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Dear Thelma... (He Asked For My Nude Pictures).

This guy started a conversation with me on whatsapp and it upgraded to BBM, we were chatting like long time friends and he requested for my nude pix, I told him I can't send him my nude picture.

He kept on pestering me so I Googled a nude pix and sent to him but after I did that I felt bad and apologize to him on 3 different occasions but he kept giving me attitude. 

On my birthday after wishing me a happy birthday he deleted me off BBM. I am wondering what I actually did wrong for him to tell me he doesn't trust me and I lost an opportunity to be a pal. 

He didn't even know the nude weren't mine, I was the one that told him and apologize and I told him I can't send him my nude.

Poster you're obviously a very young woman so I'd try to be more compassionate. First off kudos on sending him a google image, that was smart thinking. But you do need to place more value on yourself and realize that some people are not worthy of you. This guy in question is one of those people. It irks me to see you worry your pretty head over an absolute fuck-boy, some eejit that sits behind a screen, using your emotions for sport. YOU should have been the one to delete him from BBM and your life in its entirety. Who gets upset over nude pictures? Eishhhh!

Ps; you shouldn't have apologized about sending him a Google picture. Next time, just say no! Nobody who genuinely cares about you would pressure you into doing something you're so uncomfortable with. 


  1. Thelma has finished everything.

    You should have blocked him on whatsapp and deleted him from ur BBM the moment he asked for your nudes. He's not a boyfriend, much less a husband, just an ordinary acquaintance.

    In fact, like you already know, sending ur nudes to anyone is an absolute No No, and anyone who cannot live with that deserves no space in ur life and next time, dont give them an option in the matter, boot them out of ur life immediately!

    Dont worry your pretty head over the loser, its his loss.

  2. Imagine!!! And you even had time to google a picture? Receive sense IJN

  3. If it were the nude pictures he asked of you, that would have gained you his trust, then he is very cheap.
    How would a RANDOM guy be angry and giving you attitude because you refused to send nude pictures? Then says you lost a pal? LOL.
    He's a sad clown.

    You sef, what were you discussing with the guy that led to that kind of talks and you even trying to please him and stressing yourself to download Google image.*sideyes*

  4. Good riddance. You should have deleted him the second he asked. Next time, don't entertain it.

  5. As in u even went to google to search for nude pics for him!
    Hmmm u re obviously a very young girl and am very angry u allowed him to delete u first... Anyways What Thelma said is the 'it!

  6. The men we live with on earth. One word for him, PERVERT!

  7. Okay now,where is Mr Ojoro muffin.come and defend your brother.
    Poster I am angry with u for sending any pics at all.I dont care if its google pics or the real u.Always stand by your NO.
    He deleted you because you allowed him.All these "Holla at your boy" kinda boys.

    1. Exactly, you shouldn't have stooped so low above him to send him any nudes! I know you feel some form of attachment to him and would like to be caring/giving, but please don't lose your sense of esteem and self-worth in doing so. His requests, actions and subsequent reactions is enough for you to have a grasp of who you've been dealing with - a perv!

    2. Lmao @hola at your boy kinda boys,u ehhhhh. Some Boyd just be playing or acting stupid, plssss girl, next time u say no,I always say no when a guy asks for my "normal" picture talk more of a nudie, u wanna see me,do that in person,don't send.pix not to talk of nudie.

  8. Poster if you were my sister eeeh, I would have given you a small gift for been smart, and a knock for apologising to the anu Congo. Please thank your stars for dodging a bullet baby.

    Anyways what Tee said is the isssh.

  9. Lmao!!!! Nude pix? This is absolutely preposterous.

    You guys got chatting on bbm, whatsapp. Etc... Huh?

    You felt so pressured u sent a googled pix and he believed?
    You both are just youngins learning the trade of 'growing up'.
    Anyways, Pele for feeling bad he deleted you. Nothing much to say...
    Just learn your lessons from the comments here okay?

  10. The minute he asked for the nudes you should have hit the delete button. Dont be in too much of a hurry to have your heart broken.

  11. Good riddance.. Don't think of re-adding him if he resurfaces. He's not worth ur time.give urself some value.

  12. If you are below 17, what Thelma said. If you are above 17,na wa for you o.J

  13. Haaaa,pls ladies dnt ever make the mistake of sending a guy ur nudes,someone u r jus chatting with o,even ur boyfriends of many years its also dangerous,this is the internet age now.


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