Hey T, great job you're doing on your blog. Please help me post:
My boyfriend of two years is a great guy. We have a very good and honest relationship which naturally I'm hoping will lead to marriage by Gods grace. We have different personalities, while he's the extroverted outgoing type, I prefer to be indoors most times. I have changed a bit because of him as he encourages me to go out more and although I don't enjoy certain activities like clubbing or partying I sometimes follow him because he wants me to. I'm actually flattered that he wants me to follow him to places like clubs because his friend once said something like bringing your girlfriend to the club is like taking sand to the beach lol. I know most guys would rather go alone so that they can be free to do whatever they want. He's a fine guy with a very nice job and because of his personality he tends to attract a lot of people and girls seem to like him a lot. On Friday night I didn't want to go clubbing so he went alone. But he was later honest with me, he confessed that he met some chic at the club and they danced together and later got talking and he said he gave her his number when she asked because he didn't know how to say no. I was not comfortable at all but at least he was honest about it so I calmed myself down. Now, this Sunday morning he asked me if its okay to invite her over for drinks and I said yes. Please have I made a mistake?
Ps. We live together btw so I'm going to be here when she comes.
Editor's note: hmmmmmm.