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Answer Me This...

So tell me people, honestly... If you had to marry the last person you had sex with, would you be happy?

Yes? No? Tell us why. 

I guess you may want to skip this question if you're married, or maybe not? I don't know anymore these days *scratches head* *runs away*...


  1. Yes and by God's grace he will soon propose

  2. Bvs please what do you think? I cheated on my fiance and he found out but he forgave me without much begging or trouble and said we should continue with the wedding planning. I am supposed to be relieved but I'm scared, can a man forgive cheating so easily and still want to marry cos I'm even tempted to say we should put the wedding on hold

    1. I wonder..... Who is paying for d wedding... If its u n ur family, then ur payback is probably brewing for d wedding day proper... Or maybe he's cheating as well...or hasn't fully assimilated what u said.. Either way, If it were me, I'd force an outburst from him... No b d 1 wey 10years later someone will remind me of how I cheated....

    2. Smh. He doesn't forgive, wahala. Now he forgives, wahala. Smh again. This one you're even considering putting wedding on hold means you've lost your trust in him. So how can a marriage last with this type of skepticism? My dear, analyze your emotions before you get married, that's my candid advice.

    3. Thank you Memphis.

      You better reevaluate your emotions, lady. You are getting married and you were still shagging!

      As for me, I won't tell you we Shud continue with marriage proceedings if there's nothing I'm holding on to for future purpose.

      In short, there won't be a marriage again sef. At the least, its going to be postponed indefinitely!

    4. There are too many scenarios to consider, how did he find out? Did you get caught or did you confess out of guilt. If you got caught it means that you would have continued cheating, even in marriage. I don't think you're problem now should be how he reacted, he could be planning to do something real nasty in the future but that's by the way. Your problem should be you, are you ready to get married?

      What kind of relationship do you guys have? There are too many things involved my dear, we can only advice you but at the end of the day it's your bed and you're gonna lie in it alone, none of us will be there with you. I'd say don't get married to him but I know it's easier said than done.
      The way he was so quick to forgive either means that he has more to lose if he doesn't marry you, or he can't imagine life without you, or he's trying to save face, or he's been cheating a lot too so what if you did it with just one person? Etc

  3. Probably.. We like each other.... Not exactly dating, but he's a good guy... We both have serious commitment/intimacy issues but other than that he'd check most of my boxes (if I had any) ..

  4. Choi, God forbid. It was a jump off from badoo. On a business trip at abuja, boobs looked all pumped up on d net when we entered room and she pulled, Gosh, boobs had low self esteem.

    Couldn't even get a hard on, gave her 5k for her time and bade her farewell, technically, I didn't touch her.

    1. Look who is talking. Your dick that's so small like my smallest finger. And you didn't even last 2 minutes. The shape of my boobs is pondulum and I am proud of them.

    2. Lmao! Who are these people?

      So badoo brought you guys to thelmathinks as well! Hmmm... Wahala e ti po ju

      Off the record, please what is Pondulum?

    3. Ohh my God, Thelma badoo brought funny creatures to ur blog. Smh, wetin person no go see for ttb. Lolllllssss

    4. Lol... Uyi, I think she meant Pendulum.

      Btw, who still uses badoo? Does it still exist?

    5. Hahaha, Uyi you took the words right out? How did she follow you from badoo to thelmathinks and warahell is pondulum abeg? I'm not just asking for asking sake, we need to know.

    6. Whenever ur in a new city, abuja to be precise , and u pay 28k for hotel that u don't want to waste and U don't want to bother going to wuse 2, zone 4 or gimbiya street, download badoo, it's as good as going to all those places, it's crawling with whores. That's all badoo is meant for.

    7. Na real wa, alfarsi is from another planet I swear down.

    8. Dear Alfarsi, you sound to me like you are a regular visitor of those horrible places you just mentioned. So in essence, you patronize *whores* on a regular... I just hope you don't throw caution to the winds, please always use protection or better still stay in a less expensive hotel or best option, get married and try been faithful.... lol

    9. Alfarsi is a whore patronizer! Lol

    10. Chai! Alfarsi, you are so shameless. So you pick up prostitutes from the streets and from the internet and you take them home with you. What will I not see here! And some lady someday will get married to this dead beat or is already married to the mumu sef. Smh

    11. Lol. @ Alfarsi, why are you telling lies? You and I know you didn't pay that much for that hotel. In fact you didn't even spend half of that amount. Anyway, just like Badoo is crawling with whores like you said, it's also crawling with p atronizers like you. Please go and work on that your tiny dick and your terrible erection issues. Else even your wife will someday start looking for men to service her on Badoo.

    12. Two very contrasting statements... One a 'pendulum'(I will assume dats wat she's trying to say) and then one with a low self esteem...

      Either ways, there was a weak erection which has been agreed by both parties!!! So Wats the way forward now?

      Is it emotional or psychological?

    13. The funny thing is I have dated governors daughters, 2 as a matter of fact, dating a UN peace ambassador, that I disvirgined, she don't even know am alfarsi, but I never sleep alone in a room, and the broke fool that says I can't pay 28k for hotel room, too bad for you. All I do now is for pleasure, I do business as a hobby, not for money, I inherited a structure that's spins money. Wether I work or not, yea, life is not fair, dick heads like me get shit handed down to us on platters of gold, eat ur heart out pussy. I know am sick, abi? Or Na. Maybe I just need a heart or something, or a shrink, I ended up screwing my last shrink, turned out I was more manipulative and mind reader than she was.

    14. Lol, sad but this is many people's reality. Let's not act like alfarsi is an alien. In the world that I live in this lifestyle is very normal. There's nothing new under the sun

    15. Chai... and i'm on badoo o! who would have thought?!
      You see why is noh everything someone should join. I was 17 then and I was always hearing badoo anytime I went to the cybercafe. na so I try join... they say I noh fit until I clock 18. what?!!!!!!! The tin pain me. I couldn't wait to be 18... immediately I clocked 18 I went to create an account. and since then I never went back. Now when I Google my name(yes I do that sometimes) lool! Badoo pops up too and I cringe. Lool! Infact the photo wey I use... I tie scarf sef! lmaooo! Chai!

      Toor... Alfarsi and the lady involved! give your life to Christ o! You need him. He is waiting for you. He loves you and he'll accept you! there's more to life than all of these.

      Hope y'all are having a fab weekend! *kisses*

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    17. Kabouy,they shouldn't give their life to christ, am sure alfarsi knows about christ but chooses his life style, so u don't need to preach christ to people like him, @alfarlsi,enjoy ur life and I pray u encounter the only one that can change u, and the anon he picked or met on badoo, sweetie e hugs and live a life that pleases God and appeals to ur conscience.

  5. No I wouldn't because he is not someone I can spend the rest of my life with.

  6. I'm sorry, I don't!!!!! No freaking way....

  7. Lol, I wish I could say I can't answer this cos I'm a virgin and I'm saving myself for marriage. Sad

    Anyhoo, I'd really love to marry her but there are too many issues that need to be sorted out if I'm to call her wife

  8. At most, everyone is either eluding the question or going anonymous. Ok na. But wait o. What of the last person one 'made love' to?

    1. Lol, you noticed too

    2. All semantics my dear. "Made love", "had sex", "did mummy and daddy thing", any other phrase the act has been labeled with, over time and emotions.... Aren't they all the same thing? By the way, you also eluded the question! *shines teeth* Oya come back and answer pls!

  9. No, I wouldn't be happy. It would mean the end of a great friendship, and the beginning of a lifetime of unhealthy compromises.

    1. Buby sugar where have u been???

    2. Buby meet me in my chambers for clarification on this your

    3. Darling Mabel... Stolen phone and a jinx on like 2 other replacements. Been offline, but back now.

      @Nkem, I think not!

  10. Just wondering tho.... Most of the answers have been "no".... So y have sex with these people???

  11. No I won't cos he turned out to be my cousin.


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