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24th to 28th. This Might Be The Best Christmas Or Nah?

My sister's colleagues came to do some work at her house yesterday and I was with them. From the second they got here it was groaning galore. They lamented about work and how they wished some miracle would occur because they were very tired and needed a break, and 25th & 26th just wouldn't do. It seemed like a Christmas miracle when the news suddenly hit us; 24th and 28th had just been declared as public holidays!

Guys, it's going to be a long Christmas, any plans on how you're going to spend it? I'm not sure what my plans are yet (besides joining the food fest at Chocolate's mum's house on the 25th) but I've been looking forward to a lot, Including receiving gifts. And guess what, the gifts have started coming! I received my giveaway from Pynk360 blog yesterday and it had 25 pieces of jewelry. Check them out below. 

Thanks Miss Pynk. 

So guys, have you made any plans yet. Now, while some people are rejoicing and kissing Buhari, others are sniggering at him suspiciously. I found this comment below very interesting. 

" “Maulud Nabiy”? I have never heard of this before now in Nigeria. Have we ever had this on the Nigerian official calendar before the Buhari administration?

There was his Iranian counterpart referring to Nigeria as a muslim country more than once in their telephone conversation, where he was talking to Buhari and his only interest and agenda (as one president to another) was the preservation of the lives of muslims in Nigeria; Buhari never once corrected him, each time he referred to Nigeria as one of the muslim countries of the world, that Nigeria is not a muslim country. Now, “Maulud Nabiy”?" (bella naija)

Thoughts, anyone?

Oh well, share your plans for the holidays with me? My fellow singletons, don't you just wished you were boo'd up right now? My 9-5'ers are you exempt from the holidays? Anyone having a party? (Please if you're in these parts of Lagos send me an invite) or are you just going to snooze through it? Do tell!


Update: just heard that the public holiday on 24th has been cancelled. True?


  1. Too many irrelevant things get Nigerians riled up. Unless I'm mistaken, "Maulud Nabiy" should be similar to or is "Eid el Maulud", and last I checked, has no definite date. Someone once told me that it seems Muslims, by allowing the Sharia law to be incorporated into our constitution, have an agenda to Islamize Nigeria. I laughed and told him he forgot that even our constitution is a direct offshoot of the constitution of the Church of England. Does that now mean Christians want to *Chritianize* Nigeria?

    "...preservation of the lives of muslims in Nigeria...".

    When Buhari travelled to Iran, did their president in any address, refer to Nigeria as a Muslim Nation? The phone call was made after the Shi'ite vs Army incident. Iran is predominantly a Muslim (Shia) nation so it's not out of place for the president to show concern.

    1. Memphis!!!you are one of a kind..If I was not married to my boo,i would snatch you from whoever it is u are dating....*no jokes*Thelma and TTB readers,Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance....TNHW

    2. You are a very intellectual....

    3. Errrr... its not that serious. All he said is common sense stuff.

    4. Lol. Kon is my new blog crush.

    5. Lmao! Am excited about this lil drama. The blog has been lacking drama for a very long while now honestly.

    6. Errrr....common sense ain't that common u know!!!thnw

    7. Good. BVs like making Memphis feel like he's too much. Shioor

    8. Anon why u beefing? Ask God for your own common sense too and stop beefing. Memphis love ride on bebe.

    9. Pls what part of our constitution is "a direct offshoot from the church of England"?. Because the constitution allows a thief be tried in a court and jailed as opposed to being amputated makes our constitution a church of England thing?
      FYI, our founding fathers who drafted our constitution weren't all Christians and neither were they all muslims...

  2. There has always been public holidays for Eid Maulud, it just hasn't been this close to Christmas.
    Unless Maulud Nabiy is different from the Eid el Maulud, then that comment is null.

  3. Well, the comment might not be totally written off, if it's at all true that our President and his Iranian counterpart had that discussion.

    Thelma please share the love, gimme some of the gifts.

  4. Christmas day is actually my birthday... But no plans of celebrating or cutting a cake , my mom is not feeling fine, Hence all attention is given to her, no one is even concern about Christmas/My birthday day.. But am thankful to God for keeping me, my family and loves ones alive to witness another Christmas celebration..

  5. Malud has always been - it tends to fall more during Jan or feb - but the Islamic calender shifted in 2015 - Ramadan was June instead of the usual mid July/ August.

    Nigeria can never be declared for one religion - even dunces know that- the Iranians are just trying to feel better.

    As for your gifts I hope you enjoy them.

  6. I laugh at all you buhari loyalists. Continue to live in denial and false hope that things would get better. You are all delusional, the man is a selfish Islamist with a sinister agenda.

    1. Tell them o, especially Memphis always carrying Buhari's matter on his head like gala seller on the highway. Mtcheww.

    2. Hatred isn't the attribute of a (supposed) Christian. I'm proud to "carry Buhari's matter on my head like gala seller". Heal yourself.

    3. Memphis this comment just increased my love for u. Haters everywhere. Smh.

    4. Where do these 'citizens' of our dear Nation, Nigeria, come from?

      Carry Buhari matter for head? He's you goddamn president for God's sake.

      You are living in the same country you expect to be a failure, as everyone else is living in 'false hope'. Are you sure you are not delusional yourself? Sit down and think about it. Who suffers if this country fails?

      I don't Blame you guys, you are definitely a product of the past 32years of corrupt administrations.

      Change is inevitable

  7. Nice jeweleries. As for me,I have no Xmas plans guess am just going to be home and snuggled up in bed. I need invites to come and eat in your various houses ohhh.* winks*.

  8. Wow! Those pieces of jewelry are beautiful, but seriously anyone giving me a gift like this is simply wasting something precious. I'm not a fan of jewelry so I don't know their value.

  9. Haba! How can just one person get ALL the gifts. Abeg Thelma start sharing. Unfortunately I don't know how to rock that type of jewelry. I only wear stud hearings and a tiny gold chain.

    As for the other topic, na them sabi...

    Merry Xmas everybody.

  10. Dear Memphis!

    We need to talk o!
    You need to explain to me what buhari and his cabinet are trying to do to the already crumbling economy and how their new economic policies would help us. The 80% increase in the unemployment rate? Kilo n sele? Are they done with blaming GEJ and are they planning to get to work and start to actually do something?! All these endless queues.. would it gonna end?

    A concerned former Buhari Loyalist.

    Me.. public holiday or not... i'm going to work to claim my overtime *shines teeth* 25th... Errr? not sure yet....! but I must have fun!
    Chocolate... can I use my iv now? I hear your mom makes the most amazing Christmas party food. Loool!
    Thelma wie now come and post pictures and make us salivate *side eye*

  11. We have too many things to worry about as a nation for me to concern myself about whether or not another Muslim holiday has been arbitrarily added to the Nigerian calendar. The argument about some supposed Islamist agenda is a waste of time and doesn't solve any of our real issues.

    Looking at previous comments, I noticed that a couple of them which fall into a certain kind of category (which I will not name) where posted by people hiding behind the "anonymous" tag. Calling out people in blog comments is just silly and Memphis need not justify himself at all to such people. Everyone should be allowed to support whomever they wish without someone trying to make them feel less human about it.

    Moving on... 5 day weekend. I thought people were confused until I heard the announcement myself. Sad thing about working from home and for myself is that I tend to forget holidays. I'll probably wake up and be at my computer at my regular time before realizing no one else is working for the next few days.

    Come, what do you plan to do with all that jewelry? Here's an idea, you can help a brother with his #SeizeTheBae project by donating one or two. Think about it.


  12. I'm getting married in a few days, whoop whoop. That's my X'mas plan.


    1. Whoop whoop! Congrats Jenny, happy married life hun, may your marriage be as sweet as honey. Why weren't we invited for the wedding???????????


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