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Dear Thelma (Did I Make a Mistake?)




Hey T, great job you're doing on your blog. Please help me post:

My boyfriend of two years is a great guy. We have a very good and honest relationship which naturally I'm hoping will lead to marriage by Gods grace. We have different personalities, while he's the extroverted outgoing type, I prefer to be indoors most times. I have changed a bit because of him as he encourages me to go out more and although I don't enjoy certain activities like clubbing or partying I sometimes follow him because he wants me to. I'm actually flattered that he wants me to follow him to places like clubs because his friend once said something like bringing your girlfriend to the club is like taking sand to the beach lol. I know most guys would rather go alone so that they can be free to do whatever they want. He's a fine guy with a very nice job and because of his personality he tends to attract a lot of people and girls seem to like him a lot. On Friday night I didn't want to go clubbing so he went alone. But he was later honest with me, he confessed that he met some chic at the club and they danced together and later got talking and he said he gave her his number when she asked because he didn't know how to say no. I was not comfortable at all but at least he was honest about it so I calmed myself down. Now, this Sunday morning he asked me if its okay to invite her over for drinks and I said yes. Please have I made a mistake? 
Ps. We live together btw so I'm going to be here when she comes.



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Editor's note: hmmmmmm

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  1. Lord save me karashika,girl what planet do u come from??? Shoooooo,how could u accept such a thing?letter of invitation to cheating, don't say I didn't tell u.

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  2. For the fact they met in a club doesn't mean she's karashika na. She just MIGHT be a decent girl who went to unwind at the club.I'm just against inviting someone you hardly know or just met to your home. I wouldn't have accepted her coming for the drink but since you have,play cool,observe her,use your feminine instincts then draw your conclusion on what to do next.

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  3. Lol so by December you will write Thelma on how this girl stole your man. ??? Babe better be sharp!!!!

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  4. Why would your boyfriend want to invite the girl he met on Friday for a drink on Sunday. Hmmmmm ok o. If you were ok with it you won't be writing Thelma,as you are not ok with it why did you agree. J

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  5. Not a good move. However, since the mistake has been made. Let her know she is your man, and he is unavailable.

    Next time, go clubbing since you now know your man can't say NO!!!

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  6. Yo! So I was reading a post from last week when I saw Kabuoy mention pegging and I went to google it. Dang!

    How can Kabuoy of all pple know these things and we na know???

    Kabuoy, I don't trust u again!

    Who the hell invented the pegging of an ish??

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    1. Lmaooooo!!!!!! Eesah! Come on now! You know you can trust me.
      In my defense, I was jejely scrolling through posts on BN when I saw it too o. Na Google me too I google am o to know the meaning. Loooooool!

      http://www.bellanaija.com/2016/01/sandra-dairo-lets-talk-about-sex-baby/

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  7. Let her come, please show ur jealousy and unapproval of her presence in ur man's life. The earlier u know ur stand the better for you, cos u don't know what he has told her.

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  8. Let her come, please show ur jealousy and unapproval of her presence in ur man's life. The earlier u know ur stand the better for you, cos u don't know what he has told her.

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  9. I just thought of one quote when I read this story... " Keep your friends close, your enemies closer" the guy might just be really outgoing... some people are like that I understand. well Babe you don already gree.. oya shine ya eyes wella and if you think things are getting out of hands... one fast solution... meet someone next week Monday and ask to bring them home for lunch or breakfast on wednesday... it will wake some people up. Note- don't act jealous or malicious, it'll drive him from you, be all smiles but shine ya eyes

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    1. I ;ike your solution anon... just be little miss sunshine dear poster, albeit the serpent inspired kind.

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  10. I see a threesome coming up.

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    1. Loooool! *pours holy water in Kon*

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  11. I am Mr. Jorge really want to tell the whole world what Dr. Iyere greatest spell caster done for me this is tears of joy. My wife left for USA last eight months and there after she refused to come home i called and i called and she persisted then instantly i knew something was wrong somewhere i searched for helped from the vertical to horizontal and yet to no avail. I cried and cried but she was not going to come back to me, i keep a search on internet to get suggestions from anywhere that i can then contact and i came across a testimony relating to my case with this email (dr.iyere@hotmail.com) but to say the fact though i wanted to do anything to have my wife back i still have doubt that this couldn't work cause i don't believe in superstition but i just put a trial by emailing the (dr.iyere@hotmail.com) The reply i got was striking that my wife had been spellbound by another man, i screamed help but he said not worry and instruct me what to do and i did exactly as i was instructed. to my greatest surprise two days later my wife called and she was crying to me and not knowing what to do i bust into tears too but it was a tears of joy. so i will use this medium to urge every single soul with problem of any kind to try and contact this email. (dr.iyere@hotmail.com) or call +2348036544184 Dr. Iyere is a solution provider.

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  12. My life became devastated when my husband sent me packing, after 8 years that we have been together. I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to make my husband take me back. One day at work, i was absent minded not knowing that my boss was calling me, so he sat and asked me what its was all about i told him and he smiled and said that it was not a problem. I never understand what he meant by it wasn't a problem getting my husband back, he said he used a spell to get his wife back when she left him for another man and now they are together till date and at first i was shocked hearing such thing from my boss. He gave me an email address of the great spell caster who helped him get his wife back, i never believed this would work but i had no choice that to get in contact with the spell caster which i did, and he requested for my information and that of my husband to enable him cast the spell and i sent him the details, but after two days, my mom called me that my husband came pleading that he wants me back, i never believed it because it was just like a dream and i had to rush down to my mothers place and to my greatest surprise, my husband was kneeling before me pleading for forgiveness that he wants me and the kid back home, then i gave Happy a call regarding sudden change of my husband and he made it clear to me that my husband will love me till the end of the world, that he will never leave my sight. Now me and my husband is back together again and has started doing pleasant things he hasn't done before, he makes me happy and do what he is suppose to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need help of any kind, kindly contact Happy for help and you can reach him via email: happylovespell2@gmail.com

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