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#LetsJustBeHonest. Would You Leave Your Man For Cheating?

…and captioned it “These are my thoughts. What’s yours ? I posted this for the comments LMFAO! If you don’t want to be cheated on , buy some dildos like Waiguru and f* yourself coz the next man these days is like the first . Too many hot gals out here! And cheers to all the side chicks who ain’t getting pregnant for these men, some wives can remove your womb with Their bare hands #Tutabanana #PapaHapa #LetsJustBeHonest #LetsJustBeReal” (source; Bella Naija). 

Huddah speaks for herself...
But being honest; 9 out of 10 men I know cheat. 1 out of 10 women I know have left their man for cheating. #JustSaying. Why?



  1. Lol @ I think all men are borne by the same mother.
    I think couples shld ask each other (and put it in writing) what reaction either shld expect if either is caught cheating.
    And in all honesty, I don't even wanna think of it...

  2. Lol @ I think all men are borne by the same mother.
    I think couples shld ask each other (and put it in writing) what reaction either shld expect if either is caught cheating.
    And in all honesty, I don't even wanna think of it...

  3. She is the queen of side chics so shes a good authority on the matter. She might sound like I slut but I cannot fault her judgment tho because nigerian women complain about cheating husbands but nobody ever leaves so what's tthe point? It is a man's world.

  4. Will I leave, nahhhhhh..... Will u regret cheating when I finish treating ur fuxk up? So very much.... #enoughsaid

  5. Ask and u shall receive! Her man will definitely cheat because that's what she is expecting. My man will and has never cheated. I'm constantly on my knees praying for peace in my home. Cheating is definitely not condoned and if u let him know if he cheats u won't leave then he will definitely be eager too..

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  6. I will not leave my man if its was a honest mistake or rather if he's remorseful and willing to stop.
    However if its continuous with different women and no remorse, Mbok, I love my life and health -I wouldn't like to be treating various STDs or HIV not to mention the spiritual implications,I will get a separation no time for sleepless nights please!

    1. Honest mistake in cheating? He mistakenly landed on her vjay Jay? Oh well...

    2. what is HONEST about that kind of " Mistake" biko. J

  7. Marry a man that has respect for himself and has a sense of accountability and you wont have to answer such a question. Do you steal just because you want something? Or you have gotten to master the arts of contentment and work? People should stop encouraging stupid behaviour with such justification.

    Infidelity is not inborne, its a choice. Marry someone who knows that.

    1. Correct ! It baffles me when girls thinks cheating is actually ok. Not in my house!

    2. @ what Miss Pynk Said.

      Neither parties should cheat. Simple

    3. Very true @Ms Pynk. This was my husband's opinion on fidelity. He says one chooses to be faithful because that's their principle in life not necessarily because they love their partner. Rather one has to choose it as his/her way of life in order to be able to practice it.
      Even before marriage, he always practiced one man-one woman relationship what more now that he has taken a vow.
      Anywyay as to the post, cheating is a deal breaker for me. It was part of the discussion we had before marriage. If there isn't trust, then there is no point. I'm too emotional to even be in a lack of trust relationship, I'd probably go crazy. ----UGO

  8. Like my younger sister will always say, I can't be keeping myself for a man and he'll later start cheating on me, the marriage is over from the first cheating whether its a mistake or not. I echo her thoughts.

    1. *sigh... My dear go and fall in love first and then start thinking of marraige later. Cos a guy will cheat on you and you will find reasons to forgive him than break up, Talk more of a marraige. Lol

  9. I don't think I would leave if he cheats but I like my life too much to think of that. I believe a well cultured man with sane mind and good sense wouldn't cheat so why think of him cheating.

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