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Message has been sent and received, so I'm taking the post off. I really don't want to have a reminder of such unpleasantness everytime I open the blog. God bless...


  1. See me laughing in Spanish...yoruba's would say 'the ant that eats the vegetables,stay close to it....Thelma,u don't have to worry yourself,once God is lifting you up,u gats nothing to complain about....tnhw

  2. I remember the anon o. She called sasha bone your sidekick with acne face. Lol and smh

  3. When u read her comments u flinch unconsciously. As if d dagger was aimed at u not Thelma.
    Dr. N

  4. Alas! Alas! The cock has come to roost. It just had to be someone that knew you too well.

    Just be careful. I once had a colleague like this (I wouldn't call her a friend though). She would act like a saint in front of you and go behind your back to spoil my name to the Boss. The good thing is that I knew her type all along. Let's all watch and pray against unfriendly friends.

    Now the joke is on her. (lol)

  5. Omg! this is so deep as Adefunke said and I am even happy you know. This kind of person can hurt you sooooooooo bad. Good thing you have called her out, that saves you from awkward meetings.

  6. The day the anon attacked you and Sasha bone descriptively, I was convinced she was a close *friend*. But I didn't think she had an alter ego. That's really unfortunate.

  7. Na wa o.....
    Matthew 10:36


  8. Buahahahahaha...That awkward moment when ur "anonymous mode" still cldnt hide ur identity.
    Keep the hate flowing, the wind must always blow the fowl's (which is ur) behind open...

  9. It really bad, this made me remember an incident that happend to me in secondary sch.... Some pple are jst sick and wicked.

    They say d person close to u is always d one having evil plans & schemes against one.

  10. Not everyone that shines teeth for you truly loves you. Some people are terrible. Their hearts are infected with darkness. They are not born this way but they choose to be that way.

  11. Lol you could have simply traced the IP addresses sice. But how did you find out? Thats the part me I want to know.

    I have come to the conclusion that many people will be envious of your life whether or not you believe your life is worth envying is a totally different story. Folks will slander you to make themselves feel better but at the end of the day - keep your mind pureand you will always be vindicated.

  12. Some friends are the the beginning of wisdom.Some friends will actually kill you again even after you are dead.Though I am free with everyone but the moment I notice you might be the sand in my garri,I jejely backslide outta your won't even feel me slip away.

  13. Chim o!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Scary and sad. But I am not too surprised.

  14. Whop whop.. exactly when you pray and ask God to show you your enemies, you start loosing friends. Was it the same fellow that made (Ruthyliciuos) stop commenting? Your cup is full our so called BESTIE..

  15. Thelma. I stopped having girl friends long time ago. Let me go anonymous on this.My supposed bestie stabbed me on the face. She and her younger sister ruined my marriage. I cry each time I remember the story. Let God judge them.

  16. Waohhhh! Sorry Thelma, this would have hurt on so many levels. But human beings r such.

  17. I'm still sorry for Thelma.

    Thelma I don't know if I should plead with you or cast a spell on you or command you-lol to write the name of the person, at least the blog name.
    Else, I and Kabuoy (don't ask why I chose her within permission) would do some FBI stuff here and post it! *straight face*

    1. LOL. Nne lets temper justice with mercy, for now...

    2. Lmaoooo....
      Infact! I am beyond shocked.. i'm in my FBI mode o! Na to go dey dig up old posts...

      kai! beht why? I need to understand why she did all that! Why?!!!!

    3. Kabouy why you shock now? Yoruba will say aiye la ti baaa,eniyan ni eniyan maama jeee titi lailai,meaning humans will.always potray what makes them.humans. so shikena.

  18. "BTW this is just the prelude. Stay tuned, friend!"
    After Re-reading the above line I'd just chill, Thelma will tell us more.

  19. After People will think I am vitriolic toxic mean-spirited hurtful vindictive caustic.
    My hugs to you T.

    1. Lmao. People? Which people? You're giving us first-hand info about your personality.

    2. Thelma thinks commenters na, they r d people.

  20. Chai....the evil that men do

    What Miss pynk said though.....

  21. Thelma I think you are just going by assumption or sum1 made it up cos I'm sorry but there's no way you can know that unless the anon actually told you or you saw her fone while she was typing a hateful comment. I will advice you to be 100% certain so as not to ruin a friendship. I just hope it isn't another friend that supposedly told you. Dont jump to conclusions is all I'm saying.
    Don't let the ill talk bother you. You are fabulous.

    1. Why do I feel you are the anon??

    2. What you feel means nothing.keep feeling.

  22. Ghen! Ghen!! Ghen!!! ...Ghen!!!! That frightening moment.. You must have felt so awful. Well if I were you I ll watch who I tell it to, who knows they might be in on it as well. Thank God you finally know now, but to think she too was trying to find out who it was!!!! Wow. That babe is pretty mean. .

  23. Reason why i stopped being too close to friends...

  24. My people wud say 'Ede!!!!!!!!!
    Many a times,it always turns out dis way.only ur friend knows your secret n only him(in dis case 'her')can reveal it.all I can say is Thelma,u av to be very careful.dere is no need to reveal her identity,it shud be to ur knowledge only.buh d babe nor try @ll,n my dear pls be prayerful.I'm speaking 4rm experience,dese type of friends can do n undo.

  25. Chei! I knew it! It was very obvious! They'd comment simultaneously!!! Eya!

  26. The wonders of people especially girls. I have sinceeeee learned to be as wise as a serpent and as calm as a dove when dealing with frenemies. T biko shine ya eyes and do an end of year appraisal on your friend list.

  27. Hahahaahhahahahhah am.not surprised ohhhhh because wetin friends done do me and recently did to me,chqiiii,if I start to type ehhhh,am.not shocked at all T,am.done keeping friends ohhh,na who friend never show Go still dey keep them,right now,I be one man mopol. Thelma u found out because of your pure and open heart and plsss never STOL having an open heart to people,that's what saves me always, my open heart tends to reveal the evil anyone did or wants to do to me. And now to that friend, karma is the real bitch, karma will kach up with you soon,keep beefing, the more you beef,the more stagnant your life is,so keep it up.

  28. OMG pls wat did I miss ooooo.... someone fill me in

  29. Wait!!!! Aarrrgh... So I'm the only one who didn't see this post? Why Na?

    1. You are not the only one

    2. so the day I went on my 'blog holiday', I missed one of the most important post of recent times!

  30. This woman jealously any way she is ofe mmanu yoruba pple thats there way of life.

  31. OMG! I missed the drama. Although i'm sure i wont get an answer, someone should please tell me exactly what happened.

    1. Pls someone tell us what happened now, it's not fair abeg.

  32. Ha you missed o.thelma told us the story of how the tortoise fell from the sky and had crack back. J

    1. Hahahahaaa! J!!! Be nice!!!!!

    2. Hahahaha, ela! This one entered sha

  33. Friends... How many of us have them? How many of us can really beat our chests and say "I am a good friend"?

    1. Hmmmmmmmmm food for thought Steele.


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