. I don't have any advise for her on what to tell the nigga. She did to herself whatever she is reaping.

    After the first mistake, she didn't need no one advising her.

    She should however go to God in absolution, ask for forgiveness, and move on, that boy will not marry her.

  4. 3 abortions for a guy?never, what happened to CDs,pills and the so called concoction most girls use that works? My dear,u have made this mistake, biko,move on and learn from this and never ever make the sane mistakes again plssss. Go on ur kneels and ask God to forgive u and the rest is settled, as for the bastard, karma is the real bitch. OMA ba oni ti ee ni waju. Hugs for the poster if she gets to see this.

  5. Exactly he wants out d pastor story is bs

  6. Exactly he wants out d pastor story is bs

  7. Oh dear! "She should pele."

  8. I'm almost shaking my head off here. Wish I was beside you to give you a hug, hold your hands, look into your eyes and ask you to dust off your shoes and move dear sister, please keep walking, the damage has been done and you have a better life ahead of you, if only you'll acknowledge your failures, forgive yourself and make tomorrow better than today. Sadly enough, you aren't the 1st and won't be the last. You can't change the past, but you can create a beautiful future by sitting down and redefining your values. I pray for God's wisdom and peace in your life. Sending warms e-hugs your way.

  9. That pastor thing is just a set-up. An avenue to freedom.

    She should forgive, try to forget, ask God for forgiveness and move on.

  10. When ladies think that the number of abortions increase their validity for being A wife. *sigh.

    Incidentally, I'm here having to clean the dirt off the eyes of a female friend. My dear, he's not that into you. Any guy DAT tells you to abort without even thinking about the consequences, doesn't see a future with you.

  11. If the Pastor can tell me his last day on earth as in the day he would die and it comes to pass then i would believe him, what happened to having a personal relationship with God and finding things for yourself, if one is patient the true color of a person shows, and the way females nowadays make their abortion stories sound worse than suicide abeg!!! I am sorry but this story is just pathetic. Ngawnu New age females

  12. Dear poster I leave you with the chorus of this song by Kurupt featuring Natina:

    It's over, it's over now,
    Move over, it's (her ) turn now,
    It's over, the game's shut down,

  13. Mehn. Yall should say the truth - 3 abortions for a guy kinda qualifies her for a ring. Its not compulsory but its normal for her to expect to be his wife in the future.

    Its not really about the abortions. The logic is that she has been through some things with him and she expects that being his ride or die chic, he would naturally consider her for marriage.

    What kind of nigga continues impregnating a girl and he doesnt want to marry her? Its sad. Buy you guys should not make it look like she is daft for expecting to be his future wife.


    1. It is not about the 'impregnation' but rather the termination.
      If you want to marry a babe and she gets pregnant, why are u thinking of terminating it? Why?
      I mean, u want sex, use a Condom(50naira gold circle)... You want a family, then go skinny. But then you want sex, you choose skinny, pregnancy comes and you delete it, once, twice and so on?
      Please I'm not in support of your argument here.

      This is an awareness campaign... Don't abort a child. But if u do it because of reasons relating to the guy's refusal to take responsibility for his ACTIONS. Runaway for your dear life.
      Don't go back and get another and another and still feel hopeful of commitment from him. *sigh! You are basically sleeping on a bicycle, literally.

      Aaarrrggghhh!!! I'm just angry!!!!!!

  14. The result when folks do not get proper sex education. ...nobody in their entire life should have 3 abortions based on unprotected sex. She meeds to leave the guy and go and work on her sense of self.

  15. Marrying a virgin doesn't mean he'll have kids, and you having 3 abortions doesn't guarantee you cant have kids. Just confess your sins and move on lovely lady.

  16. Brainwashing things shaa! Nawa


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