My ex called me up a few weeks ago to help him with something he was working on since I happened to work in the industry he was researching. I helped how I could and moved on. Few weeks later, he got a commendation at work for what I helped him with, apparently, it turned out very well so he sent me a mail to tell me about it and then asked to take me to lunch to say thank you.
I forgot about(read ignored) the mail for about a week and then responded saying the lunch won't be necessary that the heartfelt thank you was just enough, he sent another mail asking me to pls not say No that he would like to really thank me and most importantly see me. We have the same circle of friends/acquaitances so I kinda avoided them since we broke up last year. Anyway, I saw him some days ago and he was all excited and shining teeth and I was just looking like - why is this one shining teeth, did he forget how stuff ended last yr?
Fastforward 2days after I saw him, he asked about the "thank you lunch" again and I gave in. The lunch is supposed to hold this weekend but I have no idea what to expect cos he's been pinging me saying he's really "excited" to see me. Me I don't get all the excitement.
I still like him(not sure about love) and that's what my problem is, I don't want to go and be overthinking things when all he really wants is lunch but I can't seem to help myself, I have been thinking about the possibility of us getting back together but...... I don't even know. Another thought occured to me this evening, what if he wants to tell me he's getting married and that's why he's so "excited" to see me..... looool
Anyway, my questions are, what should I expect? Guys, why would you call up an ex for lunch? Will it really be about lunch or will it be because u want to give the relationship another try? Also, how do I stop (over)thinking this stuff. I just want to forget about it until the actual lunch.
Thanks in advance.