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My 2015 Flashback.

Things are looking very promising, and I know in good time I would be able to share my testimony in full. For now, all I can is my 2015 is the classic case of light at the end of the tunnel. 

Let's talk about your 2015. When you flashback how would you describe it, in as few or as many words as you choose. Share. 


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    1. Kon how was your own 2015?

  2. This is the thelma I used to love, it is your honesty that kept me glued to your blog but it's like you let people bully you to stop been open.

    My 2015, let me just say I'm still waiting on God.

    1. Same here,and I am very happy that things are looking up for you girlfriend.Remember we love you.

  3. Hmmmmmmmm my 2015 started out well but in the middle got bad,I got betrayals, I landed a very good Job but was told I wasn't fit enough cos of my size, I had a Fall out with mum that made her say hurt words to me,the man who has always cared about me and loved me stayed away from me suddenly when friends succeeded with their evil stories about me,went back to school but had to drop when I couldn't continue, feeding was hard, Jobs were not forth coming, I suddenly wasn't the smart girl I used to b,failed interviews that I will rarely never fail,I became a lone ranger always staying on her own, I found a bit of succour in an ex who I thought still lovrd me, I found out his true sef when I stupidly got pregnant, told him about it and he says I should give birth to his child and hand him or her over to him because he can't marry me,ohh how I cried,cried for days, I suddenly couldn't pray,a once vibrant Mfm worker became neither hot nor cold, this phase passed,I met a guy whom I thought loved me, only to later find out I was being used, ohhh I couldn't take it anymore, I spoke to Thelma about getting a job,she directed me to some place in Ikeja, just a minor question saw me failing, I couldn't understand what was happening to me. I suddenly graduated from one glass of vodka or spirit to a bottle, I started doing things I would rarely do on a good day n worse of all,I started smoking, I would lock my self up n smoke, stopped going to church for close to three months, my pastor came calling, every member interceded for me and suddenly I started getting back my life but it hasn't gotten to that level where it used to be,even in all this,m still thankful for life, m thankful because I had several attacks but God fought for me, I would dream of being attacked n somehow won the battle in my dream n when I wake up I could feel it,I just know that God never neglects his own, m starting my 2016 with high hopes and I know it would be better.

    1. "God never neglects His own"
      Words on marble. Keep on sister. Let's know how we can help.

      Wish you the best in 2016


    2. glad to hear things are finally looking up. one piece of advise though: take some time to look introspectively and discover whom you are as a person, as a woman. stay off boys and men for a while, and just go searching for you. afterwards, you can then go back into the dating pool with a renewal of mind and purpose. all the best.

  4. Hello Thelma. you really seem nice and has obviously gone through a lot. God knows best.. there's always a story behind a glory. Well my 2015 has been full of surprises.. all I can say is right now am happy and it feels good, Knowing my 2016 will be more glorious.. and I pray yours ll be so as well. Amen. Stay connected to ya Maker..

  5. You're a wonderful lady Thelma. By His grace 2016 shall be a year of great testimonies for us all-Amen.

    God still answers prayers. We only need to learn how to pray.

    My 2015 has been great:got a pay rise that I'd been awaiting for years, took my kids on a vacation-their very first time outside the shores of Nigeria, got back my marriage and started learning a vacation which I'm not doing badly in. There are still a lot more desires to accomplish but I believe God is still on my case.

    We shall all experience God's glory come 2016 in Jesus' name.


    1. Wow... Congratulations F..... So happy you got your marriage back.... I pray God perfects everything that concerns you guys and makes you whole.... I don't normally comment but I read this blog every chance I get.... And for some reason I seem to always be drawn to your comments... Happy new year....

  6. OMG, Thelma **huggg** It is well with you. I spent the year in annonymous mood and couldn't comment due to opera ishus. My flashback, well, this year went by pretty fast. Can't wait to be done with medical school in 2017. Everyother thing is kind of in a limbo till then. Happy new year house. May God perfect all that pertains to us

  7. D last day of d year n I'm suicidal... I feel like m in a bottomless pit... Tired of my Job and have this soul-tearinf loneliness n sadness... V been holding on for family..but m tired of holding on..m tired of merely existing...

    1. I pray you made it to 2016. Be strong and may the Lord Grant you supernatural Grace and sufficiency.

    2. My dear, I know how u feel oh! I'm sure the suicidal thoughts are only temporary... You need to reinvent yourself, don't be scared of new people In Ur life... Discover new friends, new purpose.
      Tired of your job, that means there's a source of income. U just don't like where its coming from.
      U gotta believe that what u want is what you will get, so take the challenge of finding what you want.
      Finding what u want is Ur challenge, take it on.

    3. Dear Anonymous, it gets darkest just before dawn. Just trust God that help is on the way! ***Hugs***

  8. It is well with u Thelma, God that has begun a good thing will complete it in Jesus name. Keep holding on dear God is definitely has just started with u.

    2015 has been a AMAZING year for me! I'm a product of grace really! U know when u are living the life u have always prayed for !
    God gave us a beautiful little girl
    Gave hubby a new fantastic job one of the best in his field
    Got to travel a lot around
    My whole family is in great health
    Even though the devil tried to steal my husband's life but failed woefully !!!
    I'm just so so grateful for this year it's been a year of victory upon victory
    And I believe that 2016 will be better in Jesus name!

  9. Light at the end of the tunnel is what I'm claiming for myself because my life is so unhappy right now, I don't even know where to start telling my story but I know that God is God and there is light at the end of my tunnel.


    For the hurting souls...those struggling with one issue or another are in my prayers...

  11. God will heal every broken heart in Jesus name. Happy New year

  12. May God guide everyone and help us all leading fulfilling and satisfying lives as we go forward.

  13. Wow!

    My 2015 was a mix. Towards the end I finally gota job and I believe HE is moving me towards greater things.

    2016........Shall see me moving from glory to glory.

  14. Why do people behave like that just stop picking someone's call,at least be bold enough to say goodbye to someone stating the offense and all.

    1. As in ehn! Its a veeery wicked thing to do and hurts a lot! And it comes from ppl very close to ur heart.

  15. Too much sadness, depression, anxiety in the world. May God help us all.

    Whatever it is you're going through just keep repeating to yourself " this too shall pass".

  16. 2015 was bittersweet. I know 2016 will be better and more glorious. Finishing med school in 2 1/2 months. Can't wait to see the MD behind my name. God will compensate me for all I have lost.


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