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Must Read. Lynxx On The Only Thing That Could Keep Your Partner Faithful.

I loved reading this for two reasons. First off, because you wouldn't expect such inspiring words from a 20-something gorgeous sex symbol (although if you've ever watched or listened to any of his interviews, it's easy to deduce that he's a very sensible somebori). Secondly, because I've asked men who have been married for over eight years and claim never to have cheated, how exactly they do it. They say it's not because they love their wives that much, it's not because their wives are that hot, it's not that the opportunity hasn't presented itself (because it has, too many times), it's not because they're scared they'd get caught. It's because... Well read what Lynxx says below and share your thoughts. 

"People often say, Everyone cheats, Women hv learned it from men, men started it bla bla bla… Thats all “Worldly Talk” …alot of us are walking around blind… “Spiritually Blind” and there is only ONE source to restore that aspect of sight and thats from “Above”. What is a relationship without God being at the center? Ill tell u… Its full of Chaos, Deceit, selfishness, lies, cheating, etc Why? Because humans are prone to live for Self! We are fallen creatures and getting back up isnt something we can achieve on our Own.. There is no amount of Loubs, Bags or even House u wanna buy for your significant other to make that relationship “Secure” “Unless the Lord builds a house, those who build it labor in vain”
Dont be in the gym working on 6pac while a man with a pot belly is spending time with ur babe

Build you relationships on a Concrete foundation and sleep in Peace. Marriages, relationships, friendships all Weak and suffering today from Lack of Spiritual Life, the moment u realize money is never the answer ,the closer u r to a REAL solution. “The Fear of God Is the beginning of Wisdom” ….do yourself a favor and secure your lives and relationships “Properly”… People do things in the dark because they think YOU cant see them, but never forget as long as u r breathing, GOD is watching… Stop living Aloof, u deserve a life being “Awake” and not being a sleeping Giant… #FoodForThought"


  1. Basically, Our God is a Principled God. Live by his principles and you will be saved.

    These principles are taught and experienced. Although our imperfections will create mistakes along the way, but don't ever lose sight of the ultimate goal, To Live Happy.

    PS: "Even the life that you have is borrowed cos' no one knows tomorrow"- Akon

  2. This was from Lynxx? Wow... unbelievable... I guess we shudnt judge a book by its cover. Nice one Handsome

  3. My bro is officially born again now oh...forget all the onr he has done in the past- Jesus is his nee besto...he is speaking from his heart.

    Yes I am

    He has spoken very well

  4. Well spoken Lynxx. But how many people have a heart willing and ready for God to work on? My song everyday is for God to break me and mould into a virtues woman fit for my prince charming when the time comes.
    In another news please i need answer T in this issue bothering me; is 15 years age difference too much for one to continue with a relationship?

    1. Who's older the man or the woman? And how old is the younger person?

  5. Hmmmmmmm he spoke well. God is the ultimate,build anything without involving him then u are on your own.

  6. well said. I still stand my ground to say all married men cheat. prove me wrong my speaking for yourself.

    1. **by speaking for urself....

    2. Amara, i have been married for over 10yrs and have never cheated on my wife, i once worked away from where my family is based for 19months, they were temptations but still stood my ground. its not all married men that cheats

    3. Dkay you just inspired me, I keep telling my married friends that I will try not to cheat and they just laugh and tell me to keep quiet till I'm married.

  7. Opera final fixed itself and I can comment. Hi Thelma, Hi everyone. LolaOye

  8. Wow! Nice one coming from Lynxx. The fear of God is the only reason why a man or woman will not cheat on their SO, all other reasons will fade with time.

    This Lynxx looks so much like D'prince. I sometimes mistake one for the other.

  9. He spoke the truth, but we're not unfamiliar with this truth. Like Thelma pointed out: it's just kind of amazing this truth came from unexpected quarters.

    The major problem we have with service is that it's usually devoid of adequate love and filled mostly with fear. After all, "we're fallen creatures"(according to Lynxx) and tend to act that way. If couples were made to swear before a deity that they would remain faithful to each other till death, we would have little or no sob stories relating to infidelity. How come couples who (claim to) worship YAHWEH have these problems? Fear overshadows Love in worship and service

  10. i av bin reading thelmathinks couldnt comment cos i use opera. Beloved

  11. I agree with him. Fine boy that Lynx is ;)

  12. Since I saw that episode of "Real Talk" where Conniegirl had Lynxx, TeeA, IK and Gideon Okeke, I knew he has a good head on his shoulder not them Davido type of brain. This right here is the truth. Only the fear of God can keep you from cheating on your SO, not determination, self righteousness or love. I always tell my male colleagues, if you cheat on your wife, its not because you couldn't help it(cos no one forced you into the bed), its cos you wanted to. You thought about it and damned the consequences-physical and spiritual.

    PS: Lynxx is my number 1 man crush! Its so good to know he's no an airhead. I saw him a couple of weeks ago at Oriental and I was reduced to a blushing fish...hahaha My sis didn't even get it.

  13. Wonderful to read this and know what Lynxx has to say on it all... Cool if u ask me.

  14. wow! I can now comment on the blog after one year! praise the lord!

  15. I'm just grateful to Lynx that I now know how I'm going to achieve fidelity because I'd been wondering if I was going to able to do by my own power.


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